SingingProphet
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PLEASE PRAY for my parents as they have been separated (in the name of "working through some issues")......after 30+ Years of Marriage!
The problem is this "break" has now turned into something appearing more & more like a permanent separation......as my mum has become harder & harder to please for reconciliation to be a reality, to a painful level!
My mother comes from a famous well-off English family, & even though my folks both gave their lives to the Lord almost 40 years ago, there has always been a kind of family pride within my mum which has resulted in an unspoken looking down towards my dad by her.
In recent months this has surfaced in the blatant form of feeling & being entitled to my dad's extraordinary generosity towards her being taken as "long awaited payment" for all the years my mum had to suffer or "put up with" from times of lack over the years!
I honestly can't believe what I'm seeing bubble to the surface in my mum.....such ungratefulness, such selfish entitlement, it's hard to believe! When my mum has always appeared as this tender hearted, giving, gentle Christian woman!
I know my dad's not perfect, none of us are (though we all should be trying to be based on Christ' instruction), & I know my dad is still deeply in love with my mum & desires to be reunited in their marriage. My dad's problem is he needs deliverance through prayer of always needing to be "doing something".....like ADHD style he struggles to just sit still & rest!
So he has always by nature been a wheeler/dealer..... he used to have an antiques shop in Sydney with a mate when he was in his 20s, then a bicycle shop later in life, & in recent years a bargain hunter (garage sales etc) & sells things online.
So my mum has always taken it personal (like he never wanted to be home with her) but instead of her making any effort to go out & join him.....she only wanted to be more of a home body, & even now she only likes going out to go leisurely shopping & drink Coffee eat cake at Cafes etc.
So for there to be reconciliation at this point will take MIRACLES!!
1) Both my parents to get revelation from God about what they each need to change for their marriage to be rescued.
2) Both becoming less selfish (especially my mum) who still thinks my dad "owes" her for past times of lack over the years!

3) They would both get revelations from God that they are 'One Flesh' unto God under Marriage Covenant.....& thus incomplete without the other!
4) That the Lord would help my dad to be peaceful, calm, & have patience.
5) That the Lord would reignite their hearts to be ON FIRE for the Lord Jesus with their first love, & reignite their love/passion for one another again too!
6) That the Lord would remove any hardness if heart in each of them, & give them both a soft & tender hearts like the Lord.
7) That the enemy would be defeated in their lives, that the Lord would turn around anything the enemy has done to try to destroy them or their marriage, & He would restore their ministry to others as evangelists who seek & save the lost (give them the heart to discipleship new believers again like after they first got saved).
8) That the Lord would open their eyes to see one another as God sees each of them through His eyes, that any criticism would cease, & they would see all the positives in each other.
9) That the Lord would show them through revelation their combined value, wealth, & strength by being together.
10) That the Lord would prosper them with great wealth, favour & blessing when they are in unity together.....in one accord!
AMEN & AMEN!
** Pray & ask the Lord if there is anything else He would have you pray that lines up with the Word regarding Marriage, Reconciliation, Unity, Breakthrough etc
THANK YOU DEAR SAINTS FOR EVERY SINGLE PRAYER MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE!!



The problem is this "break" has now turned into something appearing more & more like a permanent separation......as my mum has become harder & harder to please for reconciliation to be a reality, to a painful level!
My mother comes from a famous well-off English family, & even though my folks both gave their lives to the Lord almost 40 years ago, there has always been a kind of family pride within my mum which has resulted in an unspoken looking down towards my dad by her.
In recent months this has surfaced in the blatant form of feeling & being entitled to my dad's extraordinary generosity towards her being taken as "long awaited payment" for all the years my mum had to suffer or "put up with" from times of lack over the years!
I honestly can't believe what I'm seeing bubble to the surface in my mum.....such ungratefulness, such selfish entitlement, it's hard to believe! When my mum has always appeared as this tender hearted, giving, gentle Christian woman!
I know my dad's not perfect, none of us are (though we all should be trying to be based on Christ' instruction), & I know my dad is still deeply in love with my mum & desires to be reunited in their marriage. My dad's problem is he needs deliverance through prayer of always needing to be "doing something".....like ADHD style he struggles to just sit still & rest!
So he has always by nature been a wheeler/dealer..... he used to have an antiques shop in Sydney with a mate when he was in his 20s, then a bicycle shop later in life, & in recent years a bargain hunter (garage sales etc) & sells things online.
So my mum has always taken it personal (like he never wanted to be home with her) but instead of her making any effort to go out & join him.....she only wanted to be more of a home body, & even now she only likes going out to go leisurely shopping & drink Coffee eat cake at Cafes etc.
So for there to be reconciliation at this point will take MIRACLES!!
1) Both my parents to get revelation from God about what they each need to change for their marriage to be rescued.
2) Both becoming less selfish (especially my mum) who still thinks my dad "owes" her for past times of lack over the years!


3) They would both get revelations from God that they are 'One Flesh' unto God under Marriage Covenant.....& thus incomplete without the other!
4) That the Lord would help my dad to be peaceful, calm, & have patience.
5) That the Lord would reignite their hearts to be ON FIRE for the Lord Jesus with their first love, & reignite their love/passion for one another again too!
6) That the Lord would remove any hardness if heart in each of them, & give them both a soft & tender hearts like the Lord.
7) That the enemy would be defeated in their lives, that the Lord would turn around anything the enemy has done to try to destroy them or their marriage, & He would restore their ministry to others as evangelists who seek & save the lost (give them the heart to discipleship new believers again like after they first got saved).
8) That the Lord would open their eyes to see one another as God sees each of them through His eyes, that any criticism would cease, & they would see all the positives in each other.
9) That the Lord would show them through revelation their combined value, wealth, & strength by being together.
10) That the Lord would prosper them with great wealth, favour & blessing when they are in unity together.....in one accord!
AMEN & AMEN!
** Pray & ask the Lord if there is anything else He would have you pray that lines up with the Word regarding Marriage, Reconciliation, Unity, Breakthrough etc
THANK YOU DEAR SAINTS FOR EVERY SINGLE PRAYER MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE!!



