Please pray for me my partner is very rude to me everyday and angry at me for little reasoand everyday I worry he is cheating because he used to cheat
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We hear the deep pain and anxiety in your heart, and we want to lift you up in truth and love before the Lord. First, we must address something critical: you refer to this man as your "partner," but Scripture makes it clear that the only God-honoring relationship between a man and a woman is within the covenant of marriage (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). If you are not married to this man, you are living in a relationship that the Bible defines as fornication, which is sinful in God’s sight (1 Corinthians 6:18, Galatians 5:19). This is not said to condemn you but to lovingly urge you toward repentance and alignment with God’s design. If you are living together outside of marriage, this must be addressed—either through marriage or separation—for you to walk in obedience to Christ. The Lord cannot bless what He has called sin, and remaining in this situation will only bring more heartache, confusion, and spiritual bondage.
Additionally, your fears about his infidelity are not unfounded, given his history of cheating. The Bible warns us that "bad company corrupts good morals" (1 Corinthians 15:33) and that we are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers or those who live in unrepentant sin (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a believer or is not walking in repentance, you are setting yourself up for continual pain. Proverbs 22:24-25 says, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* His rude jokes, anger, and history of unfaithfulness are not traits of a man who fears the Lord. A godly husband is called to love his wife as Christ loves the church—sacrificially, patiently, and faithfully (Ephesians 5:25). What you are describing is the opposite of that.
You mentioned that you’ve been praying, but we notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your request. This is vital, for Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him. Without Christ, your prayers lack the power and authority that come from being in right relationship with God.
Now, let us pray for you with truth and hope in Jesus’ name:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister before You, asking for Your mercy, wisdom, and protection over her life. Lord, we pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and convict her heart if she is in a relationship that does not honor You. Father, if she is living in sin outside of marriage, we ask for the courage to repent and turn away from it. Give her the strength to make godly choices, even if it means walking away from this man if he is not committed to You or to faithfulness.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and deception that has taken hold of her heart. Your Word says, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that You would replace her anxiety with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:6-7). If this man has been unfaithful or is harboring sin in his heart, expose it, Lord. Bring conviction upon him, and if he is unwilling to repent, sever this unhealthy bond for her sake.
Father, we pray that You would surround her with godly community—believers who will speak truth into her life and encourage her to seek a relationship that aligns with Your will. If she is not yet saved, Lord, draw her to Yourself. Let her see her need for Jesus and surrender her life to Him. If she is Your child, strengthen her faith and help her to trust You fully, even in this painful season.
We pray for her future, Lord. If it is Your will for her to be married, prepare a godly husband for her—one who loves You, walks in integrity, and will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Until then, give her contentment in You alone. Help her to find her identity and worth in Christ, not in the approval or affection of a man.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this situation. Read His Word daily, especially passages on godly relationships (Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Corinthians 7, Proverbs 31). If you are not married to this man, we strongly encourage you to separate from this relationship until it can be made right before God—either through marriage (if he is a believer and repents) or by walking away entirely. You deserve to be treated with the love, respect, and kindness that reflect Christ, not with anger, disrespect, and infidelity.
If you feel lost or unsure of how to proceed, reach out to a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can guide you with wisdom. The Lord sees your pain, and He has a plan for your life—one that is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2). Trust Him, even when it’s hard. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Additionally, your fears about his infidelity are not unfounded, given his history of cheating. The Bible warns us that "bad company corrupts good morals" (1 Corinthians 15:33) and that we are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers or those who live in unrepentant sin (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a believer or is not walking in repentance, you are setting yourself up for continual pain. Proverbs 22:24-25 says, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* His rude jokes, anger, and history of unfaithfulness are not traits of a man who fears the Lord. A godly husband is called to love his wife as Christ loves the church—sacrificially, patiently, and faithfully (Ephesians 5:25). What you are describing is the opposite of that.
You mentioned that you’ve been praying, but we notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your request. This is vital, for Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him. Without Christ, your prayers lack the power and authority that come from being in right relationship with God.
Now, let us pray for you with truth and hope in Jesus’ name:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister before You, asking for Your mercy, wisdom, and protection over her life. Lord, we pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and convict her heart if she is in a relationship that does not honor You. Father, if she is living in sin outside of marriage, we ask for the courage to repent and turn away from it. Give her the strength to make godly choices, even if it means walking away from this man if he is not committed to You or to faithfulness.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and deception that has taken hold of her heart. Your Word says, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that You would replace her anxiety with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:6-7). If this man has been unfaithful or is harboring sin in his heart, expose it, Lord. Bring conviction upon him, and if he is unwilling to repent, sever this unhealthy bond for her sake.
Father, we pray that You would surround her with godly community—believers who will speak truth into her life and encourage her to seek a relationship that aligns with Your will. If she is not yet saved, Lord, draw her to Yourself. Let her see her need for Jesus and surrender her life to Him. If she is Your child, strengthen her faith and help her to trust You fully, even in this painful season.
We pray for her future, Lord. If it is Your will for her to be married, prepare a godly husband for her—one who loves You, walks in integrity, and will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Until then, give her contentment in You alone. Help her to find her identity and worth in Christ, not in the approval or affection of a man.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this situation. Read His Word daily, especially passages on godly relationships (Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Corinthians 7, Proverbs 31). If you are not married to this man, we strongly encourage you to separate from this relationship until it can be made right before God—either through marriage (if he is a believer and repents) or by walking away entirely. You deserve to be treated with the love, respect, and kindness that reflect Christ, not with anger, disrespect, and infidelity.
If you feel lost or unsure of how to proceed, reach out to a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can guide you with wisdom. The Lord sees your pain, and He has a plan for your life—one that is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2). Trust Him, even when it’s hard. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
We're here with you, sister, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We've been where you are, feeling the anxiety and pain that comes from a partner's unfaithfulness and rudeness. It's a heavy burden to bear, but remember, God is always there, ready to lift you up.
We understand that it's tough to see the forest for the trees when you're in the middle of a storm. But we want to encourage you to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. God's word is clear that a God-honoring relationship between a man and a woman is within the covenant of marriage. If you're not married to this man, it's important to consider the biblical perspective on your relationship. God calls us to live in obedience to Him, and that includes our relationships.
We also want to address your fears about his infidelity. His history of cheating is a red flag that shouldn't be ignored. The Bible warns us about being unequally yoked with unbelievers or those who live in unrepentant sin. If he's not a believer or not walking in repentance, it's setting you up for continual pain.
We've been praying for you, and we want to remind you to invoke the name of Jesus in your prayers. There's power in His name, and it's through faith in Him that we have access to the Father.
So, let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come before you today with a heavy heart. We ask for your mercy, wisdom, and protection over our ###. Lord, open her eyes to the truth of your word. If she's in a relationship that doesn't honor you, give her the courage to repent and turn away from it. Give her the strength to make godly choices, even if it means walking away from this man if he's not committed to you or faithfulness.
Lord, rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and deception that's taken hold of her heart. Replace her anxiety with your peace, which surpasses all understanding. If this man has been unfaithful or is harboring sin in his heart, expose it, Lord. Bring conviction upon him, and if he's unwilling to repent, sever this unhealthy bond for her sake.
Father, surround her with godly community - believers who will speak truth into her life and encourage her to seek a relationship that aligns with your will. If she's not yet saved, Lord, draw her to yourself. Let her see her need for Jesus and surrender her life to Him. If she's your child, strengthen her faith and help her to trust you fully, even in this painful season.
We pray for her future, Lord. If it's your will for her to be married, prepare a godly husband for her - one who loves you, walks in integrity, and will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Until then, give her contentment in you alone. Help her to find her identity and worth in Christ, not in the approval or affection of a man.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
###, we urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this situation. Read His word daily, especially passages on godly relationships. If you're not married to this man, we strongly encourage you to separate from this relationship until it can be made right before God - either through marriage (if he's a believer and repents) or by walking away entirely. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness that reflects Christ, not with anger, disrespect, and infidelity.
If you feel lost or unsure of how to proceed, reach out to a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can guide you with wisdom. The Lord sees your pain, and He has a plan for your life - one that's good, pleasing, and perfect. Trust Him, even when it's hard. He will never leave you nor forsake you.
We understand that it's tough to see the forest for the trees when you're in the middle of a storm. But we want to encourage you to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. God's word is clear that a God-honoring relationship between a man and a woman is within the covenant of marriage. If you're not married to this man, it's important to consider the biblical perspective on your relationship. God calls us to live in obedience to Him, and that includes our relationships.
We also want to address your fears about his infidelity. His history of cheating is a red flag that shouldn't be ignored. The Bible warns us about being unequally yoked with unbelievers or those who live in unrepentant sin. If he's not a believer or not walking in repentance, it's setting you up for continual pain.
We've been praying for you, and we want to remind you to invoke the name of Jesus in your prayers. There's power in His name, and it's through faith in Him that we have access to the Father.
So, let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come before you today with a heavy heart. We ask for your mercy, wisdom, and protection over our ###. Lord, open her eyes to the truth of your word. If she's in a relationship that doesn't honor you, give her the courage to repent and turn away from it. Give her the strength to make godly choices, even if it means walking away from this man if he's not committed to you or faithfulness.
Lord, rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and deception that's taken hold of her heart. Replace her anxiety with your peace, which surpasses all understanding. If this man has been unfaithful or is harboring sin in his heart, expose it, Lord. Bring conviction upon him, and if he's unwilling to repent, sever this unhealthy bond for her sake.
Father, surround her with godly community - believers who will speak truth into her life and encourage her to seek a relationship that aligns with your will. If she's not yet saved, Lord, draw her to yourself. Let her see her need for Jesus and surrender her life to Him. If she's your child, strengthen her faith and help her to trust you fully, even in this painful season.
We pray for her future, Lord. If it's your will for her to be married, prepare a godly husband for her - one who loves you, walks in integrity, and will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Until then, give her contentment in you alone. Help her to find her identity and worth in Christ, not in the approval or affection of a man.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
###, we urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this situation. Read His word daily, especially passages on godly relationships. If you're not married to this man, we strongly encourage you to separate from this relationship until it can be made right before God - either through marriage (if he's a believer and repents) or by walking away entirely. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness that reflects Christ, not with anger, disrespect, and infidelity.
If you feel lost or unsure of how to proceed, reach out to a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can guide you with wisdom. The Lord sees your pain, and He has a plan for your life - one that's good, pleasing, and perfect. Trust Him, even when it's hard. He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Floerdale
Disciple of Prayer
Thank you for praying for me. I do believe in Jesus and I do pray in Jesus's name. My partner and I are engaged to be married. He said he believes in God but doesn’t believe in Jesus’s resurrection. He just thinks there is a higher power and he believes Jesus could have existed. Does that mean he is a believer or not? He prays with me daily but doesn’t read the Bible. He told me he is sorry for cheating and being angry but continues to be rude as he says it’s just a joke. I’m pregnant with this man so I can’t just leave him no matter how he treats me. I love him very much. I just want him to be better.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
