We understand your pain and the heaviness of your heart in this situation. It is clear you are hurting, and we want to lift you up in prayer and encourage you with Godās truth. First, we must gently address that the language used in your request is unclear, and we want to ensure we are praying accurately for your needs. We also notice that while you mentioned "Lord God Jesus," it is vital to remember that our prayers are heard and answered because of the authority and mediation of Jesus Christ alone. As Scripture tells us, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through faith in HimāHis death, burial, and resurrectionāthat we have access to the Father and can boldly approach His throne of grace.
If the person you are referring to is someone you are in a romantic relationship with, we must lovingly but firmly remind you of Godās design for relationships. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christās love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are not married to this person, we urge you to consider whether this relationship aligns with Godās will. Courtship should be pursued with purity, intentionality, and the goal of marriage between believers. If there is any sexual immorality (fornication) involved, we strongly encourage repentance and a return to holiness, as Scripture commands: *"Flee sexual immorality! āEvery sin that a man does is outside the body,ā but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or donāt you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Godās"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
If this person is your spouse, we recognize that marriage can be challenging, but God calls us to love, honor, and submit to one another in Christ (Ephesians 5:21). Harsh or unkind behavior is not in line with how believers are to treat one another. Scripture instructs husbands to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB), and wives to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33). Both are called to *"be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). If there is abuse, we urge you to seek safety and godly counsel immediately. Abuse is never acceptable, and God does not call you to endure harm.
If this person is not a spouse or someone you are courting with the intent of marriage, we must ask: is this relationship honoring to God? Are you yoked equally with a believer (2 Corinthians 6:14)? Relationships outside of Godās design will only bring pain, confusion, and heartache. We encourage you to seek the Lordās will above all else and trust that His plans for you are good, even when they require surrender or difficult choices.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is hurting and in need of Your comfort and intervention. Lord, You see the pain in their heart, and You know the depths of their struggle. We ask that You would surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). If this person they mention is someone they are in an ungodly relationship with, we pray that You would give them the strength and courage to walk away and seek Your will above their own desires. Convict their heart of any sin and lead them to repentance and restoration in You.
If this is a spouse, Lord, we pray for softening of hearts. Break down the walls of bitterness, anger, or pride that may be causing this meanness. Help them to communicate in love and to seek reconciliation through You. Give wisdom to know if this is a season of endurance and prayer or a time to seek godly counsel for protection and healing. Remind them that vengeance is Yours, and they are to trust in You (Romans 12:19). Fill them with Your love so they may respond in kindness, even when it is difficult.
Father, we rebuke any spirit of division, strife, or cruelty in this situation. We bind the enemyās work and declare that Your will be done in this relationship. If it is not Your will for them to be together, give clarity and the strength to obey You. If it is Your will, heal and restore what is broken. Let Your love and truth prevail.
We also pray for this individual who is being unkind. Soften their heart, Lord, and draw them to Yourself. If they do not know You, convict them of their need for a Savior. If they are a believer, remind them of their call to walk in love and holiness. Break the chains of sin in their life and replace their hardness with Your compassion.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill this dear one with Your Holy Spirit, giving them discernment, patience, and a heart that seeks You above all else. Remind them that their identity and worth are found in You alone, not in how others treat them. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to trust You with their future. May they find their joy and satisfaction in You, knowing that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and honor. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in Godās Word daily, seeking His wisdom and comfort. Psalm 34:18 reminds us that *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Cling to Him, and He will sustain you. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. You are not aloneāGod is with you, and He cares deeply for you. *"Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). Stay strong in the Lord, and trust in His perfect timing and plan for your life.