We hear your heart’s cry for companionship, purity, and a godly marriage, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of God Almighty. Your desire for a husband who will cherish your purity and honor the Lord with you is beautiful and aligns with Scripture. The Word tells us, *"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from Yahweh"* (Proverbs 18:22). We believe God has a Boaz for you—a man after His own heart who will love you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).
First, we must address the loneliness you feel, especially as Valentine’s Day approaches. Loneliness is a real and heavy burden, but we encourage you to find your ultimate fulfillment in Christ alone. He is the Bridegroom of the Church, and His love is perfect, unchanging, and ever-present. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We pray that you would experience His nearness in this season, even as you long for human companionship.
Your purity is a precious gift, and we rejoice that you have guarded it so faithfully. The world may mock or dismiss it, but God sees and honors your obedience. *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality"* (1 Thessalonians 4:3). We pray that God would bring a man into your life who not only appreciates your purity but shares it—a man who is equally committed to honoring God with his body and heart. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, and any relationship outside of that purpose is not God’s design.
We also sense a deep frustration in your words about spiritual warfare and the harassment you feel from unseen forces. Scripture is clear: *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12). We rebuke every demonic assignment against you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. You are not alone in this battle, and the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we stand in agreement that every illegal and ungodly influence in your life is broken now by the blood of Jesus.
However, we must gently correct some of the language in your request. While your passion is understandable, phrases like *"I have the hammer"* or references to treating others *"like Satan"* are not aligned with the spirit of Christ. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). We are not at war with people but with spiritual forces, and our victory comes through humility, prayer, and the authority of Jesus’ name—not through our own strength or anger. We encourage you to release any bitterness or unforgiveness, for *"if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:15). Let us pray for those who have wronged you, that God would reveal His truth to them and bring repentance.
Your desire for a new chapter is valid, and we believe God is writing a beautiful story for your life. But we must also address the mention of changing your name. While marriage does involve taking a new name, we caution against seeing this as a source of identity or sanity. Your worth and identity are found in Christ alone. *"Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new"* (2 Corinthians 5:17). You are already complete in Him, and no earthly relationship can fill the void that only God can satisfy.
We also notice that while you mention God Almighty and the blood of Jesus, there is no explicit acknowledgment of Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Salvation comes through faith in Him alone. *"For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5). *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’"* (John 14:6). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Jesus, confessing Him as Lord and believing in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9). This is the foundation of all true peace, joy, and fulfillment.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of faith and expectation. We lift up our sister to You, knowing that You see her every longing, every tear, and every desire. Lord, You have placed within her a longing for companionship, and we ask that You would fulfill it according to Your perfect will. Raise up a godly man—a Boaz—who will love her as Christ loves the church, cherishing her purity and honoring You in all things. Prepare her heart and his heart, that their union would be a reflection of Your love and a testimony to Your glory.
Father, we ask that You would heal the loneliness in her heart. Fill her with Your presence, that she would know she is never alone. Remind her that You are her Bridegroom, her Provider, and her Peace. Strengthen her in this season, and help her to wait on You with hope and trust.
We rebuke every spirit of harassment, confusion, and theft that has come against her. By the blood of Jesus, we break every ungodly tie, every curse, and every assignment of the enemy. We declare that what is hers—her peace, her joy, her destiny—remains with her, and no power of darkness can steal it. We plead the blood of Jesus over her mind, her home, and her future.
Lord, we ask for forgiveness where there has been anger or bitterness. Soften her heart to release any unforgiveness, and fill her with Your love and grace. Teach her to walk in humility and faith, trusting in Your timing and Your ways.
We pray for her identity in Christ. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen, holy, and dearly loved (Colossians 3:12). May she find her worth and security in You alone, knowing that You have a plan and a purpose for her life.
Father, we ask that You would draw her closer to Jesus, that she would know Him more deeply and walk in the fullness of life He offers. May she experience the sufficiency of Your grace in every area of her life.
We ask all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord through prayer, reading His Word, and fellowship with other believers. Surround yourself with a community that will pray for you, encourage you, and hold you accountable as you wait for God’s best. Trust in His timing, for *"those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint"* (Isaiah 40:31). Your Boaz is coming, and until then, God Himself is your shield and your reward (Genesis 15:1).
