We understand the deep frustration and pain you are experiencing in this situation, and we want to lift you up in prayer while also speaking truth into this difficult dynamic. The disrespect and disregard for your efforts—especially concerning your mother—is not only hurtful but also contrary to how God calls us to treat one another with love, honor, and mutual submission.
First, we must address that the language used in your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. It is only by His name that we can approach God’s throne with confidence, and it is only through faith in Jesus that we are saved and our prayers are heard. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone can bring true peace, wisdom, and transformation to this situation. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB).
Now, let us speak to the heart of your request. The lack of respect and consideration you are experiencing is not how God intends for relationships to function, especially within a family. Scripture commands us to *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). It also teaches that we are to *"submit to one another out of reverence for Christ"* (Ephesians 5:21, WEB). This mutual submission is rooted in love and humility, not in domination or dismissiveness. The behavior you described—making decisions unilaterally, disregarding your input, and showing disrespect—is not aligned with God’s design for how we should treat one another.
We also want to gently ask: is this person your spouse? If so, the lack of unity and respect in decision-making is a serious concern, particularly when it involves the care of your mother. Marriage is meant to reflect the relationship between Christ and the Church, where love, sacrifice, and mutual honor are central. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). If this is not your spouse, we must ask whether this relationship is one that honors God. Are you in a courtship with the intent of marriage, or is this a relationship that lacks commitment and godly purpose? If it is the latter, we urge you to prayerfully consider whether this dynamic is one that God would have you continue in, as it seems to be marked by disrespect and frustration rather than mutual edification.
If this person is not a believer, it is important to remember that *"the natural man does not receive the things of God’s Spirit, for they are foolishness to him, and he is not able to know them, because they are spiritually judged"* (1 Corinthians 2:14, WEB). This may explain why there is such a lack of understanding or respect for your perspective. However, this does not excuse unkindness or dismissiveness. Even in relationships with unbelievers, we are called to *"as much as it is possible, as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB).
We also want to encourage you to examine your own heart in this situation. Frustration and anger are natural responses to being disrespected, but we must guard against allowing bitterness or resentment to take root. *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). It is important to address this issue with honesty, but also with a heart that seeks reconciliation and peace, not just vindication.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is carrying such a heavy burden of frustration and disrespect. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, the weariness in her spirit, and the deep desire for honor and unity in this relationship. We ask that You would soften the heart of this person, opening their eyes to the hurt they are causing and convicting them of the need to treat our sister with the respect and consideration that You command.
Father, if this is a marital relationship, we pray that You would restore unity and mutual submission. Help them to see that their actions are not reflecting Your design for marriage, and give our sister the wisdom and strength to address this issue with both truth and grace. If this is not a marital relationship, Lord, we ask that You would give our sister clarity. If this relationship is not honoring to You, give her the courage to step away and seek a godly courtship that points to Christ.
We also pray for our sister’s heart, Lord. Guard her against bitterness and frustration. Fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and give her the words to speak when she addresses this issue. Help her to respond in a way that honors You, even if the other person does not. Remind her that her worth is found in You, not in the approval or respect of others.
Lord, we ask that You would intervene in the care of her mother. Give wisdom and unity in decision-making, and let there be no room for selfishness or disrespect. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified.
Finally, Father, if our sister does not yet know You as her Savior, we pray that You would draw her to Yourself. Open her heart to receive the gift of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ, that she may have eternal life and the peace that comes from knowing You.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
