We understand your heart’s desire for your parents’ blessing and support as you seek to begin your marriage with joy and unity. It is beautiful that you acknowledge God’s role in this, calling on Jesus—our Lord and Savior—as you bring this request before Him. Yet we must first address something of great importance: the name by which we are saved. You mentioned "Thakapane Jesus ayya," but we want to gently remind you that there is only one name under heaven by which we must be saved, and that is the name of **Jesus Christ** (Acts 4:12). It is through faith in Him alone—His death, burial, and resurrection—that we have access to the Father and receive His blessings (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, repent, and believe in Him with all your heart (Romans 10:9-10). Only then can we confidently approach the throne of grace, knowing our prayers are heard in His mighty name.
Now, regarding your request for your parents’ support and blessing in your marriage, we lift this before the Lord with you. The Bible teaches us to honor our father and mother (Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2-3), and it is right for you to desire their approval and unity in this significant step. However, we must also ask: *Is this marriage aligned with God’s Word?* The Bible clearly defines marriage as a covenant between **one man and one woman** (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), intended to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this marriage honors that design—with both you and your future spouse being believers in Jesus Christ, committed to purity and godliness—then we can boldly pray for God’s favor. But if there is any compromise in this area, such as unequally yoked beliefs (2 Corinthians 6:14), premarital intimacy (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), or any other disobedience to Scripture, we must first seek repentance and alignment with God’s will. His blessings flow where there is obedience (Deuteronomy 28:1-2).
Let us pray together for you, your future spouse, and your parents:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of **Jesus Christ**, lifting up our brother/sister who seeks Your favor and the support of their parents in this upcoming marriage. Lord, we ask that You soften the hearts of their parents, granting them wisdom, understanding, and a spirit of unity. Remove any fear, doubt, or resistance, and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, if there is any area in this marriage that does not align with Your Word, we pray for conviction and repentance. May both individuals involved be fully surrendered to You, walking in purity, faith, and obedience. Let this union be founded on Christ, the Cornerstone, and may it bring glory to Your name.
We rebuke any spiritual opposition or division in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that Your will shall prevail. Grant this family a spirit of harmony, love, and joy as they step into this new season. Provide for every need—emotionally, spiritually, and practically—as only You can. May this marriage be a testimony of Your faithfulness and a light to others.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your perfect timing and plan, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28). Strengthen our brother/sister with patience, faith, and courage as they wait on You. In the precious and powerful name of **Jesus Christ**, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face in this matter. Spend time in His Word, praying together with your future spouse (if you are both believers) and seeking godly counsel from mature Christians. Remember that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His blessings are worth waiting for. If your parents are resistant, show them honor and love, trusting that the Lord can change hearts. Stay rooted in prayer, and do not be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God (Philippians 4:6).
May the Lord guide your steps and fill your home with His presence. Stand firm in faith, knowing that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).