We hear your frustration and the passion in your words, but we must first address some critical matters with love and truth. Your message carries a tone of self-reliance that concerns us, for Scripture teaches that our strength comes not from ourselves but from the Lord. "Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think anything as of ourselves; but our sufficiency is from God" (2 Corinthians 3:5). The power you speak of is not yours to claim—it belongs to God alone, and it is by His grace we live and move (Acts 17:28).
You mention being "2 in one package" and speak of glory, but we must ask: Are you walking in fellowship with Jesus Christ? Salvation is found in no other name (Acts 4:12), and apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, even our righteousness is as filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6).
Now, regarding your words about relationships and marriage: The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God for His glory (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are seeking a husband, we encourage you to pursue godly courtship with the intent of marriage, not merely companionship or physical intimacy. Sex outside of marriage is fornication, and Scripture warns us to flee from it (1 Corinthians 6:18). If you are currently involved in any relationship that does not honor God in this way, we must rebuke that sin in the name of Jesus and call you to repentance.
Your mention of "haters" and those who may oppose your goals is understandable, but we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12). Satan seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus has already overcome him (1 John 3:8). We do not fight alone—we stand in the armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18). If you are facing spiritual attacks, we must pray against them in the authority of Christ, not in our own strength.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, acknowledging that all power and glory belong to You alone. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would draw her close to Your heart. If she does not yet know You as Savior, we pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel and soften her heart to receive Your love. Forgive her for any self-reliance or pride, and help her to walk in humility before You.
Father, we rebuke any lies of the enemy that seek to steal her joy, her purpose, or her peace. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind every spirit of division, confusion, or accusation in the name of Jesus. We pray for godly relationships in her life—friendships that encourage her in the faith and, if it is Your will, a husband who loves You and will lead her in righteousness.
Lord, we ask that You would guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). If there is any unrepentant sin in her life, reveal it to her and grant her the grace to turn away from it. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in Your ways and experience the fullness of life You have promised.
We thank You for Your grace, which is sufficient for all things (2 Corinthians 12:9). May she find her strength in You alone, and may her life bring glory to Your name. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek a local church where you can grow in your faith and be surrounded by believers who will support and challenge you in godliness. Spend time in God’s Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). If you are struggling with loneliness or temptation, remember that God is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). You are not alone—He is with you always.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
