My honest prayer to the Lord..

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Dearest Lord,

I am praying to you today because I know it in my spirit that I want another child. When I went to church today, I saw a teenaged boy who was also in the autism spectrum. He was so uneasy inside the church. He reminded me a lot of my son, ###.

When I saw the kid, I thought to myself, my son really needs a sibling to take care of him when I am gone. He needs to have a brother or a sister to look after him. My son is in the autism spectrum as well. Lord, I feel sorry for ### because I am already in my 30’s with no husband, no boyfriend, and yet I am praying to have another baby.

I actually don’t know if I am pregnant but I don’t think I am. I know I had unprotected intercourse with ### many times. We are going to see the doctor soon, and I kind of feel bad knowing that I may not be pregnant. I know that if I do decide to have a child, it should be in spiritual alignment with my Kingdom Spouse. I should be with someone who is ready, who loves me and who wants to actually start a family with me.

Unlike with ###, he reminds me a lot of ###’s father, ###. And yes, I am scared to go through that again. I already know how painful it felt to be left alone in that pregnancy. And even though ### promised me he will stay, I know it is not fair to him because he also wants to be with someone he actually loves. We are just friends and all of this just feels like a dejavu of my past.

I know deep down inside of me, I want this to end up beautifully. I know I want another child. I know I need it because I am not getting any younger and my son definitely needs a sibling to be with especially when I am already old. I know that and I want to try to conceive a baby again.

I know I keep telling myself that I will just be alone and maybe someday my Kingdom Spouse will come and that’s when all of my dreams come true. But I also know that I want this story to end up in alignment to your most holy will.

Lord Jesus Christ, I know you know that I want to get pregnant but if it’s not yet time then let your will be done. I pray that I learn from this lesson and that if ever I am pregnant which I still do not have an idea, I pray that ### will not end up being like ###.

But Lord, I want you to write this story for me. I don’t want to force anything. I know the truth that ### doesn’t love me. I know it will just be hard for him. And I don’t wanna be unfair. But I sincerely appreciate you giving him to me as a friend.

I don’t know where this path will lead us, but I am praying that this is all in alignment to your will. Let your will be done. I lift this story up to you. I lift this chapter of my life to you, Lord. Please write me a beautiful story. You know what my heart yearns for. You know I have feelings for ### and you know I really want another baby.

But whatever happens, I am trusting you and your timing. If it’s meant to be, please let it work out better for me this time around, if not, I am praying that I can move on and learn from this experience.

I am going to see my doctor soon, and I admit I am very scared. I don’t know what will happen. Please be with me, please guide me. Please send forth your most Holy Spirit to be with me every step of the way.

Jesus, I surrender everything to you, please take the wheel and take care of me and my family always.

Amen.
 
We hear the deep longing of your heart, sister, and we join you in bringing this before the Lord with both tenderness and truth. Your desire for another child is beautiful and understandable, especially as you consider the future care of your son. Yet we must also address the weightier matters of God’s design for family, marriage, and purity with clarity and love.

First, we must rebuke the sin of fornication in your life. Scripture is clear: *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but the sexually immoral and adulterers God will judge"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). The unprotected intercourse you described outside of marriage is not God’s will, and we must repent of it. The Lord is gracious, but His holiness demands that we turn from sin and pursue righteousness. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). This is not to shame you but to call you to alignment with God’s best for your life.

Your fear of repeating past pain is valid, but we must also recognize that your current path—seeking intimacy outside of marriage—will only lead to more heartache. You acknowledge that this man does not love you as you desire, and yet you continue in a cycle that dishonors both God and yourself. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If this man is not your husband, he is not your covering, and you are placing yourself in a vulnerable position that God never intended.

We must also address your longing for a sibling for your son. While your concern for his future is understandable, children are a heritage from the Lord, and they are to be raised within the covenant of marriage. *"Unless Yahweh builds the house, they labor in vain who build it"* (Psalm 127:1 WEB). A child conceived outside of God’s design for marriage will not bring the blessing you seek but rather complications and sorrow. We must trust God’s timing and His provision, even when it feels slow or impossible.

Your desire for a "Kingdom Spouse" is right and good, but you must actively pursue God’s will in this area. Are you preparing yourself to be a godly wife? Are you seeking a man who fears the Lord, who will lead your family in righteousness? *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised"* (Proverbs 31:30 WEB). Do not settle for less than God’s best, even if it means waiting longer than you hoped.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is longing for another child and a godly marriage. Lord, we ask that You forgive her for the sin of fornication and cleanse her heart from all unrighteousness. *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). Father, break the cycle of emotional and physical entanglement that is not of You. Give her the strength to walk away from this relationship that does not honor You or her future.

Lord, we pray for her son, that You would be his comfort and his guide. We ask that You provide godly influences in his life—mentors, teachers, and friends who will love him as You do. Father, we know that You are his ultimate Provider, and we trust You to care for him, whether through siblings or through other means.

We ask that You write a beautiful story for her, Lord, but one that aligns with Your perfect will. If it is Your plan for her to marry, prepare her heart and the heart of her future husband. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and He will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4 WEB). If it is Your will for her to remain single, give her the grace to embrace that calling with joy, knowing that You are enough.

Father, we pray for her upcoming doctor’s visit. Calm her fears and give her peace. Whether she is pregnant or not, we ask that You guide her steps and help her to make choices that honor You. If she is not pregnant, we pray that You would close the door to this path of sin and open a new door to righteousness. If she is pregnant, we pray that You would give her the courage to choose life and to raise this child in a way that glorifies You, even if it means doing so as a single mother.

Lord, we surrender her story to You. Take the wheel, as she prayed, and lead her in the paths of righteousness for Your name’s sake. May she find her hope and her identity in You alone. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come to You, the only name by which we are saved. *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12 WEB). May she find her strength, her hope, and her future in Him. Amen.

Sister, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. Surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable and pray for you. The road ahead may not be easy, but it is worth it to walk in obedience to God. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). You are not alone, and God’s grace is sufficient for you.
 
Dear friend,

We hear your heart's deep longing for another child, and we stand with you in prayer, asking the Lord to write a beautiful story for you. We also understand your concern for your son's future and your desire for him to have a sibling. However, we want to encourage you to trust in God's timing and provision. Children are a heritage from the Lord, and they are to be raised within the covenant of marriage (Psalm 127:1).

We join you in praying for a godly spouse, someone who fears the Lord and will lead your family in righteousness. As you wait, we encourage you to prepare yourself to be a godly wife. Are you seeking a man who fears the Lord and will lead your family in righteousness? (Proverbs 31:30)

Let us also pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, lifting up our sister who desires another child and a godly marriage. We ask that you forgive her for any sin, cleanse her heart, and guide her steps. Lord, we pray that you would break the cycle of emotional and physical entanglement that is not of you. Give her the strength to walk away from any relationship that does not honor you or her future.

Father, we pray for her son, that you would be his comfort and his guide. We ask that you provide godly influences in his life - mentors, teachers, and friends who will love him as you do.

Lord, we ask that you write a beautiful story for her, but one that aligns with your perfect will. If it is your plan for her to marry, prepare her heart and the heart of her future husband. If it is your will for her to remain single, give her the grace to embrace that calling with joy, knowing that you are enough.

Father, we pray for her upcoming doctor's visit. Calm her fears and give her peace. Whether she is pregnant or not, we ask that you guide her steps and help her to make choices that honor you. If she is not pregnant, we pray that you would close the door to this path of sin and open a new door to righteousness. If she is pregnant, we pray that you would give her the courage to choose life and to raise this child in a way that glorifies you, even if it means doing so as a single mother.

Lord, we surrender her story to you. Take the wheel and lead her in the paths of righteousness for your name's sake. May she find her hope and her identity in you alone.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come to you, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.

Sister, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. Surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable and pray for you. The road ahead may not be easy, but it is worth it to walk in obedience to God. You are not alone, and God's grace is sufficient for you.
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Dearest Lord,

I am praying to you today because I know it in my spirit that I want another child. When I went to church today, I saw a teenaged boy who was also in the autism spectrum. He was so uneasy inside the church. He reminded me a lot of my son, ###.

When I saw the kid, I thought to myself, my son really needs a sibling to take care of him when I am gone. He needs to have a brother or a sister to look after him. My son is in the autism spectrum as well. Lord, I feel sorry for ### because I am already in my 30’s with no husband, no boyfriend, and yet I am praying to have another baby.

I actually don’t know if I am pregnant but I don’t think I am. I know I had unprotected intercourse with ### many times. We are going to see the doctor soon, and I kind of feel bad knowing that I may not be pregnant. I know that if I do decide to have a child, it should be in spiritual alignment with my Kingdom Spouse. I should be with someone who is ready, who loves me and who wants to actually start a family with me.

Unlike with ###, he reminds me a lot of ###’s father, ###. And yes, I am scared to go through that again. I already know how painful it felt to be left alone in that pregnancy. And even though ### promised me he will stay, I know it is not fair to him because he also wants to be with someone he actually loves. We are just friends and all of this just feels like a dejavu of my past.

I know deep down inside of me, I want this to end up beautifully. I know I want another child. I know I need it because I am not getting any younger and my son definitely needs a sibling to be with especially when I am already old. I know that and I want to try to conceive a baby again.

I know I keep telling myself that I will just be alone and maybe someday my Kingdom Spouse will come and that’s when all of my dreams come true. But I also know that I want this story to end up in alignment to your most holy will.

Lord Jesus Christ, I know you know that I want to get pregnant but if it’s not yet time then let your will be done. I pray that I learn from this lesson and that if ever I am pregnant which I still do not have an idea, I pray that ### will not end up being like ###.

But Lord, I want you to write this story for me. I don’t want to force anything. I know the truth that ### doesn’t love me. I know it will just be hard for him. And I don’t wanna be unfair. But I sincerely appreciate you giving him to me as a friend.

I don’t know where this path will lead us, but I am praying that this is all in alignment to your will. Let your will be done. I lift this story up to you. I lift this chapter of my life to you, Lord. Please write me a beautiful story. You know what my heart yearns for. You know I have feelings for ### and you know I really want another baby.

But whatever happens, I am trusting you and your timing. If it’s meant to be, please let it work out better for me this time around, if not, I am praying that I can move on and learn from this experience.

I am going to see my doctor soon, and I admit I am very scared. I don’t know what will happen. Please be with me, please guide me. Please send forth your most Holy Spirit to be with me every step of the way.

Jesus, I surrender everything to you, please take the wheel and take care of me and my family always.

Amen.
I am praying for you to have another child because children are gifts from God. Every good and perfect gift is from God and children are good and perfect gift. I am praying for God to make everything in the best way for you. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen
 

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