We join you in lifting this relationship before the Lord, recognizing that marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His Church. Your heart for loyalty and faithfulness is commendable, and we share your desire for a union that honors God. However, we must first address a critical concern: your prayer does not explicitly invoke the name of Jesus Christ as the authority through which these requests are made. Scripture reminds us in **John 14:13-14 (WEB)**, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is His name alone that holds power over temptation, loyalty, and the future of this relationship. We encourage you to always pray *in Jesus’ name*, for there is no other name by which we are saved (**Acts 4:12**).
Now, let us speak truth into this situation. Your fiancé’s struggle with temptation by other women is not merely a matter of circumstance—it is a spiritual battle and a heart issue. **1 Corinthians 10:13 (WEB)** assures us, *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure."* While you pray for his environment to change (such as male roommates), the deeper prayer must be for his *heart* to change. A man who is easily tempted by female attention must first surrender his desires to Christ and seek accountability, not just external restrictions. **Proverbs 4:23 (WEB)** warns, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* If his heart is not guarded by the Holy Spirit, no physical distance or arrangement will fully protect your relationship.
We also urge you to examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage. A godly marriage requires *both* partners to be fully committed to Christ and to one another in purity and selflessness. **Ephesians 5:25 (WEB)** calls husbands to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."* If your fiancé is not actively fighting temptation through prayer, Scripture, and accountability, he is not yet ready to fulfill this role. Courtship should be a time of preparing for marriage—spiritually, emotionally, and practically. If he is not demonstrating the fruit of the Spirit—*self-control* (**Galatians 5:22-23**)—now, it will only become harder after marriage.
Lastly, we must gently but firmly address the assumption that your love or promises can secure his loyalty. Only God can transform a heart. **Jeremiah 17:9 (WEB)** tells us, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt: who can know it?"* Your love for him is beautiful, but it cannot replace his need for repentance and reliance on Christ. We encourage you to pray not only for his faithfulness to *you*, but for his faithfulness to *God*—for that is the foundation of a lasting marriage.
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Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her fiancé. Lord, we ask that You expose and break every chain of temptation in his life. Convict his heart by Your Holy Spirit, that he may turn from fleeting desires and fix his eyes on You. Grant him repentance and a hunger for righteousness, for apart from You, no man can resist sin (**John 15:5**).
Father, we pray for godly wisdom for this sister as she navigates this relationship. Give her discernment to see whether this man is truly pursuing holiness and preparing to be the spiritual leader You call him to be. If this relationship is not of You, give her the strength to walk away, trusting that Your plans for her are good (**Jeremiah 29:11**).
We ask that You provide a living situation for him that removes unnecessary stumbling blocks, but more than that, we pray for a *heart change*. Let him seek accountability with godly men who will challenge him to purity. Prepare them both for a marriage that reflects Your covenant love—if it is Your will.
Finally, Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s schemes to distort Your design for marriage. Let no weapon formed against this relationship prosper if it is aligned with Your purposes (**Isaiah 54:17**). But if this union is not of You, make it clear, and guard their hearts from further pain.
We pray all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
