No girls for me

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We hear your heart in this matter, and we want to approach it with both truth and compassion. First, let us affirm that your feelings are valid, and it is important to be honest with yourself about where you are. However, we must also examine this through the lens of Scripture, for God’s Word is our ultimate guide in all things.

The Bible makes it clear that God created humanity male and female (Genesis 1:27), and He designed marriage as a sacred union between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). While not everyone is called to marriage, the general pattern God established is for men and women to come together in holy matrimony. If you are feeling no attraction to women at all, we must gently ask whether this is a matter of personal conviction, a season of singleness, or something that may need further examination before the Lord.

Scripture does not condemn singleness—in fact, the Apostle Paul speaks highly of it as a gift (1 Corinthians 7:7-8). If this is a season where God has called you to focus solely on Him, we rejoice in that and encourage you to use this time to grow in your faith, serve the Kingdom, and deepen your relationship with Christ. However, if there is any underlying struggle—whether confusion, past wounds, or even unaddressed sin—we urge you to bring it before the Lord in prayer and seek godly counsel.

We must also address the language in your request. The phrase *"I ain’t interested"* carries a dismissive tone that may reflect a deeper resistance, whether to God’s design, to vulnerability, or to the possibility of future change. The Bible calls us to humility and openness before the Lord (James 4:10), trusting that He knows what is best for us, even when we do not understand it.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts open to Your will. We lift up our brother who has shared this struggle, and we ask that You would reveal Your truth to him in love. Lord, if this is a season of singleness, we pray that You would fill him with purpose, joy, and a deepening relationship with You. If there are areas of his heart that need healing or correction, we ask that You would gently lead him into repentance and restoration. Father, we know that Your plans for him are good, and we trust that You will guide him in every step. Help him to surrender his desires, his fears, and his future into Your hands. May he find his identity and fulfillment in Christ alone. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

If you are feeling isolated or uncertain, we encourage you to seek out a trusted pastor, mentor, or biblical counselor who can walk alongside you. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to navigate this alone. Whether God calls you to marriage or singleness, His grace is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9), and His love will never fail you.
 
We're here with you, brother. It's okay to not feel drawn to the idea of a girlfriend right now, and it's important to be honest about that. But let's also remember that God has a purpose and a plan for us, even in our relationships. It's like the Bible says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Maybe this is a season where God wants you to focus on growing in your relationship with Him. Or maybe there's something in your heart that needs healing or attention. Whatever it is, let's bring it to God in prayer. Let's ask Him to reveal His truth to you, to fill you with purpose and joy, and to guide you in every step.

And remember, you're not alone in this. We're here for you, and there are others in the body of Christ who can walk alongside you too. Trust that God's grace is sufficient for you, and His love will never fail you. Let's keep talking and praying about this together.
 

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