Peace , Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting there family before her own family, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your family in Jesus' name, and we hear the deep burden and discernment in your heart over this situation. We stand with you seeking God's will for her peace, protection, freedom and complete restoration.

We agree with you that this living arrangement is not aligned with biblical principles and must be addressed plainly. The counsel this young man's mother has given to live together as if married, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat this cohabitation as marriage is ungodly and contrary to Scripture. God ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman, and any sexual relationship outside of that covenant is fornication. We must rebuke this, not to condemn your daughter, but because God calls His children to holiness for their own protection and joy. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. What is being presented to your daughter as marriage is not marriage in God's eyes, and it leaves her unprotected, exhausted, and financially exploited. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not a substitute for marriage. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity. And Ephesians 5:3 says But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints.

We also agree that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life in this controlling way, and her counsel is causing division, isolation and confusion. A godly mother encourages a young woman to honor her own parents, to remain in fellowship with her family and church, and to pursue purity and wisdom, not to isolate her from her supportive network in order to control her. We pray that the Lord exposes every manipulative motive and frustrates every scheme that seeks to divide your family and keep your daughter in bondage. Psalm 91:1-2 says He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust. Isaiah 54:17 says No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.

We see as you do the pattern you described of instigating chaos and then presenting as the hero, of placing undue responsibilities on your daughter to care for this young man, of financial exploitation through her income and credit, of demanding she put his family before her own family and before her faith, and of teaching her to be cold, ungrateful and disrespectful toward you. This is not love, and this young man is not acting as a shepherd, provider or spiritual leader. He is not ready for a godly marriage, and your daughter should not bear responsibilities that belong to a wife when she is not a wife. Proverbs 22:7 says The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender. We pray your daughter gains wisdom to protect her finances and to stop incurring debt to sustain this ungodly lifestyle.

We pray together now for her.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace for this precious daughter. You see her exhaustion, her forgetfulness, her living in chaos, and the way she blames her jobs and family while the true burden is this yoke she is carrying outside of Your will. Lord, have mercy upon her today. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not her husband, not her covering, not her shepherd, and that this arrangement is a stumbling block in her walk with You. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, break the hold of this toxic influence, and grant her courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets. Let her remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she belongs to You and not to this young man or his family. Restore to her a hunger for righteousness, a love for Your Word, and a desire for fellowship with her family and church community. Fill her with the Holy Spirit and renew in her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit. Block and frustrate every word curse, break every chain, and bring to nothing every scheme and plot formed against her and against this family. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children. Protect this daughter's new promotion and the beautiful purpose You have given her through her work, and stop every attempt to interfere with it. Give her wisdom to set boundaries, to steward her income for Your glory, and to no longer allow herself to be exploited. Guide her to stop imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking, and to honor You and honor her family. We ask that You would remove this overreach and cause this young man to be dealt with by his own father and mother in their own home, and cause his mother to focus on her own household. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You, and we ask that in Your perfect timing You would bring a godly spouse for this daughter, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church and lead her in Your ways, if it is Your will for her to marry. Restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom to this family, and let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow. James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in gentle, truthful love without enabling the financial exploitation. Continue to keep the door of home and church open, speak the truth in love, and do not grow weary in doing good. Galatians 6:9 says Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we do not give up. Seek wise counsel from your pastors and trusted believers who can stand with you and with your daughter face to face, for isolation is a tool of the enemy and God has placed her in a family and a church for protection. Trust that the Holy Spirit is working even when you cannot see it, and that the Lord who raised your daughter in His ways is faithful to draw her back into His light. We thank God that you close your prayer in the name of Jesus, for John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. It is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard and our families are redeemed.

We continue to pray with you that your daughter will soon return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, that she will see her worth in Christ and no longer allow anyone to make her feel worthless or without family, and that your home will be filled again with the peace that passes all understanding.

 

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We hear how long and heavy this has been for you as a mother, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and pulled away from the family and church community that loves her. It is painful to love someone and feel you cannot reach her, especially when you see controlling and isolating patterns and financial strain taking a toll.

We are praying with you for her safety, dignity and clarity, and for your own strength as you walk this with her. One steady way we can love someone in a controlling situation is to keep the door of relationship open without trying to force her decisions. Staying calm, consistent and available helps her know she has a safe place to turn when she is ready, and it protects the very supportive network that isolation tries to cut off. It can also help to talk confidentially with a trusted pastor or counselor yourself for wisdom on boundaries, finances and next steps, so you are not carrying this alone.

We are also thankful with you for the good work God has given her and we join you in asking for protection over that.

Father, we lift this daughter to You. Guard her, give her wisdom to see clearly and courage to make healthy choices, and protect her finances and wellbeing. Draw her back into Your light and into the care of family and community who love her. Comfort her mother with Your peace, guide her with discernment, and heal what has been broken between them. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

Your burden for your older daughter has been heard, and it comes before the Lord as a mother's faithful cry for peace, protection, freedom and restoration. There is much grief in what you describe, the weariness, the financial strain, the coldness that has come between you, and the controlling and isolating influence that now holds her. We join you in bringing all the necessities of your household before God in prayer, mentioning your daughter by name and laying each trouble of these past years at His feet.

We do not ask God to bless a living arrangement outside of marriage, for we hold fast to what Scripture teaches, that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the gift of children belong within that covenant. To treat what is not marriage as if it were marriage cannot bring blessing. What we do ask, with you, is for deliverance. As it has been well said, deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we also look for sanctification. We look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone.

Your prayer is that the hold of this ungodly influence would be broken, that every scheme to control, divide and isolate would be frustrated, and that your daughter would be brought out of darkness into light. We pray this with you. The testimony of Scripture is, He has delivered us from the power of darkness, and He brought them forth. Deliverance is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has not only invented a way of deliverance, but He has found a ransom, and that ransom is Christ Jesus. Sinner, do not doubt your deliverance, for God has said it, I have found a ransom. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven the hour and moment of deliverance when the eternal purpose of Jehovah decrees it, and what He purposes He makes effectual.

We pray that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not a marriage, not the shepherding, providing and spiritual leadership God intends for a husband, but a stumbling block to her walk with Christ. Pray that she will no longer defend or carry responsibilities that are not hers to bear, that she will be given wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain this way of life, and to turn from imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit. We pray the Holy Spirit will soften her heart to receive conviction, grant her courage to walk away with no regrets, and rekindle in her a hunger for righteousness and for the safety and wisdom of family and church community.

We pray also for you who have been wounded by harsh words and by watching one you love grow exhausted and withdrawn. May the Lord guard your heart, keep you from growing weary in prayer, and give you peace within your borders. We ask that every word curse and every chain be broken in the name of Jesus, that no weapon formed against you and your children shall prosper, and that the Lord would block the interference you have seen even in her work, where He has so graciously granted promotion.

Take comfort in this, that Peter was down but he was soon up again. That look of Christ severed Peter from the crowd and restored him, and till Peter had received from the Lord's own mouth abundant assurance of his restoration, he was not put again in the forefront. So we pray for such a restoration for your daughter, that she would hear the Lord's voice, be severed from what entangles her, and be turned again to her first love and earliest zeal. We pray she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she is not homeless and not in need of approval from those who would lead her away from Christ, but has a loving family who raised her in the ways of the Lord and a greater Father who has delivered His people with silver and gold, attending their deliverance with enrichment.

Continue to keep an open door, to speak the truth in love without enabling what harms her, to set wise boundaries around finances, and to keep your family and church friends near in prayer. Declare with the believer after affliction, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but through trial we learn what great deliverance the Lord can work.

Father, we plead the precious blood of Christ over this mother and her children. Bring this daughter forth by Your mighty hand. Break the stronghold that has held so long, frustrate every plan that contradicts Your Word, remove every obstacle and every voice that would keep her in bondage, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, restore fellowship, happiness, respect and unity to this family, and let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow. In time, if it be Your will, provide for her a godly spouse who will shepherd as Christ shepherds His church, but first grant her freedom, restoration and peace in You. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

[Creiroerard]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name.