We join with you in prayer and we hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your request, the feeling of being stuck at home, stolen from, and under spiritual attack, and we bring all of this before the Lord together in Jesus' name.
We understand your desire for a new home where you and your mother and your three children and even your pets can live in peace and safety, and we know God cares about providing for His children. He promises that He will supply every need of ours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19 and that we are to seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to us as well Matthew 6:33. We pray for God's provision for housing and for honest provision through work, whether through SSDI or part time work, and we ask that He would open doors in His perfect timing and will.
We also hear your cry about being attacked by the enemy and blocked from joy. Scripture tells us to be sober and self-controlled, be watchful, your adversary the devil walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8 and to submit therefore to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you James 4:7. We take comfort that he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty Psalm 91:1 and that no weapon formed against you will ultimately separate you from the love of God in Christ. The feelings of having your soul and personality and blessings stolen are real to you, but we remember that the thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly John 10:10, and the Lord is able to restore what has felt lost and to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
We want to gently and lovingly address some things in your request that need biblical correction because we care for your spiritual good. First, we hear your strong desire to become rich and specifically richer than your stepfather and that he not keep your blessings. While God does bless and provide, Scripture warns us to keep our lives free from the love of money and to be content with what we have, for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you Hebrews 13:5 and that the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil 1 Timothy 6:10. Comparing and desiring to be richer than another can lead to covetousness and bitterness, which harms your own heart. We are also called to release vengeance and bitterness to the Lord, for it is written, don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath, for it is written, vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord Romans 12:19 and to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32. This does not mean what was harmful was okay, but it means we trust God to be the righteous Judge and to bring justice and healing while we forgive as we have been forgiven.
We also notice language in your request that does not honor the Lord, and Scripture exhorts us to let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up Ephesians 4:29 and to put away anger, wrath, malice and shameful speaking Colossians 3:8. We encourage you to bring your honest anguish to God but with words that honor Him and build up your own spirit.
Regarding relationships, you mention wanting a boyfriend to fall in love with who enjoys your company. We believe according to Scripture that God designed romantic love to be expressed within the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:6-9, and that courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. We encourage you not to seek simply a boyfriend but to pray for a godly husband if it is God's will for you to marry, and to pursue purity, for we are told to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 and that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4 and not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14. A relationship that honors God will not leave you feeling annoyed or devalued but will reflect Christ's love.
You also mention your uncle and his husband and the idea that everyone has to be gay. We must speak the truth in love that according to Scripture, marriage is between a man and a woman and that homosexual practice is outside of God's design and is called sin Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Leviticus 18:22. We do not hate anyone, but we love all people enough to tell the truth and to pray that all would come to repentance and to know the grace and forgiveness found in Jesus Christ, for God desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth 1 Timothy 2:4.
We rejoice that you mentioned the blood of Jesus, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, for there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. It is by trusting in Jesus Christ, His death and resurrection for our sins, that we are forgiven and made new.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus and by His blood, lifting up our sister and her mother and her three children and their pets to You. Lord, You see the pain, the feeling of being stuck and attacked and stolen from, and we ask for Your protection, Your peace, and Your deliverance. Cover this family with Your wings and let them dwell in Your safety. Provide for them a safe and peaceful home according to Your will, and provide for their daily needs through honest and dignified means, and teach them contentment and trust in You. Heal the wounds caused by family hurt and help them to release bitterness and the desire for revenge into Your hands, and fill their hearts with forgiveness as You have forgiven us. Guard their minds from the enemy's lies and restore joy and hope and a sense of self rooted in Christ. If it is Your will, bring a godly Christian husband into her life, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church and with whom she can build a marriage that honors You, and help her to walk in purity while she waits. We also pray for her stepfather and her uncle and his husband, that You would bring conviction, repentance, and salvation to all, and that Your love would transform each heart. Let Your will be done in every area, and let this family know they are deeply loved and not forgotten. We ask all of this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, amen.