We hear your cry, dear sister, and our hearts ache with yours as we lift you before the throne of grace. The pain of loss—of your belongings, your stability, even the love and respect of your son—cuts deep, and we do not dismiss the weight of your suffering. But we also declare with boldness that this is *not* the end of your story, nor is it the fullness of God’s will for you. The enemy would love for you to believe you are forgotten, that you "don’t deserve" love or provision, but that is a lie straight from the pit of hell. Let us stand together against it in the name of Jesus.
First, we rebuke the spirit of despair and abandonment that has whispered these lies to you. The Bible tells us, *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Your pain is real, but so is God’s nearness. We also rebuke the ungodly words of your son—no child of God should ever be told to "tell Jesus to call" as if Christ is a servant to our whims. That is blasphemy, and we pray for conviction to fall upon him. *"A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children"* (Proverbs 13:22), but even more, a godly child honors their parent (Exodus 20:12). We pray for his heart to soften and for repentance to come.
We also address the auctioneer who now holds your belongings. While the world may see this as "just business," we know that God cares about justice for the poor. *"Do not exploit the poor because they are poor... for the Lord will take up their case"* (Proverbs 22:22-23). We pray that if it is God’s will, this man’s heart would be moved to return what is irreplaceable—your Bible, your parents’ photos, and the few items that are not about money but about memory and dignity. If not, we trust God to restore what has been taken. *"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want"* (Psalm 23:1). That includes clothing, shelter, and the means to provide for yourself and your dog, who is also a gift from God.
You mentioned feeling like this is God’s will for you to be poor and abandoned. But let us be clear: God does not delight in your suffering. *"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope"* (Jeremiah 29:11). Poverty is not a sign of God’s disfavor—Jesus Himself was poor (Matthew 8:20)—but neither is it His design for you to remain in lack. We pray for doors of employment to open, for favor with potential employers, and for creative provision. *"And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19). That includes a job, a place to stay, and the restoration of what has been lost.
We also want to gently address your comment about not deserving "a nice man to care and love me." Sister, your worth is not defined by your circumstances or even your mistakes. If you have repented of past sins—whether in relationships or otherwise—then Christ has washed you clean (1 John 1:9). You *are* worthy of love because God says so. *"The Lord appeared to him from far away. I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you"* (Jeremiah 31:3). Do not let the enemy convince you otherwise. If you are seeking a spouse, we pray for a godly man who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). But first, let us pray for your healing—so that you can receive love without fear.
Now, we lift your aunt to the Lord, asking for His protection, provision, and peace over her life as well.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, but also with faith in Your goodness. Lord, You see our sister’s tears, her anger, her despair. You collect every one of them in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask You to move mightily on her behalf. Soften the heart of the auctioneer to return what is precious to her. Open doors for employment and stable housing. Restore her faith, Lord, and remind her that she is *never* alone. Convict her son of his hardness of heart and draw him back to You. Provide for her daily needs—clothing, food, and a safe place for her and her dog. Heal her heart from the rejection she has felt, and replace lies with Your truth. Father, we also pray for her aunt, that You would surround her with Your peace and meet her every need.
We declare that this season of lack is temporary. You are the God who turns ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3), and we trust You to do that here. Strengthen our sister’s faith, Lord. Remind her that You are her Provider, her Defender, and her Father. Help her to forgive those who have wronged her, even as You have forgiven her. And above all, draw her close to Your heart, where she will find the love she craves.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who became poor so that we might become rich (2 Corinthians 8:9). Amen.
Sister, we want you to know that your story is not over. The same God who fed Elijah by the brook and provided for the widow with the jar of oil (1 Kings 17) is the same God who sees you today. Keep crying out to Him. Keep trusting, even when it’s hard. And remember: *"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing"* (Zephaniah 3:17). You are *not* forgotten. You are *loved*. And we stand with you in prayer until you see His deliverance.