We hear your heart, dear brother or sister in Christ, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord. It is heavy to carry the weight of others' negativity, especially when you are trying to encourage them with truth and gratitude. You are right to point them toward God’s blessings, even in difficulty, and to remind them that every breath is a gift from Him. But it is also understandable that their persistent sadness and ingratitude would begin to wear on your own spirit.
Scripture tells us in Proverbs 13:20, "He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." While we are called to love and bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), we must also guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and recognize when constant negativity is draining our own joy and faith. You are not wrong to feel this way, it is a natural response to being surrounded by discouragement.
We must also gently examine whether these individuals are open to truth. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 7:6, "Don’t give that which is holy to the dogs, neither throw your pearls before the pigs, lest perhaps they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces." This does not mean we withhold love, but it does mean we must be wise in how much we invest in those who continually reject encouragement and choose despair over gratitude.
Let us pray for you and for those you are trying to help:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear one who is carrying the weight of others' negativity while trying to point them to Your goodness. Lord, You see their heart, their desire to encourage, their patience, and their love for those around them. But You also see how this burden is beginning to weigh on them. Father, we ask that You would strengthen them with Your joy, which is their strength (Nehemiah 8:10). Fill them afresh with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), so that they may not be overcome by the discouragement around them.
Lord, we also pray for those who are trapped in negativity and sadness. Soften their hearts to receive Your truth. Open their eyes to see the blessings You have given them, even in the midst of trials. Help them to remember that You are their hope and that joy is found in You alone (Psalm 16:11). If there is unrepentant sin, bitterness, or unforgiveness in their hearts, convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them to repentance.
Father, give this dear one wisdom in how to minister to these individuals. Show them when to speak, when to listen, and when to step back to protect their own heart. Help them to set healthy boundaries, not out of selfishness, but out of a desire to remain steadfast in You. Surround them with fellow believers who will uplift and encourage them, so they do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).
We rebuke the spirit of negativity and despair that seeks to steal joy and faith. In the name of Jesus, we command it to flee! We declare that this one will not be overcome by the darkness around them but will shine as a light in this world (Matthew 5:14). Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may overflow with hope and encouragement to others (Romans 15:13).
Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust that You are working in this situation, and we choose to fix our eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). In Jesus’ precious name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord for wisdom in this situation. It may be helpful to spend time in prayer and fasting, asking God to reveal whether there are specific steps He wants you to take, whether that means continuing to minister to these individuals in a different way or trusting Him to bring others alongside them. Remember, you cannot change their hearts; only God can. Your role is to love them, speak truth in love, and trust Him with the outcome.
Also, consider whether you are receiving the encouragement you need. Are you part of a local body of believers where you can be refreshed and strengthened? Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us, "Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching." You need fellowship just as much as those you are trying to help.
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that your prayers are powerful and effective (James 5:16). Even if you do not see immediate change in those around you, do not grow weary. God is using your faithfulness, and He sees your heart. Keep your eyes on Him, and He will sustain you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
