I have been posting about how someone has been contacting me on a certain social media platform stating that they are a Christian who is lonely and looking for other Christian friends. Although I didn't see a problem corresponding with them at first, there are now red flags that are causing me to reconsider doing so. They are trying to schedule a phone call to talk to me for tomorrow. I do not want to hurt their feelings and perhaps am afraid of conflict but I do not want to interact with this person any further especially over the phone. I have serious concerns about my interactions with them. Please pray that God would redirect them away from calling me tomorrow and gradually remove them from my life soon. Thank you.
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We hear your concerns and understand the unease you’re feeling about this situation. It’s wise to pay attention to red flags, especially when it comes to interactions with someone you don’t know well, even if they claim to be a fellow believer. The Bible warns us to be cautious and discerning, as not everyone who professes faith walks in truth. "Beloved, don’t believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world" (1 John 4:1). Your instincts are likely the Holy Spirit guiding you to set boundaries, and that is something we should always honor.
We also want to gently address the fear of conflict or hurting this person’s feelings. While it’s kind and considerate to be mindful of others, your safety and peace of mind must come first. Scripture tells us, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23). It’s not unkind to protect yourself from potential harm or discomfort, especially when you sense something is off. You don’t owe this person your time, energy, or emotional vulnerability, particularly if it’s causing you distress.
Let’s pray together for God’s protection and wisdom in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, asking for Your divine intervention in this matter. Lord, we lift up this situation to You and ask that You would redirect this individual away from contacting our sister tomorrow. We pray that You would place a hedge of protection around her, both physically and emotionally, and that You would give her the courage and clarity to set firm boundaries. Father, we ask that You would gradually remove this person from her life in a way that honors You and keeps her safe. Give her peace in her heart and mind, knowing that she is following Your leading. Help her to trust in Your guidance and to lean not on her own understanding, but to acknowledge You in all her ways so that You may direct her paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). We also pray for this individual, Lord. If their intentions are not pure, we ask that You would convict their heart and draw them closer to You. If they are truly lonely and seeking fellowship, we pray that You would lead them to godly, safe, and edifying relationships within their local church or Christian community. May Your will be done in both of their lives, and may Your name be glorified. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to take practical steps as well. If you feel comfortable doing so, you can send a brief, polite message to this person, stating that you’re no longer available for further communication. You don’t owe them an explanation, and keeping it simple is perfectly acceptable. If they persist, don’t hesitate to block them on the platform. Your safety and peace are priorities, and you have every right to protect them.
Remember, the enemy often disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and it’s crucial to remain vigilant. Surround yourself with trusted believers who can offer support and accountability, and continue to seek the Lord in prayer as you navigate this. You are not alone, and God is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
We also want to gently address the fear of conflict or hurting this person’s feelings. While it’s kind and considerate to be mindful of others, your safety and peace of mind must come first. Scripture tells us, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23). It’s not unkind to protect yourself from potential harm or discomfort, especially when you sense something is off. You don’t owe this person your time, energy, or emotional vulnerability, particularly if it’s causing you distress.
Let’s pray together for God’s protection and wisdom in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, asking for Your divine intervention in this matter. Lord, we lift up this situation to You and ask that You would redirect this individual away from contacting our sister tomorrow. We pray that You would place a hedge of protection around her, both physically and emotionally, and that You would give her the courage and clarity to set firm boundaries. Father, we ask that You would gradually remove this person from her life in a way that honors You and keeps her safe. Give her peace in her heart and mind, knowing that she is following Your leading. Help her to trust in Your guidance and to lean not on her own understanding, but to acknowledge You in all her ways so that You may direct her paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). We also pray for this individual, Lord. If their intentions are not pure, we ask that You would convict their heart and draw them closer to You. If they are truly lonely and seeking fellowship, we pray that You would lead them to godly, safe, and edifying relationships within their local church or Christian community. May Your will be done in both of their lives, and may Your name be glorified. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to take practical steps as well. If you feel comfortable doing so, you can send a brief, polite message to this person, stating that you’re no longer available for further communication. You don’t owe them an explanation, and keeping it simple is perfectly acceptable. If they persist, don’t hesitate to block them on the platform. Your safety and peace are priorities, and you have every right to protect them.
Remember, the enemy often disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and it’s crucial to remain vigilant. Surround yourself with trusted believers who can offer support and accountability, and continue to seek the Lord in prayer as you navigate this. You are not alone, and God is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
We're right there with you, sister. We understand that it's tough to set boundaries, especially when someone claims to be a fellow believer. But remember, God has given us instincts for a reason, and it's okay to trust them. We're going to keep praying with you, asking God to redirect this person away from contacting you tomorrow, and to gradually remove them from your life in a way that honors Him and keeps you safe. Let's also pray for this person, that if their intentions aren't pure, God would convict their heart and draw them closer to Him. If they're truly lonely, we pray that God would lead them to safe, godly relationships within their local church or Christian community. Let's trust that God's will is being done in both of your lives, and that His name will be glorified. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
And hey, it's okay to be kind to yourself too. You don't have to explain yourself to this person. If you feel comfortable, you can send a brief, polite message saying you're no longer available for further communication. If they persist, don't hesitate to block them. Your safety and peace are priorities, and you have every right to protect them. You're not alone in this, and God is your refuge and strength. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
And hey, it's okay to be kind to yourself too. You don't have to explain yourself to this person. If you feel comfortable, you can send a brief, polite message saying you're no longer available for further communication. If they persist, don't hesitate to block them. Your safety and peace are priorities, and you have every right to protect them. You're not alone in this, and God is your refuge and strength. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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