My husband fear in financial money

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Please pray for my husband ### that he stop worried so much in financial money. He stop been so cheapest doesn't wanted it buy stuff because he is worried about his savings going down. He can trust on Lord Jesus Christ his financial money. My husband ### charge ### what he borrow money to ### it was ###. ### paid him back what he own my husband. He is Pastor and he try control my husband and threat him when my husband not agree with him
 
We hear your heart for your husband and we join with you in bringing him before the Lord in prayer. We understand the burden it is to watch the one you love carry constant worry about finances, holding tightly to savings out of fear and reluctant to provide even for daily needs. We also hear your concern about the situation with the money he lent and the difficult dynamic with his pastor who has tried to control and threaten him when there is disagreement.

The Word reminds us that worry about provision can so easily take root, but our Father calls us to trust Him fully. Jesus said, Therefore do not be anxious, saying, What will we eat? What will we drink? or, With what will we be clothed? For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first Gods Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:31-33. And we are told, In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7. We also take comfort that My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19.

We want to gently encourage you both that being a wise steward and saving diligently is good and biblical, for The plans of the diligent surely lead to profit Proverbs 21:5, but when saving becomes driven by fear it can reveal that we are trusting in the savings themselves rather than in the Lord who provides. Scripture says, Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you. Hebrews 13:5. The love of money and the fear of losing it can both lead us away from peace. We pray your husband will find the balance of wise stewardship with generous and peaceful trust, knowing that all he has comes from the Lords hand.

Concerning the debt that has now been repaid, we thank the Lord that what was owed has been returned. If interest was charged, we remember the biblical call to show mercy when lending, especially within the family of faith, but we rejoice that the matter appears settled and we pray no root of bitterness remains for either party.

We must also address with love and truth the conduct you described from his pastor. A shepherd is called to serve with humility, not to control or threaten. The apostle Peter exhorts elders, Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, not by constraint, but willingly, not for dishonest gain, but eagerly, neither as lording it over those entrusted to you, but making yourselves examples to the flock. 1 Peter 5:2-3. To use spiritual authority to intimidate or manipulate when there is disagreement is not the heart of Christlike leadership. We pray for protection over your husband from any ungodly control, and for wisdom to respond with both respect and firmness, speaking the truth in love while keeping his conscience clear before the Lord.

We lift your husband before the Lord together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, and we thank You that we can cast all our cares upon You because You care for us. 1 Peter 5:7. We lift up this dear husband to You. Lord, quiet his anxious thoughts about money and savings. Forgive any fear that has taken the place of trust and help him to truly believe that You are his provider and that You know his needs. Give him Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Teach him to be content in You, to be a diligent and faithful steward, yet also free to provide for his household with joy and generosity as You lead. Heal any pressure or fear left from the lending situation and let that chapter be closed in peace. Lord, we also ask You to intervene in the relationship with his pastor. Protect this husband from intimidation and control, give him courage and wisdom to stand firm in what is right, and bring conviction and grace to that pastor that he may shepherd as You desire. Bless this marriage, knit their hearts together in unity, and help this wife and husband to seek You first together, praying and making decisions in Your counsel. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, amen.

We encourage you to continue praying together as husband and wife, to bring every financial decision before the Lord with thanksgiving, and to create a simple budget together that honors God through both saving and giving and meeting daily needs. Encourage your husband to share his fears openly with you and with the Lord, remembering to cast your burden on Yahweh and he will sustain you Psalm 55:22. If the controlling behavior from his pastor continues, seek wise and godly counsel from mature believers outside that immediate circle, that your husband may be supported and protected. We stand with you, trusting that as you both seek first His Kingdom, the Lord will lead you into greater peace and freedom from fear.
 
My husband ### broke the curse that his mom got him thru. His mom is bad influence toxic and always negative and show my husband to be cheap for everything
 
We hear how heavy this has been for you to watch your husband carry so much worry about money. Wanting him to feel free to provide without fearing every purchase, and to trust the Lord with what you have, is a loving prayer.

Financial anxiety can take hold of both mind and body at once. Worry about savings going down can make even small, necessary spending feel threatening, and it is exhausting to live on alert that way. It makes sense you would want him to have more peace.

One gentle next step that often helps couples is to set aside a calm time together to look at the actual numbers side by side, what is coming in, what is needed, what is saved, so fear does not have to fill in the blanks. If the worry feels stuck, meeting together with a trusted, neutral financial counselor or a wise older couple in your church can bring clarity and take some pressure off just the two of you.

We also noticed what you shared about the pastor who borrowed and repaid the money but now tries to control and threaten your husband when he disagrees. That is not a burden he should carry alone. It can help to keep a simple record of what is said and to seek a safe, respected third person for wisdom and boundaries if the pressure continues.

We are praying with you.

Father, we lift this husband to You and ask for quietness in his heart where fear has been loud. Give him and his wife wisdom with their finances, unity as they make decisions, and protection and clear guidance in this difficult relationship with their pastor. Help them to trust You day by day and to know You are near. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
We have heard your request and we join you in bringing your husband before the throne of grace.

What time we are afraid we are to trust in the Lord, for where God begins a work He does not ask us to finish, but He completes His own work. It is true humility to take God at His word and to believe Him. If your husband trusts in the blood of Jesus Christ, he may know that his soul and his daily bread are both in the hands of a faithful Father. The Scripture says, Be merciful unto me, O God, be merciful unto me, for my soul trusts in You, yes, in the shadow of Your wings will I make my refuge. And again, I will cry unto God most high, unto God that performs all things for me.

Anxiety about money is a heavy burden, and the Lord Jesus would have His people do the right thing and then be no longer anxious about it, but leave the result with God. To be careful and to be a good steward of what God has provided is right, but to be tormented with fear that savings will fail is to forget that our God is our light though clouds may surround us, and our might though storms rage around us. Those that have trusted in God find Him to be as real as if they could see Him. We pray that your husband may learn to labor honestly, to provide for his household, and yet to rest in the mercy of God, loving Him who gives Himself to be trusted, and knowing that no man can truly trust God who does not love Him.

We also hear your sorrow concerning the pastor who borrowed money and who now seeks to control and threaten your husband when there is disagreement. This ought not to be so among the people of God. The Lord is no respecter of persons, He is God of the hills and God of the valleys, and He will do justice and require honesty and gentleness from all, whether pastor or people. A debt repaid should be the end of the matter, and no Christian should use money or position to control or threaten another. We pray that the Lord will give your husband wisdom, courage and peace, and that He will move that pastor to act with fairness and with the mind of Christ.

Let us pray together.

O God most high, who performs all things for Thy people, we cry unto Thee for this husband and wife. Forgive all sin through the blood of Jesus Christ, and grant salvation to all who trust in Him alone. Take away the spirit of fear concerning money and savings, and teach this brother to trust Thee with his whole heart, to seek first Thy kingdom, and to be content with such things as he has, knowing that Thou wilt never leave nor forsake Thy children. Give him wisdom to be a faithful steward, to do what is right and to leave the outcome in Thy hands. Grant peace to his mind and rest under the shadow of Thy wings. We ask also for Thy help in this difficult matter with the pastor. Let truth and honesty prevail, remove all threats and control, and bring reconciliation where it is possible, and protection and wise counsel where it is needed. Lead both men to walk humbly before Thee. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, who is our only hope and our sure provider. Amen.
 

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