please pray for me and my relationship with fionce
We hear your deep distress and stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting this situation before the throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. The spirit of Jezebel is a real and destructive force, one that seeks to control, manipulate, and destroy godly relationships, particularly marriages. We rebuke this spirit in the name of Jesus and command it to loose its hold on your fiancé immediately. The Word of God declares in James 4:7, "Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." We stand on this promise, believing that as we resist this evil influence, it must flee.
First, we must address the foundation of your relationship. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, ordained by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you and your fiancé are not yet married, we encourage you to examine whether this relationship is honoring to God in every way. Are you both committed to purity, faithfulness, and godly principles? If there has been any sexual immorality (fornication), we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Confess this sin before the Lord, and if possible, seek counsel from a trusted pastor or mature Christian couple to help you walk in holiness as you prepare for marriage.
Now, let us pray with authority over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We thank You for the blood of Jesus, which has broken every chain and defeated every enemy (Revelation 12:11). Lord, we lift up this relationship before You, asking that You would expose and dismantle every ungodly influence, particularly the spirit of Jezebel that has sought to entangle this man. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we command every lying, seducing, and controlling spirit to flee in Jesus’ name!
Father, we ask that You would fill this man with Your Holy Spirit, that he would be led by Your truth and not by deception (John 16:13). Give him discernment to recognize the enemy’s schemes and the strength to resist them. Soften his heart to hear Your voice and to walk in obedience to Your Word. We pray that You would surround him with godly men who will speak life, truth, and accountability into his life, that he would not be swayed by ungodly influences.
For this woman who has been operating in the spirit of Jezebel, we pray that Your conviction would fall upon her. If she is a believer, Lord, bring her to repentance and restoration. If she is not, we ask that You would draw her to Yourself, that she would come to know the saving grace of Jesus Christ. We declare that her plans will not succeed, and that Your perfect will would be done in this situation.
Lord, we also lift up the one who has written this request. Strengthen her faith, fill her with Your peace, and remind her that she is not fighting against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Help her to trust in You completely, knowing that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28). Give her wisdom in how to pray, how to support her fiancé, and how to walk in love without enabling sin.
We plead the blood of Jesus over this relationship, covering it in protection, purity, and purpose. May Your will be done, Lord, and may Your name be glorified in every aspect of this situation. We thank You for victory in Jesus’ name, and we receive it by faith. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to take practical steps to guard your relationship. Surround yourselves with a community of believers who can provide godly counsel and accountability. If this woman has been a persistent influence, it may be necessary to set firm boundaries to protect your relationship. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Be vigilant in guarding your hearts and minds, filling them with God’s Word and truth.
If there has been any involvement in the occult, false teachings, or ungodly soul ties, these must be renounced and broken in the name of Jesus. The Bible is clear that we cannot serve two masters (Matthew 6:24), and any compromise with darkness will only bring destruction. Confess any known sin, and ask the Lord to cleanse and restore you both.
Finally, remember that your hope is not in your fiancé’s strength or your own efforts, but in the power of God. Psalm 62:5-6 says, "My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my expectation is from Him. He alone is my rock and my salvation, my fortress. I will not be shaken." Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that you ask or think (Ephesians 3:20), and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
We stand with you in this battle, believing that God will bring victory and restoration. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in faith. The enemy may have a foothold for a season, but he does not have the final say. Jesus does, and His name is victorious!
First, we must address the foundation of your relationship. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, ordained by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you and your fiancé are not yet married, we encourage you to examine whether this relationship is honoring to God in every way. Are you both committed to purity, faithfulness, and godly principles? If there has been any sexual immorality (fornication), we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Confess this sin before the Lord, and if possible, seek counsel from a trusted pastor or mature Christian couple to help you walk in holiness as you prepare for marriage.
Now, let us pray with authority over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We thank You for the blood of Jesus, which has broken every chain and defeated every enemy (Revelation 12:11). Lord, we lift up this relationship before You, asking that You would expose and dismantle every ungodly influence, particularly the spirit of Jezebel that has sought to entangle this man. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we command every lying, seducing, and controlling spirit to flee in Jesus’ name!
Father, we ask that You would fill this man with Your Holy Spirit, that he would be led by Your truth and not by deception (John 16:13). Give him discernment to recognize the enemy’s schemes and the strength to resist them. Soften his heart to hear Your voice and to walk in obedience to Your Word. We pray that You would surround him with godly men who will speak life, truth, and accountability into his life, that he would not be swayed by ungodly influences.
For this woman who has been operating in the spirit of Jezebel, we pray that Your conviction would fall upon her. If she is a believer, Lord, bring her to repentance and restoration. If she is not, we ask that You would draw her to Yourself, that she would come to know the saving grace of Jesus Christ. We declare that her plans will not succeed, and that Your perfect will would be done in this situation.
Lord, we also lift up the one who has written this request. Strengthen her faith, fill her with Your peace, and remind her that she is not fighting against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Help her to trust in You completely, knowing that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28). Give her wisdom in how to pray, how to support her fiancé, and how to walk in love without enabling sin.
We plead the blood of Jesus over this relationship, covering it in protection, purity, and purpose. May Your will be done, Lord, and may Your name be glorified in every aspect of this situation. We thank You for victory in Jesus’ name, and we receive it by faith. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to take practical steps to guard your relationship. Surround yourselves with a community of believers who can provide godly counsel and accountability. If this woman has been a persistent influence, it may be necessary to set firm boundaries to protect your relationship. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Be vigilant in guarding your hearts and minds, filling them with God’s Word and truth.
If there has been any involvement in the occult, false teachings, or ungodly soul ties, these must be renounced and broken in the name of Jesus. The Bible is clear that we cannot serve two masters (Matthew 6:24), and any compromise with darkness will only bring destruction. Confess any known sin, and ask the Lord to cleanse and restore you both.
Finally, remember that your hope is not in your fiancé’s strength or your own efforts, but in the power of God. Psalm 62:5-6 says, "My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my expectation is from Him. He alone is my rock and my salvation, my fortress. I will not be shaken." Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that you ask or think (Ephesians 3:20), and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
We stand with you in this battle, believing that God will bring victory and restoration. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in faith. The enemy may have a foothold for a season, but he does not have the final say. Jesus does, and His name is victorious!
Sister, we hear the heartache in your words and we are praying with you. When another woman’s presence feels like a threat to the man you love, it cuts deep, and when it carries a sense of spiritual assault, the weight is heavy indeed. We are not going to tell you this is nothing; we are going to stand with you in the thick of it.
One thing that can help right now is to be deliberate about where you fix your eyes. The enemy loves to make us obsess over the threat, because fear, suspicion, and rehearsing worst-case scenarios leave us exhausted and more vulnerable. Instead, in the quiet of your own time with the Lord, lay your burden out honestly, and then deliberately turn your attention to Christ’s authority and faithfulness. He is the one who holds your fiancé’s heart, and He is more than able to guard it.
At the same time, resist the pull to confront, scheme, or take matters into your own hands. Holding your peace while trusting God to fight for you is not passivity, it is some of the strongest spiritual warfare you can wage. Keep your own heart clean, speak truth gently when you’re with your fiancé, and let your stability be anchored in the Lord, not in the shifting feelings of the moment.
Let us pray with you now.
Father, we come to You in the mighty name of Jesus. We ask for Your covering over our sister right now, guard her mind from fear, her heart from despair, and her spirit from any lie that says You are not at work. We pray against every spiritual force that is trying to disrupt this relationship and draw her fiancé into confusion or compromise. In Jesus’ name we command any deceptive hold to be broken. Strengthen him to see clearly, to desire purity, and to walk in wisdom. And give our sister the quiet confidence that comes from knowing You are her defender. We ask all of this in the name and by the authority of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
One thing that can help right now is to be deliberate about where you fix your eyes. The enemy loves to make us obsess over the threat, because fear, suspicion, and rehearsing worst-case scenarios leave us exhausted and more vulnerable. Instead, in the quiet of your own time with the Lord, lay your burden out honestly, and then deliberately turn your attention to Christ’s authority and faithfulness. He is the one who holds your fiancé’s heart, and He is more than able to guard it.
At the same time, resist the pull to confront, scheme, or take matters into your own hands. Holding your peace while trusting God to fight for you is not passivity, it is some of the strongest spiritual warfare you can wage. Keep your own heart clean, speak truth gently when you’re with your fiancé, and let your stability be anchored in the Lord, not in the shifting feelings of the moment.
Let us pray with you now.
Father, we come to You in the mighty name of Jesus. We ask for Your covering over our sister right now, guard her mind from fear, her heart from despair, and her spirit from any lie that says You are not at work. We pray against every spiritual force that is trying to disrupt this relationship and draw her fiancé into confusion or compromise. In Jesus’ name we command any deceptive hold to be broken. Strengthen him to see clearly, to desire purity, and to walk in wisdom. And give our sister the quiet confidence that comes from knowing You are her defender. We ask all of this in the name and by the authority of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The trial you endure is heavy upon your heart, and you do well to flee to the throne of grace in the name of Jesus Christ. The enemy seeks to hold souls in bondage, but remember, the Spirit of God makes the Word “mighty to the pulling down of strongholds.” There is no chain that the precious blood of Jesus cannot break, and no spiritual tyranny that the Holy Spirit cannot overthrow. Lift up the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God, for it is sharp and conquering. Plead the promises, and trust not in your own striving, but in Him who is the Author of all spiritual life.
Beware of grieving the Holy Spirit by unbelief, for it is His office to glorify Christ. He will take of the things of Jesus and show them to you and to your ###. Pray in the Spirit with fervency, and though the answer tarry, know that the Spirit works even in silence, and His seal is upon all who are truly the Lord’s. That spirit which does not glorify Christ is not of God, and the Spirit who dwells within the saints is greater than he that is in the world. Cast this burden upon the Lord, and wait upon Him who hears the cry of the broken-hearted.
Together let us bring this petition before the mercy seat: Almighty God, bless this Your daughter. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and by His all-sufficient blood, rend the stronghold of every unclean influence that has laid hold upon her ###. May the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, wound the heart that is ensnared and lead it to the Cross. Break the power of the enemy, and grant deliverance that Christ alone may be glorified. We look to You, O Spirit of Truth, to accomplish the spiritual wonders that no human hand can perform. Amen.
Beware of grieving the Holy Spirit by unbelief, for it is His office to glorify Christ. He will take of the things of Jesus and show them to you and to your ###. Pray in the Spirit with fervency, and though the answer tarry, know that the Spirit works even in silence, and His seal is upon all who are truly the Lord’s. That spirit which does not glorify Christ is not of God, and the Spirit who dwells within the saints is greater than he that is in the world. Cast this burden upon the Lord, and wait upon Him who hears the cry of the broken-hearted.
Together let us bring this petition before the mercy seat: Almighty God, bless this Your daughter. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and by His all-sufficient blood, rend the stronghold of every unclean influence that has laid hold upon her ###. May the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, wound the heart that is ensnared and lead it to the Cross. Break the power of the enemy, and grant deliverance that Christ alone may be glorified. We look to You, O Spirit of Truth, to accomplish the spiritual wonders that no human hand can perform. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
The battle you describe is real, and the enemy works through those who resist God’s order. But take care that your heart does not become a snare of bitterness. When Peter confronted Simon, who thought to buy the Spirit’s power, he saw the man was “in the gall of bitterness and in the bond of iniquity.” Pray instead that your own spirit be cleansed, for the Spirit given to us is one of meekness, like a dove. That dove appeared when the world was drowning in wickedness, not with wrath but with an olive branch, signaling a new creation through grace.
So you, too, must seek first the peace that comes from forgiving, even as Christ forgave His enemies. This does not mean blessing what is sinful, God forbid, but refusing to let rage ferment into a root of jealousy. The Scriptures teach us to wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness. Therefore, pray for deliverance from the evil one, yes, but also pray that your fiancé’s heart would be turned by the kindness of God, not crushed by your anguish.
You are asking for prayer, and that is good, for the brethren strive together in such conflicts. Yet remember that the truest deliverance is not always the removal of the trial, but the grace to endure it with a soul made steadfast. Christ permitted His own to suffer, that they might learn to despise death and cling to immortal promises. So we pray: Lord, by Your precious blood, break every unholy tie, expose deceiving spirits, and grant this woman the serenity of a soul anchored in Your will.
Give her a spirit of power and love and a sound mind, that she may walk in the adoption You have given, unshaken by the threats of the enemy. Amen.
So you, too, must seek first the peace that comes from forgiving, even as Christ forgave His enemies. This does not mean blessing what is sinful, God forbid, but refusing to let rage ferment into a root of jealousy. The Scriptures teach us to wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness. Therefore, pray for deliverance from the evil one, yes, but also pray that your fiancé’s heart would be turned by the kindness of God, not crushed by your anguish.
You are asking for prayer, and that is good, for the brethren strive together in such conflicts. Yet remember that the truest deliverance is not always the removal of the trial, but the grace to endure it with a soul made steadfast. Christ permitted His own to suffer, that they might learn to despise death and cling to immortal promises. So we pray: Lord, by Your precious blood, break every unholy tie, expose deceiving spirits, and grant this woman the serenity of a soul anchored in Your will.
Give her a spirit of power and love and a sound mind, that she may walk in the adoption You have given, unshaken by the threats of the enemy. Amen.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
Silas
Beloved of All
The pain in your request is real, and the spiritual battle you sense is not imaginary. But the answer does not rest in your own strength to break a hold over your fiancé. When the spirit is made alive through the new birth, a war begins within: the flesh and the Spirit are contrary to one another. That war will not be won by straining harder or by focusing all your energy on the other woman. The works of the flesh cannot be mortified by self-effort. If we, by the Spirit, put to death the deeds of the flesh, then we live. The Holy Spirit is the one who does for us what we cannot do for ourselves.
Instead of letting your mind be consumed with what this woman is doing, turn your inner gaze to your own walk. Are you sowing to the Spirit or to the flesh? To be spiritually minded is life and peace. Your relationship with God must be uppermost, because that relationship enhances every other human relationship. When your spirit is in communion with His Spirit, He bears witness that you are His child. That intimate cry of "Father" is your anchor right now. You have not received a spirit of bondage again to fear, but the Spirit of adoption. So pour out your heart to Him, not from a posture of panic, but as a daughter resting in the love of the One who gave His Son for you.
Jesus began His ministry full of the Holy Spirit, led by the Spirit, and empowered by the Spirit. The same Spirit who anointed Him to set captives free now dwells in you. As you yield to the Spirit's control, your mind will be renewed, and the fruit of the Spirit will begin to push out the weeds of fear and desperation. It is not that you deny the problem or ignore the stronghold; it is that you fight from a higher plane. Walk in the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. That promise covers more than your own inner battles; it is a law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus that can break chains in your situation when you operate in it by faith.
So set your heart on things above. Let the Spirit flood you with an awareness of Christ's finished work. His precious blood has already shattered every condemnatory claim against you and accomplished the complete victory. Your part is not to wrestle the Jezebel spirit out of your fiancé's life by your own willpower; your part is to live as a daughter of promise, led by the Spirit, praying in the Spirit, and trusting the Father to bring light into the darkness as you abide in Him. As you sow to the Spirit, you will reap of the Spirit. That reaping includes a harvest of deliverance that can affect those you love.
Father, I ask You to quiet this dear woman's soul. Let the Spirit bear witness deep within her spirit that You hold her secure. Release a fresh yielding to the Holy Spirit, that her mind would be set on You and not on the threatening roar of the enemy. Let her know the closeness that cries "Abba." And by the power that raised Jesus from the dead, bring confusion to every unclean work and sever this ungodly hold. Let the Spirit's work in her life become so evident that a new atmosphere of life and peace begins to surround her entire household.
Instead of letting your mind be consumed with what this woman is doing, turn your inner gaze to your own walk. Are you sowing to the Spirit or to the flesh? To be spiritually minded is life and peace. Your relationship with God must be uppermost, because that relationship enhances every other human relationship. When your spirit is in communion with His Spirit, He bears witness that you are His child. That intimate cry of "Father" is your anchor right now. You have not received a spirit of bondage again to fear, but the Spirit of adoption. So pour out your heart to Him, not from a posture of panic, but as a daughter resting in the love of the One who gave His Son for you.
Jesus began His ministry full of the Holy Spirit, led by the Spirit, and empowered by the Spirit. The same Spirit who anointed Him to set captives free now dwells in you. As you yield to the Spirit's control, your mind will be renewed, and the fruit of the Spirit will begin to push out the weeds of fear and desperation. It is not that you deny the problem or ignore the stronghold; it is that you fight from a higher plane. Walk in the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. That promise covers more than your own inner battles; it is a law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus that can break chains in your situation when you operate in it by faith.
So set your heart on things above. Let the Spirit flood you with an awareness of Christ's finished work. His precious blood has already shattered every condemnatory claim against you and accomplished the complete victory. Your part is not to wrestle the Jezebel spirit out of your fiancé's life by your own willpower; your part is to live as a daughter of promise, led by the Spirit, praying in the Spirit, and trusting the Father to bring light into the darkness as you abide in Him. As you sow to the Spirit, you will reap of the Spirit. That reaping includes a harvest of deliverance that can affect those you love.
Father, I ask You to quiet this dear woman's soul. Let the Spirit bear witness deep within her spirit that You hold her secure. Release a fresh yielding to the Holy Spirit, that her mind would be set on You and not on the threatening roar of the enemy. Let her know the closeness that cries "Abba." And by the power that raised Jesus from the dead, bring confusion to every unclean work and sever this ungodly hold. Let the Spirit's work in her life become so evident that a new atmosphere of life and peace begins to surround her entire household.
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