My name is ### & this prayer is

[robbiestar7]

My name is ### & this prayer is for ### who I love dearly, the mother of my child. We are separated because I couldn't handle the strife, but I am back! Her mom died of cancer last year and her dad is needy now & using her and controlling her and influencing her to keep away from me & don't know why? He cusses a lot and is non-Christian and now she has to be a parent to her mentally retarded 37-year-old brother because her dad can't because he's lazy. I see her personality changing and cursing God lately for the first time, saying "God blank" a lot like her dad. I have never seen her say that! I think ### is doing ungodly things, meeting a man & drinking with him behind my back to get her mind off things as her non-Christian friends encourage because she came home 4 hours late several times & I can smell & tell she's drinking but denies it. She is so lost & I see her drinking wine at home from what she's dealing with & talks about dying and says "I wish I was never born" and I am cursed! And she cries & I hold her, I give scripture and she just throws it away and says "God hates me!" She thinks now it's easier to be single & it's more stress to be with me because I am softly preaching to her & says that is stress & now I am annoying She is so mean to me lately & cold & cursing at me for no reason. I cook, do laundry & all the chores and says she doesn't care. I want her to love me again and trust me and give us a chance and stay as a family; I want it to work. I left for a while but realized I should work it out. But she said "you left me in my stress!" She now thinks I am conning her to get back, I am not! She struggles with trusting me & there are people trying to influence her to sin & be single and live life. I see what Satan is doing.. I pray she loves me again and trusts me and believes me & wants to work it out (one chance to prove to her) she said "how can I believe you and take you back and you are not there for me!" I want us to get back together & raise our child together. We act like a family and bother in the same room loving only 30 minutes a day with our child and at times laughing together and cooking together because she is a workaholic & can't sit still she says? She's too independent & never needed anyone she says, why can't we be a family? I wish I had more time with her to repair, but goes to bed when she comes home. And says "I don't have time for a relationship!" Yeah, because she's always working or with her brother at his care home! She does things with our daughter, like zoo and places, but not with me and doesn't invite me? She says she's all I need. Seems so selfish. And it hurts me so bad and she says "I sound needy and clingy." Times she's nice and responds & other times ignores me. What do I do? I don't know who is influencing her, but that is what it seems & she says "I have everyone helping me watch our daughter, why do I need you really at all?" And they would cook for me or clean for me so it's not special that you do it. And times she thanks me. Is she bipolar? Or can't sit still to think what she says or does? Help me because it's giving me depression and I can't eat or sleep and I love her. I just wish God would fix her and she loves me again and trusts me.

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[Lucrecia ulloa]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.  Maybe you Can control her with your money, giving her more or less if  she makes what her father wants.

Don't care if she ignores you. 

Just make something  else, and dont do Everyrhing at home. 

 

[Anonymous]

Praying for peace in your life.

Respectfully, is ### your wife or simply "the mother of your child?" If you're not married, then both of you would have trouble seeing yourselves as a family (you left, she's resentful, etc). Also, a woman is only going to take a boyfriend so seriously; you don't carry as much weight as a husband. The piece of paper matters.

If you're her husband....you left. You may have had good reasons, but now you have to mend what feels like a betrayal to her.

Either way, try to see this from her angle: you left your woman/wife and child in a desperate situation, then you return and start 'softly preaching.' She's acting out because she is probably trying to test your level of commitment.

Real talk: you lost the moral high ground by leaving, so stop 'preaching.' LIVE IT. Just keep moving forward, being a good husband(?) and father, doing your share in the house, etc. Instead of waiting to be invited, plan family outings - have tickets, pack the picnic basket, etc. Be a good Christian example and she may start to ask you about God, once you stop preaching.

But...if you're not married, THAT may be the problem. Only you can decide if you want to be married to this woman, but if she wants to be married to you, you can expect her resentment to continue. Some women would leave or put you out, other women just become passive aggressive. A boyfriend is just a boyfriend, sir.

Please take my comments as respectful and helpful; I hope you can rebuild your family. May God bless you.

 

[Anonymous]

Praying for you - STAY FAITHFUL to GOD.

 

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