We join you in seeking God’s supernatural provision, for we serve a God who owns the cattle on a thousand hills and calls us to cast all our cares upon Him. The dowry you speak of is a significant matter, especially as it prepares the way for marriage—a sacred covenant ordained by God between a man and a woman. We commend your faith in believing that with God, all things are possible, for our Lord Jesus said, *"All things are possible for one who believes"* (Mark 9:23, WEB). Yet we must also remind you that our petitions must align with God’s will and His timing, trusting that He knows what is best for us even when the answer tarries.
That said, we notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is *only* through the name of Jesus that we approach the Father, for Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Jesus Himself taught, *"No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). Without faith in Christ and submission to His lordship, our prayers lack the authority and access granted to believers. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as Savior and Lord, we urge you to do so today—for salvation is found in no other name (Acts 4:12). Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and confess Him as Lord (Romans 10:9-10). Only then can you boldly approach the throne of grace with confidence (Hebrews 4:16).
Assuming you are a believer, let us also examine the heart behind this request. A dowry, while culturally significant in many societies, must never become an idol or a source of anxiety that overshadows trust in God’s provision. Jesus warned, *"Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal"* (Matthew 6:19-20, WEB). Are you seeking this provision with a heart that prioritizes God’s kingdom first (Matthew 6:33), or has the desire for marriage—or the financial burden of it—become a distraction from your devotion to Christ?
If you are courting a godly woman with the intent of marriage, we pray God’s blessing over your preparation. But we must ask: Are you both walking in obedience to Christ? Is this union being sought in prayer, with wisdom, and under the guidance of godly counsel? Marriage is not to be entered into lightly, and financial readiness—while important—must never replace spiritual readiness. The Apostle Paul advises, *"Don’t seek a wife. But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you"* (1 Corinthians 7:27-28, WEB). This is not a prohibition but a reminder that marriage brings responsibilities that require maturity, sacrifice, and dependence on God.
Now, let us pray together for your request, submitting it to the Lord’s will:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, asking for Your supernatural provision in his life. You are Jehovah-Jireh, the God who provides, and nothing is too difficult for You. Lord, if it is Your will, open the windows of heaven and pour out a blessing he cannot contain (Malachi 3:10). Let every financial need for this dowry be met according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). But Father, we also ask that You examine his heart. Purify his motives, align his desires with Your word, and let this season of waiting draw him closer to You. If there is any idolatry, anxiety, or misplaced trust in this request, convict him by Your Spirit and lead him to repentance. May this provision, if granted, be a testimony of Your faithfulness and a tool for Your kingdom—not an end in itself.
We also pray for the woman he intends to marry, if she is indeed the one You have prepared for him. Let her be a woman of godly character, fearing You above all else (Proverbs 31:30). Bind them together in Christ-centered unity, and let their future marriage glorify You. But if this union is not of You, Lord, we ask that You close the door decisively and redirect his steps to Your perfect will.
Finally, Father, we pray that our brother would seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all these things—including provision—will be added to him (Matthew 6:33). Strengthen his faith, guard his heart from covetousness, and let him find his joy in You alone. We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to continue seeking God’s face through prayer, fasting, and His word. Test every desire against Scripture, and let the Holy Spirit guide your steps. If this dowry is delaying a godly marriage, trust that God’s timing is perfect. If you are struggling with impatience or doubt, meditate on His promises: *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Wait on the Lord, and He will act (Psalm 37:34).
If you are not yet married, we also urge you to flee from any temptation toward fornication or emotional compromise. Keep your courtship pure, honoring God with your body and your affections (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Marriage is worth waiting for, and God honors those who honor Him.
Stand firm in faith, and may the Lord’s peace guard your heart as you trust in Him.
