My heart posture

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I am struggling with a lot of sins that come from the heart, such as pride, judgement, complaining, gossip. More so heavy on the judgement & kinda the pride, but the gossip & complaining is a lot more rare these days, but it's not fully gone. I don't like that I'm dealing with these sins, I detest them. Sometimes I don't fall into the temptation of some these things, as in saying them out loud, but God sees my heart, & the pride & judgement are deffo in my thoughts.

Pride is more so to do with I think I'm better in the sense of my modest clothing perhaps, my knowledge. As I'm a ### & I teach people on there & I ask God to teach me more every day, I do put in the work. But ever since that, I seem to be prideful in the fact that I feel like "I know more", but when it seems that someone else knows more I compare myself & it puts me down, making me feel like I have to do more. & I don't like this mindset of feeling like I have to do more. I know my salvation doesn't come from me, but from Jesus, but it's like I don't act like I know that. How do I solidify my belief in that Jesus is the one that saves me & I can't do anything towards my salvation?

Judgement is more so to do with how people look sometimes, especially as someone who struggles with self image, I have for a long time, I'm not as bad in that sense, but it's like I keep deflecting it onto others (in my thoughts). As my mum is an unbeliever, maybe that's where I get it from, as a lot of the time I am with her, she is judging someone in some way or another, which I don't like, but I more so don't like when I find myself doing it, as I feel like a hypocrite. Or if someone is doing something that isn't deemed as "normal", then that's where the judgement comes in, either from my mum out loud or me more so in my thoughts.

Gossip, I don't really involve myself in as much anymore, but I do see times where I slip up, as my mum and my brother may be gossiping or when we go to their friends houses, there's a lot of gossip there too. When I'm there, I tend just to do my Bible study, is that planting a seed? Their friends are kinda Christian, but I'm not seeing the fruit tbf. I know about the sanctification process & it took me a long time with Jesus to get where I am, so I know I can't judge in that sense. But I know we can judge righteously, but I don't know if that's righteous judgement or not. Or even with some people at church, there is sometimes gossip, which I don't really get involved in either, but in these settings, I feel a lot more that I judge or maybe even am prideful, because if I'm not the one partaking in that too.

Complaining is more so, with the pain I have in my leg or my back (i think I have sciatica) or if I'm cold or hot, so it's little things like that, but life and death are in the power of the tongue, & I don't get anything out of complaining about those things.

With the sciatica, I need healing, but my mum said you can't get healed from it. But, I've been declaring in the name of Jesus for over a week for it, as life and death is in the power of the tongue. I sometimes doubt that God can heal me, even though I know He's the healer. But, I think, it's when people say stuff like that, it changes my thinking towards it a little. I've been dealing with my back pain since year 9, so a very long time (a little over 5 years), and I just wanna be healed. I know God can heal me, but I don't know if I trust that He can, like sometimes I doubt in Him, even though I know I shouldn't. And it's a lot about time, and I'm impatient, so maybe that goes into that.

And as my mum and my brother are both unbelievers, I could see God doing a miracle in the healing of my sciatica, as when my mum said i can't get healed from it, I said something like God will or I will get healed, so if it does happen, I feel like maybe that can plant a seed.

Thank you to everyone who replies & prays for me, God bless you

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with a heavy yet hopeful heart, recognizing the deep struggle you are facing with sins that stem from the heart, pride, judgment, gossip, and complaining. These are not merely actions but reflections of a battle within, and we stand with you in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to convict, cleanse, and renew your mind and spirit. The fact that you detest these sins and desire to walk in purity is evidence of God’s work in you, for only He can give such a hunger for righteousness.

First, we must address the root of pride, for Scripture warns us clearly: "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18 WEB). Your knowledge of God’s Word and your desire to teach others are gifts from Him, but when they become a source of comparison or self-elevation, they distort the purpose for which they were given. Teaching is not about superiority but stewardship, faithfully sharing what God has revealed to you so that others may grow in Him. When you feel the weight of needing to "do more" or compare yourself to others, remember that your salvation is not earned by works but received by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast" (Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB). The moment you feel the temptation to measure yourself against others, shift your focus to Christ. Ask Him to remind you that your worth is found in Him alone, not in what you know or how you appear to others. Meditate on His humility, how He, though equal with God, took on the form of a servant (Philippians 2:5-8). Let His example redefine your understanding of greatness.

Judgment, too, is a snare that entangles even the most well-meaning hearts. Jesus warned, "Don’t judge, so that you won’t be judged. For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:1-2 WEB). It is easy to deflect our own insecurities onto others, especially when we struggle with self-image. But judgment is not ours to wield. Even when you see behaviors that are not "normal" or aligned with God’s Word, your role is not to condemn but to pray and, if led, speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). The environment you describe, where judgment and gossip are common, is a breeding ground for these sins, but it is also an opportunity for you to be a light. When you choose not to participate, you are planting seeds, even if you do not see the fruit immediately. Remember, God sees your obedience, and He is faithful to honor it. Ask Him to guard your heart against the influence of those around you and to fill you with His love, which covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).

Gossip is another tool the enemy uses to divide and destroy. Proverbs 16:28 warns, "A perverse man stirs up strife, and a whisperer separates close friends." Even if you are not the one initiating gossip, being in its presence can still defile you. Your choice to withdraw and focus on God’s Word in those moments is wise and pleasing to Him. You asked if this is planting a seed, and the answer is yes. Your actions speak louder than words, and your commitment to righteousness may be the very thing God uses to draw others to Himself. However, be cautious not to fall into self-righteousness, for that is another form of pride. Instead, pray for those who gossip, that their hearts would be softened and their tongues would be used for edification (Ephesians 4:29).

Complaining, though it may seem small, is a symptom of a heart that has momentarily forgotten God’s sovereignty. Philippians 2:14-15 urges us, "Do all things without murmurings and disputes, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without defect in the middle of a crooked and perverse generation." When you complain about pain, discomfort, or inconvenience, you are essentially saying that God is not in control or that His plan for you is not good. But we know this is not true. Your sciatica and back pain are not beyond His healing power. The fact that you have declared healing in Jesus’ name is an act of faith, and we stand with you in agreement. Doubt may creep in, especially when others speak words of unbelief, but do not let their limitations become yours. Jesus healed the sick, the lame, and the broken, and He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). Your healing may be a testimony to your family, a seed that God uses to draw them to Himself. Do not grow weary in declaring His promises over your life. "By His stripes we are healed" (Isaiah 53:5 WEB), and we pray that you would experience this truth in your body.

We must also address the doubt that lingers in your heart regarding God’s ability to heal you. Doubt is not the absence of faith but an opportunity to exercise it. Even the father of the demon-possessed boy cried out to Jesus, "I believe! Help my unbelief!" (Mark 9:24 WEB). Bring your doubts to God, and ask Him to strengthen your faith. Impatience is a natural human response, but God’s timing is perfect. He may be using this season to teach you perseverance, trust, and dependence on Him. Do not despise the process, for He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up our sister who is struggling with the sins of pride, judgment, gossip, and complaining. Lord, You see her heart, and You know the sincerity of her desire to walk in righteousness. We ask that You would uproot every seed of pride and replace it with a spirit of humility. Remind her daily that her worth is found in Christ alone, not in her knowledge, her appearance, or her works. Help her to see herself as You see her, beloved, chosen, and redeemed.

Father, we ask that You would guard her heart against judgment. Fill her with Your love, which covers a multitude of sins, and give her the wisdom to speak only what edifies and builds up. Where she has been influenced by the judgment of others, we ask that You would cleanse her mind and renew her thoughts according to Your Word. Help her to be a light in her family and community, planting seeds of righteousness even when she does not see the fruit.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of gossip in her life and in the lives of those around her. Give her the strength to remove herself from conversations that do not honor You and the courage to speak life and truth when You call her to do so. Let her words be seasoned with grace, always pointing others to You.

Father, we declare healing over her body. We stand on Your promise that by Your stripes, she is healed. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and remove every trace of doubt. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your perfect plan for her life. Let her healing be a testimony to her family, a seed that draws them closer to You. We ask that You would break the chains of unbelief in her household and open their eyes to Your goodness and power.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would continue to sanctify her, refining her like gold in the fire. Help her to abide in You, for apart from You, she can do nothing. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in victory over these sins and live a life that glorifies You. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can be saved or set free. Amen.

We encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word daily, for it is alive and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12). Memorize Scriptures that speak to humility, trust, and healing, and declare them over your life. Surround yourself with believers who will encourage you in your walk and hold you accountable. And remember, sanctification is a process, do not grow discouraged when you stumble, but run to Jesus, who is faithful to forgive and restore (1 John 1:9). He is not finished with you yet, and His grace is sufficient for every struggle you face.

 

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We hear you, not just the list of sins, but the honest ache beneath them. The fact that you detest these things in yourself and long for change is itself a sign of the Spirit at work. You’re not acting like you know salvation is pure gift because, honestly, our hearts are prone to drift back to earning and comparing. That’s not a failure you fix by trying harder; it’s something we all keep returning to Jesus about. So when the pride rises because you “know more,” let that be a cue to thank Him that your standing before God depends entirely on what He did, not on what you know or teach. Practically, when a thought of comparison hits, you could pause and whisper, “Everything I have is received. Thank You, Jesus.” That small redirect over time can help the truth sink from head to heart.

Your struggle with judgment, especially about appearance, sounds tangled up with your own pain about self-image. We wonder if seeing a counselor or a wise, safe older believer to work through those roots might bring real freedom, not only for yourself but so you can look at others with the compassion you’re learning to give yourself. And when a critical thought comes, rather than battling it alone, try turning it into a quick prayer for that person’s well-being.

For the sciatica, please don’t carry that alone. We encourage you to see a doctor, God gave us medical help, and seeking it isn’t a failure of faith. You’ve been declaring healing, and we join you in asking God to heal you completely, whether suddenly or through treatment. Your mom’s comment has planted a seed of doubt, but you don’t have to let it grow. Even if your trust wavers, Jesus understands and doesn’t turn away. Keep holding your pain out to Him honestly.

We’re also so glad you’re choosing to do Bible study when gossip swirls around you. That’s not just avoiding; it’s quietly planting something real. Seeds matter, even when we can’t see the fruit yet.

Let’s pray:

Jesus, thank You that our salvation is finished and secure in You alone. Renew this dear one’s mind so that the truth of grace overrides the pull to compare and earn. In those moments of pride or judgment, break in with Your tenderness and help them throw every thought onto You. Bring healing to the sciatica, we ask for full relief, in Your time and way, and we ask for wisdom for any medical care needed. Protect this home from the spirit of gossip and complaint, and let the quiet witness of Your Word bear fruit in this family. You are faithful, and we trust You. In Your name, amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The very root of your distress is that old error which has slain its thousands, the notion that aught of man can mingle with the pure grace of God. You speak of pride in knowledge, in modesty, in teaching; but know this: if salvation be of works in any degree, then grace is no more grace. What says the Apostle? “If by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace.” Your poor rags of self-righteousness, be they ever so finely spun, are a stench in the nostrils of the Most High. All that you know, all that you do, all that you refrain from, these are but filthy garments until Christ clothes you with His spotless righteousness. Boast not yourself in them, for the Lord hath declared, “Not of works, lest any man should boast.”

And what is this judging of others but the peeping forth of that same proud flesh? You look upon another’s attire or manner and in your heart you set yourself above them. But, O soul, who made thee to differ? What hast thou that thou didst not receive? The Pharisee thanked God he was not as other men, yet he went down to his house unjustified. The eye that is fixed upon the outward appearance forgetteth that God looketh on the heart, and that heart of thine, apart from grace, is a cage of unclean birds. Let the thought that Christ died for the ungodly swallow up all thy comparisons, and make thee lie low before His cross.

As for gossip and complaining, the tongue is a world of iniquity; but the root is still the heart’s unbelief. Thou murmurest at a little pain or weather, forgetting that all things work together for good to them that love God. Is not the Lord worthy to be praised even in the furnace? That sciatica thou bemoanest, bless God for it if it drive thee to thy knees. And though thy mother saith it cannot be healed, what is her word against the promise of Jehovah? “I am the Lord that healeth thee.” Yet seek not healing by thy own declarations, as though the power of life and death lay in thy tongue. Thy words have no virtue in themselves; it is Christ who healeth, and faith is but the empty hand that receiveth. Cry, “Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief,” and leave the answer with Him. If He chooseth to raise thee up, it shall be for His glory, not for thy boasting. If He delayeth, His grace is sufficient for thee, and His strength is made perfect in weakness. The outward miracle is a small thing compared to the inward wonder of a heart at rest in its God.

Thou askest how to solidify thy belief that Jesus alone saves. Cease from thy fashioning of a solidity of thine own. Faith is not a sensation to be felt, but a looking unto Jesus. Thy assurance is not in thy grip of Him, but in His grasp of thee. Look not within for peace, but to the cross. He who saith, “By grace are ye saved,” is the same who declareth, “He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life.” Cast thyself wholly upon Him, not upon thy knowledge, thy teaching, thy modesty, nor even thy faith, but upon Christ alone. When pride riseth, bid it look to the cleft rock whence thou wast hewn, and to the hole of the pit whence thou wast digged. There is no room for self-conceit at the foot of the cross. There, and there only, wilt thou find the grace to wound thy pride, to silence thy murmuring, to sweeten thy tongue, and to endure thy pain with patience, until the day break and the shadows flee away.

 

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[barbaracottle]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please bless ### with your healing touch Amen

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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