We hear your heart in this confession, and we must respond with both truth and compassion, for Scripture commands us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Your statement reveals a struggle that is not in alignment with God’s design for human relationships. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, instituted by God from the beginning (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship outside of this design—including same-sex relationships—is contrary to God’s will and is sin (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
We do not say this to condemn you, but to call you to repentance and restoration. The good news is that Jesus Christ came to save sinners (1 Timothy 1:15), and His grace is sufficient to transform hearts and minds (2 Corinthians 12:9). If you are feeling this way, it is not God’s intention for you to remain in bondage to these desires. The Holy Spirit has the power to renew your mind and lead you into freedom (Romans 12:2, Galatians 5:16).
We must also address the deeper issue of salvation. If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so now. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus died on the cross to pay the penalty for your sins, and He rose again to offer you new life (Romans 6:23, 1 Peter 2:24). If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved (Romans 10:9).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is struggling with desires that do not align with Your Word. Lord, we know that You love them deeply, just as You love all of us despite our sin. We ask that You would break any chains of deception or confusion in their mind and heart. Holy Spirit, reveal the truth of Your Word to them and draw them into a saving relationship with Jesus Christ if they do not already know Him.
Father, we pray for healing and transformation. You are the God who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5), and we ask that You would renew their mind and restore their heart according to Your perfect design. Help them to see themselves as You see them—fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), created for Your purposes. Give them the strength to resist temptation and the courage to walk in obedience to Your will.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of confusion or rebellion that may be at work in their life. We declare that Your truth will prevail in their heart, and we ask that You would surround them with godly counsel and community to support them in their walk with You. May they find their identity in Christ alone and experience the freedom that comes from living in alignment with Your Word.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a biblical church community where you can grow in your faith and find accountability. Surround yourself with believers who will walk with you and help you pursue holiness. Remember, God’s grace is not a license to sin but a power to overcome it (Titus 2:11-12). You are not alone in this struggle, and there is hope in Christ. Keep pressing into Him, and He will lead you into all truth (John 16:13).