Peace, Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting there family before her own family, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Alisha Kirshman]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you in Jesus' Name amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the anguish in your heart and we stand with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your family, asking God to bring peace, protection, freedom and restoration swiftly in Jesus name. We thank God that you have raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and that you continue to intercede for her with such discernment and love. The Lord sees the overreach, the instigation, the division and the isolation that has been pressed upon her, and He is faithful to expose what is done in darkness and to set the captives free.

We must speak plainly about what does not align with Scripture so that prayer is rooted in truth. Your daughter is living together with a young man outside of marriage, and is being counseled to have children outside of marriage and to treat this arrangement as if it were marriage. This is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. We are told in 1 Corinthians 6:18 to flee sexual immorality and in Hebrews 13:4 that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. A living arrangement that mimics marriage without covenant is not marriage in God's eyes. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, ordained by God, and it is to be entered into with purity, provision and spiritual leadership. A boyfriend is not a husband, and a girlfriend is not a wife. Courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not prolonged cohabitation. We also hear that finances are being exploited, that your daughter is being pressured to use credit and family resources to sustain this young man, that she is treated with a false authority she obeys, and that she has become cold, ungrateful and disrespectful toward you and her family. These are not the marks of godly love which is patient, kind, not self seeking and not controlling as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. To demand, manipulate, isolate, deceive and live in laziness and rebellion is contrary to the call for men to love sacrificially and to provide and to lead with humility as in Ephesians 5:25 and 1 Timothy 5:8. We also agree that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to divide her from her family and church community, to counsel ungodliness and to act as a rescuer from chaos she helped create. Scripture warns in Ephesians 5:11 to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather to reprove them, and in Proverbs 14:1 that the wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands.

We rejoice that you have called upon the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we are saved. As it is written in John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, and in Acts 4:12 there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We encourage your daughter to return to that simple trust in Christ, to remember she is a child of the Most High God, bought with a price, and that her worth is found in Him and not in the approval of this young man or his family. Psalm 139:14 reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has light with darkness.

We lift your daughter before the throne together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, pleading the precious blood of Jesus over this mother, her daughter, her children and her household. Lord You see every scheme, every word curse, every chain and every plot to control, divide and isolate this young woman from her supportive family and her church friends. We ask that You expose every motive rooted in pride, selfishness, jealousy and manipulation, and that You frustrate every plan that contradicts Your Word according to Psalm 33:10. Break the stronghold that has held too long, block and break every chain, and let Your light shine into this darkness so that she may see clearly. Open her eyes to see this young man not as a husband, not as a provider, not as a spiritual shepherd, but as a stumbling block in her walk with You. Remove the stubborn hold he and his mother have upon her heart and set her free indeed, for whom the Son sets free is free indeed as in John 8:36.

Holy Spirit fill her anew, soften her heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her wisdom, self worth and courage to walk away from this ungodly bondage swiftly with no regrets. Help her to stop imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward her family, and restore in her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to no longer take on debt to sustain this man and this toxic lifestyle, and to stop using her family as a financial resource for his needs. Let her see that the exhaustion, forgetfulness and chaos she experiences is fruit of being outside Your design, and let her hunger for righteousness be reignited. Guide her back to biblical teaching, to honoring her mother and family as commanded in Exodus 20:12 and Ephesians 6:1-3, and to putting her faith and her family before this relationship.

Lord we also pray for supernatural intervention regarding her work. You blessed her with a promotion last month and her work serves a beautiful purpose for others. Protect that job from interference and undermining, and let no weapon formed against her prosper as You promise in Isaiah 54:17. We pray for the young man and his mother as well, that You would bring them to repentance, that his father would take godly responsibility and have his son move back home alone to learn discipline and maturity, and that his mother would focus on her own household and cease enabling disrespect and corruption toward others. Let every voice that contradicts Your Word be silenced, and let Your truth prevail.

Father restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom to this family. Let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow upon this mother and her children and heal all brokenness. When her daughter comes to visit, guard her heart and mouth from being influenced by hatred and manipulation, and let the visit be covered in Your peace which passes all understanding as in Philippians 4:7. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You in Luke 1:37, and we ask in faith for Your complete restoration and for a godly spouse for this daughter in Your perfect timing, a man who will love Christ first, lead well, provide and cherish her within the holy covenant of marriage.

We encourage you, dear mother, to remain steadfast in prayer and in the Word, to keep loving boundaries, and to seek wise counsel from your pastors and trusted church community. Do not continue to financially enable what God is trying to deliver her from, for to support fornication and exploitation is not love but prolongs the bondage. Continue to speak truth in love, to keep the door open for her return, and to trust the Lord to do what only He can do. God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self control as in 2 Timothy 1:7. Resist the enemy and he will flee as in James 4:7. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit as in Psalm 34:18. We are trusting with you that He who began a good work in your daughter will perfect it until the day of Jesus Christ as in Philippians 1:6. In Jesus name we pray, amen.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been for you, and how long you have carried worry for your older daughter. Loving a child who feels distant, exhausted and pulled away from family and church community is painful, and we are grateful you reached out.

What you describe, the isolation from supportive people, the financial pressure, the sense she must obey another family’s expectations to keep peace, makes it very hard for anyone to think clearly or make free choices. One thing that has helped many families in similar strain is learning about healthy boundaries. A boundary is simply like a property line that helps a person know what is hers to carry and what is not, her values, time, energy, finances, and relationships. When those lines get blurred, it becomes hard to say yes or no freely. Rebuilding them takes time and gentle support, not pressure.

When you can, it may help to keep a steady, calm connection with your daughter without debating the relationship itself, so she knows home is still safe. It can also help to talk privately with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor for wisdom and for safety planning, and to get support for your own heart as you walk through this. If exhaustion and forgetfulness continue for her, encourage her kindly to see a medical professional alongside prayer.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus' name. Protect them, guard their hearts and finances, and surround them with wise, loving community. Soften and strengthen our sister's daughter where she feels worn down, give her clarity and courage to seek what is healthy and good, and give her mother peace, wisdom and rest as she trusts You. Bring healing and unity to this family in Your time and way. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer as a mother has been brought before the Lord and we join you in carrying this burden to the throne of grace, where our God hears the cry of those who seek Him.

We agree with you that what you have described is not in keeping with the way of holiness revealed in Scripture. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and living together outside of that covenant, with its intimacies and its assumption of the duties of marriage, is not the Lord's design and does not lead to life and peace. Salvation and restoration are found in Jesus Christ alone, and it is to Him we look for deliverance both from the guilt of sin and from the power of sin. We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls outside His will, but we ask Him to bring deliverance, conviction, and a return to the path of righteousness.

We pray with you for your older daughter, that the Lord who alone can bring forth His people from bondage will bring her forth. As it is written, He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love. Deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God, it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy, and He has found a ransom in the precious blood of Christ. We ask that the Holy Spirit would open her eyes to see this relationship not as a marriage, not as the covering of a shepherd and provider, but as a stumbling block to her walk with Christ. Pray that she may remember she is a child of the Most High God, bought with a price, and that her worth is in Christ and not in the approval of this young man or his family.

We ask the Lord to soften her heart to receive His conviction and to grant her wisdom and courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets, to protect her finances and to turn from any further debt taken on to sustain what is draining her, to restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, and to rekindle in her a hunger for righteousness, for His Word, for fellowship with her family and with the church community where she may be strengthened. We pray that every scheme to isolate, control, confuse and make her feel worthless would be exposed and frustrated, that every chain would be broken, that the exhaustion and chaos that has marked her life in this arrangement would be replaced by the peace that comes from walking in the light. We pray also for her place of work, thanking God for the promotion He has granted, and asking for protection there from interference and undermining, that she may continue in the beautiful purpose He has given her with clarity and steadiness.

We also lift before the Lord the young man and his mother. We do not pray for their influence to continue, but that the Lord would show them the seriousness of enabling and encouraging what is dishonest, controlling and divisive, and that He would bring them to repentance and to a right understanding of their own need of Christ. We pray that the father of this young man would take proper responsibility for his own household, and that this mother would be turned to care for her own family rather than to speak with authority into the life of your daughter where she has no biblical warrant.

For you, we pray for peace that guards heart and mind, for protection over you and your children, for freedom from the heaviness of these long years, and for restoration of fellowship, respect and unity in your home. It is a glorious thing to have a family altar where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, and we encourage you to continue there, mentioning each child by name before Him. Like Peter after his fall, there is gracious restoration with the Lord for those who turn to Him, and that look of Christ which severed Peter from the crowd can sever your daughter from every voice that contradicts His Word. The Lord chastens those He loves, but He also delivers, and the believer's conduct after affliction and deliverance is to live and declare the works of the Lord. May you yet have much to declare of His delivering power.

We plead the blood of Christ over you and your children, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and that He who brought Israel forth with silver and gold, enriched and not forsaken, will make your deliverance effectual. May the clock of mercy strike the hour of her deliverance, and may she be brought forth into liberty to follow Christ with wholehearted devotion. And if it be His will for her future, we pray He would in His own time provide a godly spouse, a true spiritual leader within the holy covenant of marriage, for His glory.

Father, hear this mother's cry. Break the stronghold, frustrate every plan that would divide and control, fill this daughter with Your Holy Spirit, draw her back to Yourself, to her family, and to her church, and overflow this household with Your supernatural love, favor, protection and healing. In the name of Jesus our only Redeemer, Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your prayer for your daughter has been heard with deep care and with sorrow for the heavy burden you have carried for so long. It is right and loving that you have brought this before the Lord so honestly, and that you long to see your daughter walk in freedom, clarity and holiness rather than in confusion, exhaustion and control.

Scripture is clear that God designed sexual intimacy and shared life as husband and wife to belong within the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman, and that living together outside of that covenant does not lead to life or peace. For that reason we will not ask God to bless or sustain this living arrangement, because to do so would be to ask Him to bless what His Word calls us away from. Instead we join you in asking Him to deliver your daughter from what is harming her, to break every unhealthy hold over her heart and mind, and to draw her back into the light, wisdom and safety of life with Christ.

We pray with you that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not as a marriage and not as the spiritual covering she needs. We ask that God will give her courage to stop carrying responsibilities that are not hers to bear, to protect her finances and her work with wisdom, and to turn away from patterns of coldness, gossip and disrespect that do not reflect who she is in Christ. We pray that the isolation and manipulation you have described would be exposed and frustrated, that the voices that contradict God's Word would lose their influence, and that her hunger for righteousness, for her family and for her church community would be renewed. As Christ said to the woman who came in faith, her faith can make her whole, and we pray that your daughter's faith would be strengthened to trust Jesus alone for her worth, her identity and her future.

We also pray for you. It is painful to watch a beloved child grow distant and to feel disrespected in your own home. We ask the Lord to guard your heart with His peace, to keep you from growing weary in prayer, and to give you wisdom to love your daughter with both grace and truth. Continue to keep the door open to her in love while not enabling what is harming her. Do not fund or support the cohabiting household, keep healthy boundaries around finances, and stay firmly rooted in your family and church fellowship where you can receive counsel, prayer and support. Your steady example of a grateful, gracious and respectful life in Christ is itself a powerful witness.

We ask God to protect your daughter's new promotion and to keep her workplace free from undue interference, to restore her energy and joy, and to surround both of you with wise and godly people who will speak the truth in love. We pray that the young man and his mother would come to see their own need for repentance and that any scheme to control, divide or make your daughter feel worthless would come to nothing. Above all we pray that your daughter would remember that she is a child of the Most High God, that she already belongs to Him and to a loving family who raised her in His ways, and that she does not need the approval of anyone else to be secure.

Father, in the name of Jesus we bring this daughter before You. Have mercy upon her and rescue her from darkness into Your light. Break every chain that binds her, soften her heart to receive Your conviction, and give her the courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly and without regret. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, restore to her a gentle and respectful spirit, and guide her steps back to Your Word, to her family and to her church. Guard her mother with Your protection, heal what has been broken between them, and let no weapon formed against this family prosper. Grant them peace, unity and freedom, and in Your time provide a godly and faithful path forward according to Your will. Amen.