We hear the heaviness in your heart and we join with you in bringing your little house and your whole family before the Lord in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is in His name that healing comes.
We grieve with you over the loss of your mother a few months ago. The Lord sees your broken heart and He draws near to comfort you. Psalm 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. And Psalm 147:3 says He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. We also remember 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 that God is the Father of mercies and God of all comfort who comforts us in all our affliction. We understand your longing for your youngest son to come and comfort you, and we pray God will comfort you first and deeply Himself, and then bring healthy, godly comfort through your children in proper order without pulling anyone away from their God given duties.
We must lovingly speak truth about your son who left his wife to come to your house. Even though you love him and want him near, and even though circumstances are very hard and they love each other, Scripture is clear that marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that must be honored above even parents. Genesis 2:24 says Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. And Matthew 19:6 says So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart. A son is to leave his mother and cleave to his wife, not leave his wife to return to his mother. We gently rebuke this separation and we urge your son in love to return to his wife in the United States and to love her more as Christ loves the church, to be faithful, to provide and to lead his marriage with commitment. We pray God will make a way where there seems to be no way for them to be reunited and to honor their vows. If distance and hardship are the reasons, we pray for wisdom and provision for them to live together as husband and wife as God intends.
We also lift up your daughter and her child and the father of the child who has now moved into your home. We thank you for opening your home to help them. If your daughter and the father of her child are not married, we must address this in love. Living together as if married without being married is fornication and does not honor God. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. If they are not married, we encourage them to either separate until they can marry or to pursue holy marriage quickly as a lifelong commitment, and to live in purity. Courtship should be with the goal of godly marriage between believers, not simply living together. If they are already married, we pray God will strengthen their marriage and help them walk in faithfulness and responsibility.
We join you in praying for holy boundaries and peace in your little house. You have asked for no arguing, no lies, no meth, no women from the street sneaking in, and angels at every entrance. We agree with you for a house set apart for the Lord. Ephesians 4:31-32 says Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Colossians 3:9 says Don't lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings. And 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 reminds us Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. Meth and sexual immorality and deception have no place in a home that seeks to honor Christ, and we rebuke those sins and pray for repentance and deliverance for anyone struggling with them. We pray for good boundaries, for truth spoken in love, for self control, and for the peace of Christ to rule. Colossians 3:15 says Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts. And Philippians 4:6-7 says In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
We also hear your cry to feel special, loved, comforted and treated with kindness. You are special and precious to God. Psalm 139:14 says you are fearfully and wonderfully made, and 1 Peter 5:7 says casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you. Your heart hurts and God sees every tear. He wants to fill you with His love and kindness even when the house feels crowded and stressful.
We bring your financial need before Him as well, with your daughter's job loss and rent due soon. Philippians 4:19 says My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. We pray for open doors for work, for provision, for wisdom to steward what you have, and for generosity and responsibility from each adult in the home.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come to You for this dear mother and grandmother. We thank You that You see her home, You see every person under that roof, You see her grief for her own mother, her love for her children and grandchild, her financial burden and her longing for peace. Lord heal the brokenhearted and bind up wounds. Comfort her as only You can, and let her feel how cherished she is by You. Pour out Your love and kindness upon her.
Lord we ask You to heal this family and restore godly order. Convict and guide her son to return to his wife and to love his wife more, to honor his marriage vows and to cleave to her as one flesh. Make a way for that marriage to be whole and strong, remove obstacles, provide for their reunion, and let their love be faithful and enduring. For her daughter and the father of her child, Lord bring conviction where there is sin and bring purity. If they are not married, lead them to repentance and to holy marriage or to live separately in holiness. Let no fornication or adultery remain.
Father we ask for Your blessing and protection over this little house. Set angels at every entrance as she has prayed, for Psalm 91:11 says He will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways. Let this home be filled with Your presence, with truth instead of lies, sobriety instead of meth and drugs, purity instead of sexual immorality, and peace instead of arguing. Teach them all good boundaries, kindness, tenderheartedness and forgiveness. Let children’s spouses be welcomed in honor when they come in the right way, as part of godly marriages that honor You. Provide for the rent, open a good job for her daughter, give wisdom to each adult to contribute and to live responsibly.
We ask for Your peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Let Your will be done in this family, bring healing, holiness and love that honors You. We trust You to supply every need and to make this house a place of refuge and blessing. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.
God I live on ###. My daughter move to me with her kid. The dad come too now. I try help. But my son leave his esposa to come my house. Ella viver en Estados Unidos. They love each other I say before that I want him go home to her. They want. But circumstances es muy hard. Mi madre has died ### months. So I need my hijo , my youngest son come comfort. My otro son home with his house n wife. Jesus Christo help heal the family verdad? Si. I need him love the wife more. I need paz en mi Casita. My daughter loss the job , no money . Rent money soon. God I want love comfort kindness eh FEEL especial my heart hurt. Good boundary no argue in house okay. God bless okay mi hijos esposo yes can come but I want my house blessed. Angels in every entrance no meth no lies no the women on street sneak in. Dios en El nombre de Jesus