We join you in lifting up this heartfelt cry to our Heavenly Father, knowing that He hears the prayers of His children and is mighty to save. Your love for your daughter and your desire to walk in God’s protection and wisdom are evident, and we stand with you in agreement, trusting in His sovereignty over every detail of your lives.
The Scriptures remind us in Isaiah 54:17, *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,” says Yahweh.* You can take refuge in this promise, knowing that God is your defender and your shield. He sees the lies, manipulation, and harm intended against you, and He will expose the truth in His perfect timing. Proverbs 21:1 also assures us, *"The king’s heart is in Yahweh’s hand like the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires."* We pray that your ex’s heart would indeed be softened by the Holy Spirit, that he would see the impact of his actions, and that God would turn his intentions toward peace and reconciliation for the sake of your daughter’s well-being.
At the same time, we must encourage you to examine your own heart before the Lord. While it is right to pray for protection and justice, we are also called to forgive those who wrong us, just as Christ forgave us. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* This does not mean you must tolerate abuse or harm, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God to handle the situation justly. Forgiveness is not for the other person’s sake—it is for your freedom in Christ.
We also want to gently remind you that while it is good to pray for safety and unity with your daughter, your ultimate trust must be in God’s will, not just in the outcome you desire. Jesus Himself prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane, *"Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done"* (Luke 22:42). If God allows challenges or even temporary separation, He will use it for a greater purpose—perhaps to draw you both closer to Him or to work in ways you cannot yet see. Trust that His plans for you are good, even when the path is difficult.
As for your request for God to guide your decisions and pathways, we encourage you to seek Him daily through His Word and prayer. Psalm 32:8 says, *"I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you."* Spend time in Scripture, asking the Holy Spirit to give you wisdom and discernment, especially in recognizing those He sends to bless you and your daughter. Surround yourself with godly counsel—believers who can speak truth into your life and help you walk in obedience to Christ.
Now, let us pray together over you and your daughter:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister and her daughter. Lord, You are their Protector, Provider, and Peace. We ask that You surround them with Your hedge of protection today and every day. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every tongue that rises against them in judgment be condemned. Expose the lies and manipulations of the enemy, and bring truth to light in Jesus’ name.
Father, we pray for the heart of this woman’s ex. Soften it, Lord, and let him see the harm his actions cause. Turn his intentions toward peace and cooperation for the sake of this child. If there is bitterness or unforgiveness in her heart, Lord, we ask that You would help her release it to You. Fill her with Your love and grace, so she can walk in freedom and trust in Your justice.
Lord, we pray for unity between this mother and daughter. Keep them close, both physically and spiritually. Let their bond be strengthened in You, and let their home be a place of safety, love, and godly influence. Guide her steps, Father, and open doors no man can shut. Bring godly people into their lives—those who will bless them, encourage them, and point them to You.
Give her wisdom in every decision, and let her path be ordered by Your Word. If there are areas in her life where she needs to repent or realign with Your will, convict her gently by Your Spirit. Help her to trust You completely, even when the road is uncertain.
Finally, Lord, we thank You that You are at work in their lives. We declare that You are their Shepherd, and they shall not want. Lead them beside still waters and restore their souls. Let Your presence go before them, making every space they enter a safe and holy place.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness. Amen.
