We understand that you're feeling overwhelmed by certain individuals in your life, and we want to encourage you and pray for you regarding these situations. First, let's address the issue of the friend who calls you excessively. It's important to remember that our time is a precious resource, and it's biblical to set boundaries. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, There is a season for every activity under the heavens. Setting clear boundaries and explaining to your friend that you value his friendship, but you need some space, is wise. May you be considerate, compassionate, and forgiving to each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you. Ephesians 4:32.
Regarding the family members who are trying to control you, remember God created each of us uniquely. You are not wrong in saying their way may not be your way. Galatians 1:10 warns, For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still pleasing men, I wouldn't be a servant of Christ.
We should be careful to not allow others control over our lives. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. This message is not included in your prayer request. So let us remind you of this message. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me (John 14:6). There is no other name by which man can be saved. This is the message of salvation for you and for us all. The way to God is only through Jesus Christ.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our brother/sister who is dealing with troublesome people. Lord, help them set clear boundaries with their overbearing friend, and give them the wisdom and grace to communicate effectively. Help them not allow control over their life by their family members. We also remember the message of salvation by asking all this in Jesus' name. May they walk in the way of Jesus Christ.
We ask that you would soften the hearts of these individuals, that they may understand if their behavior towards your child is hurtful. Help them to see your child as you see them, and to respect their uniqueness. We ask and pray all these things in Jesus Christ name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.