We understand that you are seeking prayer for your relationship with your boyfriend, and we are here to support you in prayer and biblical counsel. First, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this situation and ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles.
The Bible teaches us that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and the Church. Ephesians 5:25-33 (WEB) says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her... This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly." As believers, we are called to pursue relationships that honor God and lead to godly marriages.
We notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to pray in the name of Jesus, acknowledging His lordship and seeking His will in your life and relationships.
Regarding your relationship, it is essential to address that sexual intimacy before or outside of marriage is considered fornication, which is a sin against God. 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB) says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." We encourage you to honor God with your body and pursue purity in your relationship.
Moreover, we want to address the desperation you feel. While it is natural to desire a loving and committed relationship, we must be cautious not to place our ultimate hope and security in another person, but rather in God alone. Psalm 62:5 (WEB) reminds us, "My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my expectation is from him."
Let us pray for you and your boyfriend:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious sister in Christ to You, asking for Your guidance, wisdom, and discernment in her life. Lord, we pray that You would draw her closer to You and help her to find her ultimate satisfaction and security in Your love.
We ask that You would work in the heart of her boyfriend, convicting him of any sin and leading him to repentance. Lord, if it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You would restore their relationship and help them to pursue a godly courtship that honors You. May they both commit to purity and flee from sexual immorality, seeking to glorify You in their bodies.
Father, we pray that You would heal any brokenness and bind up any wounds in their hearts. Help them to communicate openly and honestly with one another, and to extend grace, forgiveness, and love. May they both grow in their faith and trust in You, seeking Your kingdom first and foremost.
We rebuke any spirits of desperation, fear, or anxiety, and we command them to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray that You would fill this sister with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we pray that You would make Your will clear to them both, and give them the strength and courage to follow You wholeheartedly. May they both be drawn closer to You and find their ultimate hope and joy in Your love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your life, such as a pastor or spiritual mentor. They can provide you with additional support, guidance, and prayer as you navigate this situation. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
