Parents marrage of 30+ years to be restored....

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PLEASE PRAY for my parents as they have been separated (in the name of "working through some issues")......after 30+ Years of Marriage!

The problem is this "break" has now turned into something appearing more & more like a permanent separation......as my mum has become harder & harder to please for reconciliation to be a reality, to a painful level!

My mother comes from a famous well-off English family, & even though my folks both gave their lives to the Lord almost 40 years ago, there has always been a kind of family pride within my mum which has resulted in an unspoken looking down towards my dad by her.

In recent months this has surfaced in the blatant form of feeling & being entitled to my dad's extraordinary generosity towards her being taken as "long awaited payment" for all the years my mum had to suffer or "put up with" from times of lack over the years!

I honestly can't believe what I'm seeing bubble to the surface in my mum.....such ungratefulness, such selfish entitlement, it's hard to believe! When my mum has always appeared as this tender hearted, giving, gentle Christian woman!

I know my dad's not perfect, none of us are (though we all should be trying to be based on Christ' instruction), & I know my dad is still deeply in love with my mum & desires to be reunited in their marriage. My dad's problem is he needs deliverance through prayer of always needing to be "doing something".....like ADHD style he struggles to just sit still & rest!

So he has always by nature been a wheeler/dealer..... he used to have an antiques shop in Sydney with a mate when he was in his 20s, then a bicycle shop later in life, & in recent years a bargain hunter (garage sales etc) & sells things online.

So my mum has always taken it personal (like he never wanted to be home with her) but instead of her making any effort to go out & join him.....she only wanted to be more of a home body, & even now she only likes going out to go leisurely shopping & drink Coffee eat cake at Cafes etc.

So for there to be reconciliation at this point will take MIRACLES!!
1) Both my parents to get revelation from God about what they each need to change for their marriage to be rescued.

2) Both becoming less selfish (especially my mum) who still thinks my dad "owes" her for past times of lack over the years! 🙄😑

3) They would both get revelations from God that they are 'One Flesh' unto God under Marriage Covenant.....& thus incomplete without the other!

4) That the Lord would help my dad to be peaceful, calm, & have patience.

5) That the Lord would reignite their hearts to be ON FIRE for the Lord Jesus with their first love, & reignite their love/passion for one another again too!

6) That the Lord would remove any hardness if heart in each of them, & give them both a soft & tender hearts like the Lord.

7) That the enemy would be defeated in their lives, that the Lord would turn around anything the enemy has done to try to destroy them or their marriage, & He would restore their ministry to others as evangelists who seek & save the lost (give them the heart to discipleship new believers again like after they first got saved).

8) That the Lord would open their eyes to see one another as God sees each of them through His eyes, that any criticism would cease, & they would see all the positives in each other.

9) That the Lord would show them through revelation their combined value, wealth, & strength by being together.

10) That the Lord would prosper them with great wealth, favour & blessing when they are in unity together.....in one accord!

AMEN & AMEN!

** Pray & ask the Lord if there is anything else He would have you pray that lines up with the Word regarding Marriage, Reconciliation, Unity, Breakthrough etc

THANK YOU DEAR SAINTS FOR EVERY SINGLE PRAYER MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE!! 🙏🙏♥️❤️‍🔥
 
We are deeply moved by your prayer request for your parents' marriage restoration, and we are committed to lifting them up in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention in their lives. It is clear that you have a deep love for your parents and a strong desire to see their marriage healed and restored. We will pray earnestly for them, asking God to work miracles in their hearts and lives.

Firstly, we want to commend you for your faith and for seeking prayer support. It is essential to remember that God is the ultimate healer and restorer of relationships. As it says in Matthew 19:26, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." We will trust in God's power to bring about reconciliation and healing in your parents' marriage.

We are concerned about the issues you've mentioned, such as pride, selfishness, and entitlement. These are indeed obstacles to a healthy and God-honoring marriage. We will pray that God would humble your parents' hearts and help them to see the error of their ways. As it says in Proverbs 16:18, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." We will ask God to grant them the grace to repent and turn back to Him and to each other.

Regarding your mother's feelings of entitlement and your father's restlessness, we will pray that God would change their hearts and help them to find contentment and peace in Him. As it says in Philippians 4:11-13, "Not that I speak in respect to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I also know how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." We will ask God to help them find their satisfaction and fulfillment in Christ alone.

We are also concerned about the lack of mutual effort and understanding in their relationship. It is crucial for both parties to work towards reconciliation and to make an effort to understand and support each other. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

We will pray for your parents to have a revelation of their oneness in Christ and their need for each other. As it says in Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." We will ask God to help them see the value and strength in their unity and to work towards being reunited as one flesh.

We will also pray for God to reignite their love and passion for Him and for each other. As it says in Revelation 2:4-5, "But I have this against you, that you left your first love. Remember therefore from where you have fallen, and repent and do the first works; or else I am coming to you swiftly, and will move your lamp stand out of its place, unless you repent." We will ask God to help them return to their first love and to rekindle the flame of their love for each other.

Lastly, we will pray for God to prosper them with great wealth, favor, and blessing when they are in unity together. As it says in Psalm 133:1-3, "See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, that ran down on the beard, even Aaron’s beard; that came down on the edge of his robes; like the dew of Hermon, that descends on the hills of Zion: for there Yahweh gives the blessing, even life forever more."

Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this precious family to You. We ask that You would intervene in their lives and bring about healing and restoration in their marriage. We pray that You would humble their hearts and help them to see the error of their ways. Lord, we ask that You would change their hearts and help them to find contentment and peace in You alone.

We pray that You would give them a revelation of their oneness in Christ and their need for each other. Lord, we ask that You would reignite their love and passion for You and for each other. We pray that You would prosper them with great wealth, favor, and blessing when they are in unity together.

We rebuke the spirit of division and discord that has come between them and we ask that You would bind them together in love and unity. We pray that You would open their eyes to see each other as You see them and that any criticism would cease. Lord, we ask that You would show them through revelation their combined value, wealth, and strength by being together.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to pray for your parents and to seek God's will for their lives. We also encourage you to share the love of Christ with them and to be a living testimony of God's grace and mercy. May God bless you and your family abundantly as you seek Him and trust in His power to bring about healing and restoration.
 
We're standing with you, dear friend, as you intercede for your parents' marriage. We've been moved by your heartfelt plea for reconciliation and restoration. Here's what we're adding to our prayers for them:

1. **Softening of Hearts**: Lord, we ask that You soften their hearts, breaking any hardness and pride that has built up over the years. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, with love, compassion, and understanding.

2. **Revelation of Oneness**: Father, reveal to them their oneness in You. Help them understand that they are incomplete without each other, just as it's written in Genesis 2:24. Let them see the strength and value in their unity.

3. **Renewal of Love and Passion**: Lord, reignite the fire of their first love for You and for each other. Help them to rekindle the passion they once shared, not just for each other, but also for serving You.

4. **Deliverance from Restlessness**: We pray for your father, Lord. Help him to find peace and stillness, to sit quietly and rest in Your presence. Deliver him from the restlessness that has kept him from fully investing in his marriage.

5. **Healing of Entitlement**: We ask for healing for your mother, Lord. Help her to let go of any feelings of entitlement and bitterness. Fill her heart with gratitude and contentment.

6. **Miraculous Intervention**: Heavenly Father, we believe in Your power to perform miracles. We ask for a miracle in their lives, a supernatural intervention that will bring about healing, restoration, and unity in their marriage.

7. **Prosperity in Unity**: Lord, as they come together in unity, we ask that You would prosper them. Bless them with abundance, favor, and every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, as it's written in Ephesians 1:3.

We pray all these things in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.

Keep trusting in God's power to bring about healing and restoration in their marriage. Remember, with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).
 
We are deeply moved by your prayer request for your parents' marriage restoration, and we are committed to lifting them up in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention in their lives. It is clear that you have a deep love for your parents and a strong desire to see their marriage healed and restored. We will pray earnestly for them, asking God to work miracles in their hearts and lives.

Firstly, we want to commend you for your faith and for seeking prayer support. It is essential to remember that God is the ultimate healer and restorer of relationships. As it says in Matthew 19:26, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." We will trust in God's power to bring about reconciliation and healing in your parents' marriage.

We are concerned about the issues you've mentioned, such as pride, selfishness, and entitlement. These are indeed obstacles to a healthy and God-honoring marriage. We will pray that God would humble your parents' hearts and help them to see the error of their ways. As it says in Proverbs 16:18, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." We will ask God to grant them the grace to repent and turn back to Him and to each other.

Regarding your mother's feelings of entitlement and your father's restlessness, we will pray that God would change their hearts and help them to find contentment and peace in Him. As it says in Philippians 4:11-13, "Not that I speak in respect to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I also know how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." We will ask God to help them find their satisfaction and fulfillment in Christ alone.

We are also concerned about the lack of mutual effort and understanding in their relationship. It is crucial for both parties to work towards reconciliation and to make an effort to understand and support each other. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

We will pray for your parents to have a revelation of their oneness in Christ and their need for each other. As it says in Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." We will ask God to help them see the value and strength in their unity and to work towards being reunited as one flesh.

We will also pray for God to reignite their love and passion for Him and for each other. As it says in Revelation 2:4-5, "But I have this against you, that you left your first love. Remember therefore from where you have fallen, and repent and do the first works; or else I am coming to you swiftly, and will move your lamp stand out of its place, unless you repent." We will ask God to help them return to their first love and to rekindle the flame of their love for each other.

Lastly, we will pray for God to prosper them with great wealth, favor, and blessing when they are in unity together. As it says in Psalm 133:1-3, "See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, that ran down on the beard, even Aaron’s beard; that came down on the edge of his robes; like the dew of Hermon, that descends on the hills of Zion: for there Yahweh gives the blessing, even life forever more."

Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this precious family to You. We ask that You would intervene in their lives and bring about healing and restoration in their marriage. We pray that You would humble their hearts and help them to see the error of their ways. Lord, we ask that You would change their hearts and help them to find contentment and peace in You alone.

We pray that You would give them a revelation of their oneness in Christ and their need for each other. Lord, we ask that You would reignite their love and passion for You and for each other. We pray that You would prosper them with great wealth, favor, and blessing when they are in unity together.

We rebuke the spirit of division and discord that has come between them and we ask that You would bind them together in love and unity. We pray that You would open their eyes to see each other as You see them and that any criticism would cease. Lord, we ask that You would show them through revelation their combined value, wealth, and strength by being together.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to pray for your parents and to seek God's will for their lives. We also encourage you to share the love of Christ with them and to be a living testimony of God's grace and mercy. May God bless you and your family abundantly as you seek Him and trust in His power to bring about healing and restoration.
Thank you....that's beautiful! 🙏♥️
 
We're standing with you, dear friend, as you intercede for your parents' marriage. We've been moved by your heartfelt plea for reconciliation and restoration. Here's what we're adding to our prayers for them:

1. **Softening of Hearts**: Lord, we ask that You soften their hearts, breaking any hardness and pride that has built up over the years. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, with love, compassion, and understanding.

2. **Revelation of Oneness**: Father, reveal to them their oneness in You. Help them understand that they are incomplete without each other, just as it's written in Genesis 2:24. Let them see the strength and value in their unity.

3. **Renewal of Love and Passion**: Lord, reignite the fire of their first love for You and for each other. Help them to rekindle the passion they once shared, not just for each other, but also for serving You.

4. **Deliverance from Restlessness**: We pray for your father, Lord. Help him to find peace and stillness, to sit quietly and rest in Your presence. Deliver him from the restlessness that has kept him from fully investing in his marriage.

5. **Healing of Entitlement**: We ask for healing for your mother, Lord. Help her to let go of any feelings of entitlement and bitterness. Fill her heart with gratitude and contentment.

6. **Miraculous Intervention**: Heavenly Father, we believe in Your power to perform miracles. We ask for a miracle in their lives, a supernatural intervention that will bring about healing, restoration, and unity in their marriage.

7. **Prosperity in Unity**: Lord, as they come together in unity, we ask that You would prosper them. Bless them with abundance, favor, and every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, as it's written in Ephesians 1:3.

We pray all these things in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.

Keep trusting in God's power to bring about healing and restoration in their marriage. Remember, with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).
Amazing prayer....Thank you! 🙏❤️‍🔥
 
Praying for you and your request in Jesus. I will private message you. Did you know that the book of Hosea has promises we can claim in Jesus over ourselves, our family, our children, our relationships?

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing throughout your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will overflow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Matthew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirit Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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