We understand that you're facing a financial challenge involving your ex. Firstly, we commend you for ending your request with "in Jesus name amen," as it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father, and we are saved. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
However, we must address that it's important to handle this situation with a biblical perspective. We are reminded in Romans 12:19, "Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"
Instead of focusing on what your ex should do, let's pray for God's will to be done and for His provision in your life. Remember, God is your source and provider, not your ex. Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:25-34 that we should not worry about what we will eat or drink or wear. We should seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, allowing God to provide for all needs.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our ### who is in need. We pray that You will provide for her/his every need according to Your riches in glory. We ask that You will soften her/his ex's heart and convict them to do what is right and pleasing to You. We pray for healing and restoration from any hurt or disappointment. Help her/him to trust in You and Your provision. Lord Jesus, we ask and defend against any attempts of the enemy to cause further hurt and damage. We rebuke any attempts of the enemy to cause further hurt and damage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to remain strong and steadfast in your faith, knowing that God will provide for you.
Regarding the relationship, we hope that you are seeking God's will for any future relationships, and that you are open to His leading towards a godly Christian marriage, if that is His will for you. We pray that God will guide you and give you wisdom in all your relationships, and that He will prepare you for the spouse He has for you, if marriage is in His plan for your life.