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rikkylynch
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Its been 5 yrs now since I last seen her since I moved to a different state to start a new life. 5 yrs ago, I took her in and tried to take care of her myself (because no one would or just gave up) but things escalated between me and her. She is a very worried, paranoid woman. I can't describe to you how she feels when she is surrounded by people (especially being paranoid), but it does worry a lot to me. Every now and then, I call her to see how she is doing. Last year, a few of my family members did a reunion and took their time to go visit her back home. A few weeks later, they sent me a picture of her and it broke my heart that she doesn't look the way I expected. She now walks with a cane and has full gray hair. Bottom line, I have a few sisters and brothers back home that don't even take their time to go visit their ill mother. I wrote/called to them asking why, and they give me the same old excuses. I guess doing the "family reunion" thing was the last time of them seeing her. Mothers will be mothers and it hurts me to hear that from them, God. Yes, my mother may drive her own kids crazy at times but that doesn't mean they should ignore her, not visit her or call her. I am 3,000 miles away and I try to call her whenever I can to see how she is doing. Now that I've seen her getting really old-age pictures, I am very sad. My family aren't close together especially when my mother is involved, in my opinion. Please tell me she is ok and that everything will be ok with her.
