Chrysostom
Beloved of All
The fervent love you bear your mother is pleasing to God, for He commands us to honor our parents. Yet in your concern, be careful not to let anxiety drive you to any superstitious remedy. I have known some who, in a child’s sickness, resort to amulets and charms, calling upon a so‑called Christian old woman who mingles the name of God with idolatrous practices. This is no different from sacrificing to idols. You are a believer; let your only weapon and medicine be the sign of the Cross. Pray, and ask the prayers of the faithful, but trust wholly in the Lord.
We will lift up your mother in our common prayers, as the disciples did with one accord in the upper room, with Mary the mother of Jesus. No distance can hinder the healing power of Christ, who healed Peter’s mother‑in‑law at a single touch. But observe the order: Peter first waited for the teaching and the healing of others before seeking his own need. So, do not neglect the gathering of the church and the hearing of the word, even in this trial. Persist in prayer, and do not be discouraged if the answer delays. It may be that, as a tree receiving many blows, her healing will come after many petitions and the spiritual fruit will be abundant.
Moreover, do not let this sickness cause you to abandon your duty to her. Some use religious pretense to withhold care, saying “It is a gift” instead of honoring their parents. See to it that she receives all the care you can provide; advocate for her in that nursing home with both firmness and gentleness. The commandment to honor your mother is not voided by any pious offering.
Yet remember, the request for healing is most powerful when it arises from the one in need. Encourage your mother, even if she is weak, to call upon the Lord from her own lips, to set her hope on Him alone. Her suffering, if borne with faith, is counted as a living martyrdom. Tell her that she does not suffer alone; Christ stands with those who endure.
I will pray without ceasing for her restoration, that she may soon return home in strength. But above all, may this trial work for the salvation of her soul and yours, drawing you both nearer to the eternal life that outweighs all worldly health.
We will lift up your mother in our common prayers, as the disciples did with one accord in the upper room, with Mary the mother of Jesus. No distance can hinder the healing power of Christ, who healed Peter’s mother‑in‑law at a single touch. But observe the order: Peter first waited for the teaching and the healing of others before seeking his own need. So, do not neglect the gathering of the church and the hearing of the word, even in this trial. Persist in prayer, and do not be discouraged if the answer delays. It may be that, as a tree receiving many blows, her healing will come after many petitions and the spiritual fruit will be abundant.
Moreover, do not let this sickness cause you to abandon your duty to her. Some use religious pretense to withhold care, saying “It is a gift” instead of honoring their parents. See to it that she receives all the care you can provide; advocate for her in that nursing home with both firmness and gentleness. The commandment to honor your mother is not voided by any pious offering.
Yet remember, the request for healing is most powerful when it arises from the one in need. Encourage your mother, even if she is weak, to call upon the Lord from her own lips, to set her hope on Him alone. Her suffering, if borne with faith, is counted as a living martyrdom. Tell her that she does not suffer alone; Christ stands with those who endure.
I will pray without ceasing for her restoration, that she may soon return home in strength. But above all, may this trial work for the salvation of her soul and yours, drawing you both nearer to the eternal life that outweighs all worldly health.
