We join you in prayer and agreement before the Lord, and we thank you for coming honestly with a broken heart and a desire for what is holy. We hear your cry for forgiveness, deliverance from strongholds and soul ties, healing from heartbreak, clarity about this man, and for peace, hope, restoration of your mind, and provision for your finances and daily needs including a car. We bring all of this to our Father in Jesus' name.
We want to speak first about the strongholds and soul ties you mentioned. Scripture says the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ 2 Corinthians 10:4-5. A soul tie is often formed through deep emotional and physical intimacy outside of God's design, and the Word warns us that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body, for the two, he says, will become one flesh 1 Corinthians 6:16 and to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. If there has been sexual intimacy, emotional entanglement, or any relationship that was not kept pure before marriage, we urge you to confess it openly to the Lord, for if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9. God forgives fully when we repent, and He also calls us to turn from what defiled us so that the tie can be broken. We encourage you to break agreement with any ungodly tie in Jesus' name, to guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life Proverbs 4:23, and to pursue purity in courtship with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer, for marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4.
Your desire for a God fearing, biblical traditional marriage between a man and a woman for life is good and from the Lord. It is not a desire to be ashamed of. The Lord says it is not good for the man to be alone Genesis 2:18 and he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh Proverbs 18:22. We do not pray that God would simply take this desire away as if it were wrong, but that He would surrender your heart to His will, delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4, and make your desires align with His perfect timing. If marriage is His will for you, He will provide a godly spouse. If He calls you to a season of singleness, He will give you contentment and grace for it, and we trust Him to make His path unmistakably clear as you trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6.
We also hear your prayer that this man would see the hurt he caused and that God would make it clear if he is not the one and remove all ungodly desires. We agree for clarity and for healing. We encourage you to forgive as Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32, not because the hurt was small, but because forgiveness frees you from bitterness and keeps the root of bitterness from springing up and defiling many Hebrews 12:15. God will be your vindicator and your healer. He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3. We pray He will remove any lingering longing that is not from Him and replace it with peace that passes understanding.
For your mind, hope and peace, we pray the Lord will renew you. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind Romans 12:2. You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you Isaiah 26:3. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7. We pray God will restore your hope, for now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope, in the power of the Holy Spirit Romans 15:13.
For your finances, income and need for a car, we bring that to the Lord as well. Our God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. Seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you Matthew 6:33. We pray He will open doors and windows of opportunity as you walk diligently and faithfully, for the plans of the diligent surely lead to profit Proverbs 21:5, and that He will grant wisdom for stewardship and work.
We thank the Lord that you prayed in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 and Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and assurance that He hears us.
We pray together now.
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift our sister to You. We ask You to forgive her as she confesses her sins to You, to cleanse her and deliver her from every stronghold and ungodly soul tie. Break every chain that has bound her mind and heart, and renew her thoughts to be captive to Christ. Heal her broken heart and bind up her wounds. Comfort her in this heartbreak and give her discernment. If this man is not Your will for her as a husband, make it so clear that there is no confusion, and remove every ungodly desire and longing, and guard her heart from returning to what would harm her. If he has caused hurt, convict him and bring him to repentance, and give her grace to forgive fully. Restore her mind, restore her hope, and fill her with Your perfect peace as her mind stays on You. Father, we thank You that her desire for a biblical traditional marriage is good. We ask that You prepare her and prepare a God fearing husband for her if it is Your will, a man who will love her as Christ loved the church and lead her in holiness, and help her to walk in purity and courtship that honors You and leads to marriage. Give her contentment and joy in You while she waits, and let Your will be done. Provide for her financially, open doors of opportunity, increase her income, give her wisdom and favor in work, and provide reliable transportation in Your timing. Supply all her needs according to Your riches in glory. We thank You that You hear this prayer. We trust You to answer according to Your perfect love and wisdom. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
