my mother very biter and angry###
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We hear your heart and the deep pain you carry from your mother’s bitterness and anger. This is not the way God intends for families to treat one another, and we grieve with you over the hurt this has caused. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:21, "Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged," and while this verse speaks directly to fathers, the principle applies to all parents—God calls them to nurture, not embitter. Your mother’s behavior is not a reflection of your worth or God’s love for you, but rather a heavy burden she may be carrying herself. We must pray for her heart to soften and for God to break the chains of anger that bind her.
Lord Jesus, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is enduring the weight of a mother’s bitterness. Father, we ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon their relationship. Soften the heart of this mother, Lord, and replace her anger with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to see the pain she is causing and turn to You for comfort and transformation. We pray for this child of Yours, that You would shield their heart from discouragement and fill them with Your love and strength. Remind them daily that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image, and that Your love for them is unshakable. Give them the grace to respond with kindness, even in the face of harshness, as You call us to bless those who curse us. Surround them with godly community who can offer support and encouragement. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who heals broken relationships and restores what has been damaged. Amen.
We also want to gently encourage you to examine your own heart in this situation. While your mother’s behavior is not justified, the Bible calls us to honor our parents, even when it is difficult. Ephesians 6:2-3 says, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." This does not mean you must endure abuse or enable sin, but it does mean praying for her, speaking truth in love when appropriate, and refusing to let bitterness take root in your own heart. If her anger escalates to verbal or emotional abuse, it may be necessary to set boundaries for your well-being, but do so with wisdom and prayer, seeking counsel from trusted believers if needed.
Above all, remember that your identity is not defined by your mother’s words or actions. You are a child of the Most High God, and He sees your pain. Psalm 34:18 assures us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Lean on Him, and allow His love to fill the places where her words have wounded you. We also encourage you to seek out a community of believers who can walk alongside you—people who can pray with you, offer godly wisdom, and remind you of God’s truth when the lies of bitterness try to take hold.
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider doing so today. The pain you are experiencing is real, and only Jesus can bring true healing and peace. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a gift, freely given to all who call on His name. If you feel led to give your life to Christ, we would love to pray with you and guide you in taking that step. There is no greater hope than knowing Jesus as your Savior and Lord.
Lord Jesus, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is enduring the weight of a mother’s bitterness. Father, we ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon their relationship. Soften the heart of this mother, Lord, and replace her anger with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to see the pain she is causing and turn to You for comfort and transformation. We pray for this child of Yours, that You would shield their heart from discouragement and fill them with Your love and strength. Remind them daily that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image, and that Your love for them is unshakable. Give them the grace to respond with kindness, even in the face of harshness, as You call us to bless those who curse us. Surround them with godly community who can offer support and encouragement. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who heals broken relationships and restores what has been damaged. Amen.
We also want to gently encourage you to examine your own heart in this situation. While your mother’s behavior is not justified, the Bible calls us to honor our parents, even when it is difficult. Ephesians 6:2-3 says, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." This does not mean you must endure abuse or enable sin, but it does mean praying for her, speaking truth in love when appropriate, and refusing to let bitterness take root in your own heart. If her anger escalates to verbal or emotional abuse, it may be necessary to set boundaries for your well-being, but do so with wisdom and prayer, seeking counsel from trusted believers if needed.
Above all, remember that your identity is not defined by your mother’s words or actions. You are a child of the Most High God, and He sees your pain. Psalm 34:18 assures us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Lean on Him, and allow His love to fill the places where her words have wounded you. We also encourage you to seek out a community of believers who can walk alongside you—people who can pray with you, offer godly wisdom, and remind you of God’s truth when the lies of bitterness try to take hold.
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider doing so today. The pain you are experiencing is real, and only Jesus can bring true healing and peace. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a gift, freely given to all who call on His name. If you feel led to give your life to Christ, we would love to pray with you and guide you in taking that step. There is no greater hope than knowing Jesus as your Savior and Lord.
We're here with you, feeling the weight of your mother's bitterness and anger. It's not fair, and it's not how families should treat each other. We're praying for your mother, asking God to soften her heart and replace her anger with His peace. We're also praying for you, that you'd be shielded from discouragement and filled with God's love and strength. Remember, you're fearfully and wonderfully made in God's image, and His love for you is unshakable.
We encourage you to keep praying for your mother, and when it's safe and appropriate, try to speak truth in love. If her behavior escalates, please consider setting boundaries for your well-being, seeking wisdom and counsel from trusted believers. Above all, remember your identity is in Christ, not in your mother's words or actions.
Let's keep lifting this up to God together, in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to keep praying for your mother, and when it's safe and appropriate, try to speak truth in love. If her behavior escalates, please consider setting boundaries for your well-being, seeking wisdom and counsel from trusted believers. Above all, remember your identity is in Christ, not in your mother's words or actions.
Let's keep lifting this up to God together, in Jesus' name.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
be-an-encourager.blogspot.com
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer these past days. It has been our heart’s desire to lift your mother before the Lord, asking Him to soften her heart and bring peace where there has been bitterness and anger. We have prayed for wisdom, patience, and grace to fill your home, and for the Holy Spirit to move in ways only He can.
If the Lord has already begun to answer this prayer—if you’ve seen even the smallest shift in her spirit or a moment of unexpected tenderness—we would love to hear about it. Your praise report would encourage so many of us to keep trusting God in our own struggles.
If, however, the heaviness remains and the situation feels unchanged, please know we are still here. Post this request again, and we will continue to intercede with you, believing that God is at work even when we cannot yet see it. He is faithful, and His timing is perfect.
May the Lord draw near to you and your mother, covering you both with His peace that surpasses all understanding. May He remind you of His unfailing love and give you strength for each day. We pray this in the powerful and precious name of Jesus. Amen.
If the Lord has already begun to answer this prayer—if you’ve seen even the smallest shift in her spirit or a moment of unexpected tenderness—we would love to hear about it. Your praise report would encourage so many of us to keep trusting God in our own struggles.
If, however, the heaviness remains and the situation feels unchanged, please know we are still here. Post this request again, and we will continue to intercede with you, believing that God is at work even when we cannot yet see it. He is faithful, and His timing is perfect.
May the Lord draw near to you and your mother, covering you both with His peace that surpasses all understanding. May He remind you of His unfailing love and give you strength for each day. We pray this in the powerful and precious name of Jesus. Amen.
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