Sent with love, respect and concern-
"Life is precious. Yet all too often, we may find that much of our time is spent around negative, toxic people, draining the life right out of us. Sometimes they’re our spouses, friends or sadly, even family members.
God never intends for us to spin our wheels, waste our days, trying to make others happy who can never be happy. Because in reality, it doesn’t depend on us. It’s not up to you. They may want you to think it does, as if you possess the power to improve the value of their existence, but that’s not a burden meant for you to carry. His (alleged) abuse towards you is NOT your fault. You haven't done anything to deserve his attacks.
God’s greatest desire is to set us free. And sometimes what propels that change is for some brave soul to be willing to say, “Stop, no more!” One who will choose what is better, love and pray for them from a distance and learn to set boundaries that will protect and limit the control an unhealthy person might be placing on another’s life."
Remember: If Jesus wouldn't treat us poorly, then why should we accept anyone else doing it? Please know your worth my dear. Put yourself first. Let God take care of this (alleged) abuser. The ONLY man you need in your life right now is Jesus! Blessings!