We hear the deep pain and desperation in your cry, and our hearts ache with yours. The abuse, harassment, and rejection you are enduring are not God’s will for your life—He sees your suffering and longs to bring you comfort, justice, and restoration. The Bible assures us that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He is a God of justice who will not allow the wicked to go unpunished forever (Psalm 10:17-18). Your plea for mercy and justice is heard by Him, for He is a Father who cares deeply for His children.
You called out to Jesus in your request, and that is where your hope lies. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or find true deliverance (Acts 4:12). Jesus is the only way to the Father, and through Him, we have access to God’s throne of grace where we can find mercy and help in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to rule over every area of your life. The Bible promises, “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved” (Romans 10:9). Salvation does not remove suffering in this life, but it gives you eternal hope and the presence of God to walk with you through every trial.
The abuse and harassment you are facing are evil, and we must address this with the truth of Scripture. The Bible commands us to flee from evil and to expose the works of darkness (Ephesians 5:11). If you are in a situation where you are being physically, emotionally, or spiritually abused, we urge you to seek safety immediately. This may mean reaching out to trusted believers, a pastor, or even authorities if necessary. God does not call you to remain in harm’s way—He provides wisdom and a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13). If you are being harassed by others, the Bible instructs us to bless those who curse us and to pray for those who mistreat us (Luke 6:28), but this does not mean you must endure ongoing abuse without seeking protection or justice. You have the right—and the responsibility—to remove yourself from harmful situations while trusting God to deal with those who are perpetrating evil.
Rejection is one of the deepest wounds a person can experience, but we want you to know that you are not rejected by God. Jesus Himself was despised and rejected by men, so He understands your pain (Isaiah 53:3). In Christ, you are accepted, loved, and chosen (Ephesians 1:4-6). The world may cast you aside, but the Lord will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Lean into His love and let Him heal the broken places in your heart. The psalmist David often cried out to God in the midst of his suffering, and we can follow his example by pouring out our hearts to the Lord (Psalm 62:8). He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We also want to encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support you, pray with you, and walk alongside you during this difficult time. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to carry this alone. If you do not have a church family, we urge you to seek one out—a place where the Word of God is preached faithfully and where you can find godly counsel and fellowship.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother or sister to You, knowing that You are the God who sees their pain and hears their cries. Lord, we ask that You would be their shield and defender in this time of abuse, harassment, and rejection. You are a God of justice, and we pray that You would rise up and scatter their enemies (Psalm 68:1). Bring an end to the evil being done against them, and let Your righteousness prevail. Father, we ask that You would expose every dark deed and bring it into the light (1 Corinthians 4:5). Give them the wisdom to know how to respond and the courage to seek safety and protection. If they are in danger, Lord, provide a way of escape and surround them with people who will stand with them in this battle.
We pray for healing over their heart and mind. The rejection and abuse they have endured have left deep wounds, but You, Lord, are the Great Physician. Bind up their broken heart and restore their joy (Psalm 147:3). Remind them that they are fearfully and wonderfully made, and that their worth is found in You alone (Psalm 139:14). Let them feel Your presence in a tangible way, knowing that You will never leave them nor forsake them.
Father, we also pray for those who are perpetrating this abuse and harassment. Soften their hearts, Lord, and convict them of their sin. Bring them to repentance, that they may turn from their wicked ways and seek Your forgiveness. If they refuse to repent, we ask that You would thwart their plans and protect Your child from further harm.
Lord, we ask that You would provide godly community for them—a church family, a pastor, or believers who can walk with them and offer support. Let them not isolate themselves in their pain, but find strength in the body of Christ.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would use this trial to draw them closer to You. Let them experience Your love and faithfulness in ways they never have before. Strengthen their faith and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We ask all of this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who bore our sins and our sorrows on the cross. It is only through His name that we have access to Your throne, and it is in His name that we pray. Amen.