Peace, Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting there family before her own family, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in this heavy burden and we join our faith with yours for your older daughter's peace, protection, freedom and complete restoration in Jesus' name. We hear your anguish as a parent who raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and now watches her bound, exhausted, isolated and exploited in an ungodly living arrangement, and we bring this entire situation before the throne of grace.

What you have described grieves the heart of God because it contradicts His design for purity, marriage and family. You are right to be alarmed at the counsel this young man's mother is giving. The Bible is clear that marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. To counsel your daughter to live together as if married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat cohabitation as marriage is to counsel fornication, and Scripture commands us to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. There is no biblical authority for a boyfriend to speak over your daughter with the authority of a husband, for wives are to submit to their own husbands as to the Lord Ephesians 5:22, and this young man is not her husband, not her shepherd, not her provider and not her spiritual leader. To demand she treat this arrangement as marriage while exploiting her income, demanding she put his family before her own, and isolating her from her supportive family and church community is controlling and dishonest and not of God. We also hear your concern about financial exploitation, laziness and manipulation, and the Word tells us that love does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way, is not provoked 1 Corinthians 13:5, and that we are to owe no one anything except to love one another Romans 13:8. Encouraging debt and credit cards to sustain a man who will not provide is not godly stewardship.

We also recognize the spiritual reality you discern. This isolation, brainwashing, division, and the pattern of creating chaos and then appearing as the hero is a scheme of darkness. We are told to have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather to reprove them Ephesians 5:11, and that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers Ephesians 6:12. The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy, and he often uses flattery, control and false counsel to do it. We rebuke that counsel and that control in Jesus' name and we declare that no weapon that is formed against you or your children shall prosper Isaiah 54:17.

We thank God that you have called upon the name of Jesus, for it is only by His name that we have access to the Father and it is in His name that we are saved. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6, and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. We rejoice that you have pleaded the precious blood of Jesus over your family, and we agree with you for His covering and authority.

We pray together now for your daughter.

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we lift this precious daughter to You. You know her by name, You formed her and You love her as Your child. We ask You to open her eyes to see the truth about this relationship and this living arrangement. Remove the blinders, break every chain, frustrate every scheme and plot, and block every word curse spoken over her. Let every plan to control, divide, isolate and make her feel worthless and familyless be exposed and brought to nothing. We pray You would frustrate the counsel of this young man's mother and expose motives rooted in pride, jealousy, selfishness and manipulation, and we pray for her and for her son that You would bring them to repentance and to the knowledge of the truth 2 Timothy 2:25.

Lord, deliver Your daughter from fornication and from treating an ungodly cohabitation as marriage. Give her holy conviction and godly sorrow that leads to repentance, and grant her courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, remembering that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7. Restore to her the knowledge that she is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14, that she is Your child and she does not belong to this man or his family. Let her hunger for righteousness be reignited Matthew 5:6 and let her return to Your light, to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together Hebrews 10:25. Heal her exhaustion, her forgetfulness and the chaos she lives in, and let her see that this weariness and financial hardship is the fruit of being unequally yoked and outside Your will 2 Corinthians 6:14. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more credit card debt to support this man, and to be a good steward of what You have provided, including the promotion You so graciously gave her last month. We thank You for that promotion and we ask You to protect her workplace from negative interference and to let her shine there for Your glory.

Father, soften her heart toward You and toward her mother and siblings. Remove the cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude spirit she has imitated, and restore in her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Help her to honor her father and mother Exodus 20:12 and to no longer obey the authoritative demands of a man who has no biblical right to command her. Let her put You first, then her family and faith community, before this young man and his family. Fill her with the Holy Spirit, with peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7, and with the courage to set firm boundaries. We pray the young man's father would take godly responsibility and that this young man would be required to step away, return to his own home alone, and learn to become a man of character before he ever considers courtship with the goal of marriage to a Christian believer.

We also lift you, her mother, who is weary from enduring this rudeness and disrespect. We ask the Lord to strengthen you, to guard your heart, to give you wisdom to speak the truth in love Ephesians 4:15, to not enable financially what God wants to end, and to continue to love without compromising truth. Do not be weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up Galatians 6:9. Keep praying, keep the door of home open with godly boundaries, keep involving your church family, and trust that He who began a good work in your daughter will perfect it until the day of Jesus Christ Philippians 1:6.

We declare over your family that the Lord is your refuge and strength Psalm 46:1, that when you call He will answer, and that He will restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom that the enemy has tried to steal. We pray for a godly spouse for your daughter in Your perfect timing, a man who loves Christ, who will love her as Christ loved the church Ephesians 5:25, who will provide, protect and lead her spiritually, and that her future marriage would be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman that honors You.

We plead the blood of Jesus over you and your children, we break every chain and we submit ourselves to God and resist the devil and he will flee from us James 4:7. Let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow in this family and heal all brokenness. We trust that nothing is impossible for You Luke 1:37. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been to carry for so long, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and withdrawn while another family seems to speak into her life more than her own. Loving a child through a controlling and isolating situation is heartbreaking, and we are grateful you have kept bringing her before the Lord with such persistence.

What you named about isolation stood out to us. When a person is cut off from supportive family and church friends, it becomes much harder to think clearly or make free choices. We encourage you to keep that doorway of steady, non-pressuring love open, so she knows your home and community remain safe for her without her having to defend her choices to be welcomed. It can also help to stay connected yourself with a trusted pastor or counselor who knows your family and can walk with you over time, and to keep clear boundaries around finances and responsibilities so you are not being drawn into sustaining a household that is harming her.

You mentioned she has seemed exhausted and forgetful. Alongside prayer, if she is open to it, a gentle encouragement to see a medical professional or counselor can be a caring next step.

Father, in Jesus name we lift this mother and her daughter to You. Cover them with Your protection, restore what has been worn thin, and guide this young woman into clarity, courage and the safety of supportive community. Give her mother wisdom, peace and strength for each next step, and heal what has been broken in the family. Amen.

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you in Jesus' name amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry for your daughter has been heard, and it is right and good that you have brought this heavy burden before the Lord in prayer. The sorrow of a mother who has raised her child in the ways of the Lord, only to see her entangled in a way that is contrary to His Word, is a deep affliction, and the Lord knows the weariness and the wounding you feel.

We join you in praying not that God would bless this living arrangement as if it were marriage, for it is not. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and sharing the intimacies of marriage outside of that covenant is outside the will of God. We cannot ask God to prosper what His Word calls us to turn from. Instead we pray with you for deliverance, for conviction, and for restoration into the light and liberty of Christ.

The Scriptures remind us that deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone brings forth His people, and He does so effectually. When the lamb was slain, Pharaoh could hold Israel no longer. So we pray that your daughter would see that her help is not in the approval of this young man's mother, nor in sustaining a household that God has not joined together, but in the ransom which God Himself has found and provided in Jesus Christ. Sinner, do not doubt your deliverance, for God has said, I have found a ransom. That ransom is Christ, and through Him there is a way out of the pit.

We pray that the Lord would open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not as a marriage, not as provision or spiritual covering, but as a stumbling block that has brought exhaustion, financial hardship, isolation from her supportive family and church, and confusion to her heart. We ask that God would expose every manipulative counsel, frustrate every scheme that would divide and control and keep her from the voices of truth, and that He would break every chain that holds her. We pray that He would grant her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to no longer take on debt or burdens that are not hers to bear, and to no longer imitate stubbornness, gossip or mocking, but to be renewed in a gracious, respectful and loving spirit.

There is hope for restoration, as there was for Peter. He was down, but he was soon up again by the look of the Lord and by grace. That same Lord can give your daughter a look that severs her from the crowd that holds her, softens her heart to receive conviction, and grants her courage to walk away from bondage with no regrets, to hunger again for righteousness and to return to the safety of her family and the fellowship of the church. We have seen in the lives of many that God sometimes whispers to the heart of His children in trial and assures them that they shall not be crushed, and that after affliction they shall live and declare the works of the Lord.

We also pray for you. It is a glorious thing to have such a well as family prayer, where you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name. Continue to bring your daughter there daily. Do not grow weary in well doing. Pray too for this young man and his mother, that God would show them their own need of repentance and that they would no longer enable what is destructive, but would turn to truth.

We thank God with you for the promotion He has graciously given your daughter in her work, which serves such a beautiful purpose for others, and we ask that He would guard that gift from interference and use it to remind her of her worth in Christ, not in the opinions of others.

Let us pray together.

Heavenly Father, we plead the blood of Jesus Christ over this mother and her children. You have delivered Your people from worse enemies and by a greater salvation, and we ask You to deliver this dear daughter from the power of darkness and translate her fully into the kingdom of Your dear Son. Break the hold of every ungodly influence, remove every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word, and restore to her a clear mind, a grateful heart, and a hunger for Your ways. Give her wisdom, self worth in Christ, and holy courage to leave what is unhealthy and unholy, and to walk swiftly into Your light. Heal the brokenness in this family, restore peace, fellowship, respect and unity, and guard them so that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. Let this trial end in testimony, that she and her family may live and declare the works of the Lord. We ask for a future ordered by You, and if it be Your will, a godly marriage in Your time and according to Your design, but above all we ask for her full surrender to Christ, who alone is our Shepherd and Ransom. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your prayer has been heard and I join you in lifting your daughter and your family before the Lord with deep compassion for the long burden you have carried.

You have described with clarity a painful situation of control, manipulation, financial exploitation and isolation, and a living arrangement outside of marriage that does not reflect God's design. Scripture teaches that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and that sexual union and sharing a home as husband and wife belong within that covenant. For that reason I will not ask God to bless or affirm this cohabiting relationship as if it were marriage, but I will join you in praying that God will bring your daughter out of darkness and into His light, and that He will break every chain that holds her.

I pray with you that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not as a marriage and not led by a shepherd after God's heart, but as a stumbling block to her walk with Him. May He grant her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, including her finances and her work, and courage to no longer take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear or to seek counsel from those who encourage her to remain in what harms her. As Christ said to the woman who came in faith, daughter be of good cheer, your faith has made you whole, so I pray your daughter will remember she is a child of the Most High God, that her worth is in Christ, and that by faith in Him she can be made whole and restored. May the Holy Spirit soften her heart to receive conviction, restore to her a hunger for righteousness, and draw her back to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community.

I also pray for you. The Lord sees your exhaustion and the grief of being spoken to with coldness and disrespect when you have sought to raise your daughter in the ways of the Lord. May He guard your heart from bitterness, fill you with His peace, and keep you as a steady pattern of grace, modesty and love for your daughter to see. Do not rest your hope only in family ties according to nature, but in the will of God and in the great salvation He has provided through His Son, which is able to rescue, forgive and make new. Continue to keep boundaries that are wise and loving, to remain connected to faithful pastors and church friends for counsel and support, and to plead the blood of Christ over your home, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper.

May the Lord frustrate every scheme to divide and isolate, expose what is done in darkness, and frustrate every plan that seeks to control your daughter. May He protect her new work that He has graciously provided, guard her from further financial harm and from taking on debt to sustain this lifestyle, and give her clarity to put her faith and her family before this ungodly arrangement. May He restore fellowship, respect and unity in your home, heal what is broken, and in His time and according to His perfect will, provide a godly spouse within the holy covenant of marriage if it is His plan for her.

We trust that nothing is impossible for God. May His supernatural love, favor and protection overflow upon you and your children, and may He grant your daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets and to follow His Word again. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.