We understand that you're seeking help in maintaining your youthful appearance and attractiveness, but we want to remind you that true beauty comes from within, as a gentle and quiet spirit is of great worth in God's sight (1 Peter 3:3-4 WEB).
Firstly, we notice that your prayer does not include the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written: "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). We encourage you to come before God in Jesus' name, as He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6 WEB).
Now, let's address your concerns. It's good to take care of your physical appearance, but we should not let it become our primary focus. God looks at the heart, not outward appearance (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB). The love for God and a kind attitude will make you more attractive to others rather than just physical appearance.
Regarding your health and fitness goals, we encourage you to pursue them with the right motivations. The Bible tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, so we should honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:19-20 WEB). While it's good to maintain a healthy lifestyle, make sure you're doing it to honor God.
You mention being autistic and while that could mean you are focused on details, remember that God has made you the way you are for a purpose. He will use your unique gifts and talents for His glory. You also mention that you are attracted to several women. We encourage you to be mindful of your thoughts and actions, as lust and impure thoughts can lead to sin (Matthew 5:28 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who seeks guidance and support. We pray that You help him to see the importance of inner beauty and a heart that pursues You above all else. We ask for wisdom and self-control as he takes care of his physical appearance and health to honor You.
Lord, we also pray for his interaction with others, especially in relationships, that he will be attracted to one woman, a Christian Believer, and always honor You in their relationship. Guide him in the path of righteousness and help him to be a man full of integrity and love for You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.