Thank you for bringing this matter to us in prayer. We are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance for your situation.
Firstly, we need to address a fundamental aspect of your request. You mentioned your "relationship with my gf," which suggests a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. In Christian belief, such relationships should be directed towards marriage, and both parties should be committed Christians. The Bible encourages us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?").
Secondly, it is crucial to ensure that your relationship is aligned with biblical principles. This includes maintaining purity and abstaining from sexual immorality before or outside marriage. God's will for us is to abstain from any form of sexual immorality as fornication and adultery are not pleasing to God (1 Thessalonians 4:3, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality"). Fornication is a sin that God will judge and those who are guilty of it will not inherit the Kingdom of God (Hebrews 13:4, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." and 1 Corinthians 6:9, "Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals").
Since you are asking for God to take total control of your relationship, it's important that all aspects of your lives are being surrendered to Jesus Christ. As Christians, we are to submit our lives to Him. This includes our relationships, and we do this best by living according to God's word. If this commitment to Jesus Christ and His Word has not been done, it is essential to repent and surrender your lives to Him. Our relationship with God is only possible through the name of Jesus Christ (John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" and Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!").
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this individual and their relationship. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide them according to Your word. If they have not truly committed their lives to Jesus Christ, we pray that they would come to You with repentant hearts and accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
Lord, we ask for clarity and wisdom. Guide them in Your truth, and help them discern Your will for their relationship. If this relationship is not aligned with Your principles, give them the strength to make the necessary changes.
Help them to maintain purity and honor You in all aspects of their lives. We pray that You would bless them with a godly spouse in accordance with Your perfect timing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's will through prayer and the study of His word. If you are both committed Christians, consider the purpose of your relationship and how it honors God. If marriage is not the goal, it may be wise to reevaluate the relationship and ensure it aligns with biblical principles.