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GodSaves1111
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We have been together a year now and are in love with each other. We would do anything for each other and we talk about marriage all the time (but we're waiting until we're done with school). We even cry at times out of happiness. We are quite certain that under the circumstances that we met that God put each other together 
However, over the past month or so she has been showing many signs of depression.
We went through a rough patch recently where we would argue over just the smallest things. A lot of this I thought to be her showing signs of being bi-polar. (she's happy 1 minute & mad/angry the next).
I 1st did what most guys do and thought it was her hormones, but now her grades have been slipping, she gets chest pains (which started when we argued), and just last week we discovered this hard bone-like lump behind her ear (stress?)
Long story short there are several somewhat stressful things in her life and not any other real issues that weren't around for a whole year already.
So the ultimate question: What do I do???
I Love her so much and I hate seeing her in pain! I am ALWAYS here for her and I even say things like "I am here for you please tell me whats wrong, what would you like me to do?" she just says "I don't know"
We go out to fancy places (when we can afford it) and we had a big celebration for Valentine's Day and wrote her poems etc (so don't say, make her feel special) I do that all the time
When I am with her she is the happiest person ever, but after a bit of time with her I will say one thing and then she starts getting either mad, upset, emotional or all the above.
It is at the point where she can barely get through school/work and I can barely get through those things thinking about her hurting. Her Dad has even said that she has not been herself and tried asking her what's up. So today she couldn't go to school so her Mom is going with her to a Doctor. I am afraid that all he will do is say "well. .you're depressed, take these pills".
I have thought long and hard laying awake at night and praying. I tell her to pray constantly and to trust in Christ, but she still feels bad. Please pray that the Lord's Will be done and help us?
-Thank you much,
Matthew
However, over the past month or so she has been showing many signs of depression.
We went through a rough patch recently where we would argue over just the smallest things. A lot of this I thought to be her showing signs of being bi-polar. (she's happy 1 minute & mad/angry the next).
I 1st did what most guys do and thought it was her hormones, but now her grades have been slipping, she gets chest pains (which started when we argued), and just last week we discovered this hard bone-like lump behind her ear (stress?)
Long story short there are several somewhat stressful things in her life and not any other real issues that weren't around for a whole year already.
So the ultimate question: What do I do???
I Love her so much and I hate seeing her in pain! I am ALWAYS here for her and I even say things like "I am here for you please tell me whats wrong, what would you like me to do?" she just says "I don't know"
We go out to fancy places (when we can afford it) and we had a big celebration for Valentine's Day and wrote her poems etc (so don't say, make her feel special) I do that all the time
When I am with her she is the happiest person ever, but after a bit of time with her I will say one thing and then she starts getting either mad, upset, emotional or all the above.
It is at the point where she can barely get through school/work and I can barely get through those things thinking about her hurting. Her Dad has even said that she has not been herself and tried asking her what's up. So today she couldn't go to school so her Mom is going with her to a Doctor. I am afraid that all he will do is say "well. .you're depressed, take these pills".
I have thought long and hard laying awake at night and praying. I tell her to pray constantly and to trust in Christ, but she still feels bad. Please pray that the Lord's Will be done and help us?
-Thank you much,
Matthew
