My favor comes in I get a Man

[Anonymous]

Life into existence 100 100 FOLD GREATLY I GET TO LONEWOLF ONCE A WEEK AND I GET TO STAYYYYYY THE NIGHT BUCKET LIST I WIN ALWAYS MONEY WIN DINNERS WIN GREAT DEALS WIN CRUISES I HAVE ALL THE PERKS I HAVE BAD LUCK GREATLY THAT TURNED TO GOOD LUCK IM URGENTLY FOUND ON TINDER IM NOT HIDDEN FROM A POSSIBLE BOAZ THAT COULD TAKE EXCELLENT CARE OF ME OHHHHHHHHHH NO I CAN DATE GO ON TINDER GET A BOAZ NO WORRIES I GET A MAN IN THIS ONE THIS CHAPTER IS I GET MY MAN I GET A HOME MY HIGHLY FAVORED COMES IN AT THE RIGHT TIME ALWAYS GREATLY LOOSEN DEUT 28:13 TAILED LOOSEN DEUT 28:13 TAILED IM THE HEAD NOT THE TAIL POPS LETS MY FRIEND ### BUILD ME AN IRON GATE AND A WALL I SIDE GARAGE I GET MY BOAZ THAT CAN BUILD GREATLY SO I CAN LEAVE NOW NO WORRIES WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS

 

[Articles]

We join you in bringing your desires for favor, for a godly marriage, for a home and for provision before the Lord, and we thank you for invoking the blood of Jesus, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. As it is written, There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. We rejoice that you have called upon His name.

We hear your heart crying out for a Boaz, for a man who will take excellent care of you, for a home, for favor and for open doors, and we pray with you for God to provide a godly husband and a marriage that honors Him. We want to lovingly speak truth into some of the ways this request is expressed so that your pursuit aligns with Scripture.

The Boaz of Scripture was a man of godly character who honored Ruth, protected her purity, and pursued marriage in an honorable and public way according to God's law Ruth 3:11, Ruth 4:10. He did not seek or find his wife through casual dating or through staying the night together before marriage. If your desire to get to lonewolf once a week and stay the night means spending the night with a man who is not your husband, or having intimacy outside of marriage, we must lovingly rebuke that, for God calls us to flee sexual immorality. As it is written, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18 and Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship in God's eyes is courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian believer, not cohabitation or overnight stays. We encourage you to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 and to seek a spouse who is a faithful follower of Christ, and to pursue that relationship with purity and accountability.

We also gently address the language of Tinder, winning, and luck. Being urgently found on Tinder and seeking to not be hidden is understandable, but we encourage you to guard your heart and your witness. Many dating apps can encourage casual, appearance based and even sexually immoral connections rather than godly courtship. We pray you will seek God's guidance above an app, trusting that He sees you and will bring a godly spouse in His perfect timing. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6.

There is no bad luck or good luck in the life of a believer, but rather the providence and favor of God. For you will bless the righteous. Yahweh, you will surround him with favor as with a shield Psalm 5:12. True favor is not about always winning money, dinners, cruises and deals, though God does provide for our needs. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. Godliness with contentment is great gain 1 Timothy 6:6. We pray that your desire for hundredfold favor would be rooted in obedience and faithfulness to Him, not in chance.

You quoted Deuteronomy 28:13, Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail. You will be above only, and you will not be beneath, if you listen to the commandments of Yahweh your God Deuteronomy 28:13. This promise in context was given to Israel upon obedience to God's voice, and for us today it reminds us that true exaltation comes through walking in His ways, not through demanding wins. We pray you will walk in obedience so that His blessing rests on you.

We also lift up your practical needs for a home, for protection with a gate and wall and garage, and for help from others to build. We know God cares about our dwelling and our safety, and we ask Him to provide according to His wisdom and timing, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You together and lift up this dear daughter to You. We ask that You surround her with Your favor as with a shield and lead her in purity and wisdom. If it is Your will, bring into her life a godly man after Your own heart, a true Boaz who loves You first, who will pursue her for holy marriage, who will honor her and take excellent care of her as Christ loves the church Ephesians 5:25. Help her to wait on You and to pursue courtship that honors You, fleeing all fornication and keeping the marriage bed undefiled. Give her discernment regarding how and where she seeks a spouse, and let her not be hidden from the godly husband You have for her if it is Your will, but let her be found in Your way and Your timing. Provide for her needs for a home and for provision according to Your riches, and teach her to seek first Your Kingdom. Let her find her identity and security not in winning or luck, but in being Your beloved child, the head and not the tail as she walks in obedience to You. Forgive any sin and cleanse her by the blood of Jesus, and let Your perfect will be done in this chapter of her life. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We appreciate you sharing so openly what is on your heart. We hear how much you long to be seen and chosen, to have a husband who will care for you well, and a home where you feel safe and settled. Wanting love, security, and a place to belong are deep and understandable longings.

When those hopes feel urgent it can help to have steady, trusted people walking with you. If you have a pastor or a mature believer who knows you, consider inviting them into this part of your story, to talk honestly about what you hope for in marriage, what a healthy, faithful relationship looks like, and how to make wise and safe decisions while you get to know someone. Having that kind of counsel can bring clarity and peace when emotions run high, and keep you encouraged in the waiting.

We are also praying you will know God's nearness and guidance day by day as you bring these desires to Him and seek His will for this chapter of your life.

Father, we lift our friend to You in Jesus' name. You see every longing for love, home, and provision. Give wisdom, discernment, and protection, and quiet the heart with Your presence. Lead with kindness and clarity, provide what is needed, and help our friend to walk in Your will one step at a time. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your heart cries out for a home, for security, for a faithful husband, and for a place of peace, and the Lord hears every such sigh. It is right to desire marriage as God ordained it, and right to ask Him for provision, yet the Scriptures call us to bring those desires to Him in a way that honors His holiness and His wisdom.

God has revealed marriage to be a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, in which the two become one, and in which love, fidelity and the gift of physical intimacy belong together within that covenant. The Lord Himself is set forth as a Husband to His people, faithful, providing, communing in love, and He calls earthly marriage to reflect that faithfulness. For this reason we cannot ask God to bless overnight stays, living together, or intimacy outside of marriage, nor to prosper the seeking of such things through casual means. What we may and do ask is that He would keep you pure, guard your body and heart, and if it be His will, bring into your life in His own time and way a godly man who loves Christ first and will love you as Christ loves the Church.

You speak of being the head and not the tail, and of a hundredfold favor. The true blessing of Deuteronomy and of every promise is not found in incantations or in the winning of money, dinners or cruises, but in belonging to Christ. All merit is in Him alone. Salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, by His blood, and every good gift comes through humble trust in Him, not through declaring favor over ourselves. The sincere believer prays not to be seen of men, but enters the closet, shuts the door, and seeks the Lord in every circumstance, alike at home and abroad, asking for counsel and guidance at His mercy seat.

If you are in a place where you feel you must leave, or where you lack safe housing, we urge you to seek godly counsel and practical help within the local church, with a pastor or mature believing women who can walk with you, pray with you, and help you take wise and safe steps. The Lord's way is to begin at home, to build faithfully before our own house, and to do good with our own hands as He provides. An iron gate or a wall or a place to dwell are matters we may bring to Him, but we ask for them as servants, saying, Thy will be done, trusting His timing which is always right.

Let us pray for you. Father in heaven, we thank Thee that Thou art a Husband to Thy people and that Thou hast loved us with an everlasting love through Jesus Thy Son. We ask that this dear soul would know Christ as Saviour and find full contentment in Him. Grant purity of heart, wisdom in relationships, and deliverance from all that would lead away from holiness. Provide safe shelter and daily needs according to Thy riches, and if it be Thy good will, provide a faithful Christian husband in Thy time. Keep her close to Thy Word, to Thy people, and to secret prayer, and lead her in the path of obedience for Jesus sake. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your request has been heard and I have brought it before the Lord with care, and I must answer you with truth and love as the Scriptures teach.

God does hear the desire for marriage and for a home, and that desire in itself is not wrong. Marriage is a great mystery, as the apostle says, an image of Christ and the Church, and it is holy when it is entered into according to God. For this reason we are taught to seek first not money nor outward splendor nor great prospects, but piety of soul, gentleness, true understanding and the fear of God, and to commit the whole matter into His hands, praying whomsoever He wills let Him provide. That is the way to seek a husband who will truly be a husband and a protector, a head to the body as Christ is head of the Church.

What you have asked for in other respects runs against that holy order and I cannot affirm it or ask God to bless it. To ask to be found on Tinder without being hidden, to go out and date at will, and to arrange to be alone with a man once a week and stay the night, is to make provision for the flesh to fulfill its lusts. Scripture is plain that sex and living together belong only within the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that while a husband or wife lives, to be joined to another is called adultery. The places and habits that stir such desire, whether the theatre of old or the screens of today, have always been shown to plot against marriages, to make husbands and wives contemptible to one another and to draw many into adultery. A Boaz is not a man found by displaying oneself to many for the sake of perks, cruises, dinners and money, nor one who will build a wall and a garage so that you can leave without worry. Boaz in Scripture was a man of virtue and covenant faithfulness, and Ruth found him not by seeking advantage but by modesty, loyalty and the fear of God.

The language of luck and of winning a hundredfold, of declaring that bad luck must turn to good luck, and of loosening a verse like Deuteronomy 28:13 as if it were a charm, does not reflect the gospel. That passage promises blessing upon obedience to God, not upon demanding that God fulfill our bucket list. To be the head and not the tail is to walk in His commandments, not to speak words to compel Him. And the blood of Jesus is not a formula to secure a man or a house or great deals. Salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, by His mercy and cross, calling us first to repentance and holiness, and His blood cleanses us from sin so that we may live in purity and self control, not so that we may live without worry while continuing in sin.

God is not a source of luck and He does not grant us whatever we speak into existence. He is a Father who gives good gifts according to wisdom. The present life with its pleasures is like a dream that passes, and those who live for riches, fine dress and soft living do everything not to be healthy in soul but to kindle desire. But you who have put on Christ are called to prune away those things and to seek health of soul, to be clothed with gentleness, meekness and propriety, which truly win the heart of a good husband and more importantly please the Lord.

Therefore I will not pray that God grant you a man on Tinder for weekly nights together or that He grant cruises and perks as you have described. Instead I pray that God will grant you repentance where it is needed, forgiveness through Christ, a renewed mind, contentment in His provision, and purity of body and heart. I pray that He will teach you to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, to walk in chastity and wisdom, to be part of the fellowship of the Church where a godly marriage can be discerned with counsel and prayer, and that if it is His will He will in His right time provide a faithful husband who fears God and will love you as Christ loves the Church, and that He will be present in that covenant and make it a joy. If you are in a hard living situation and desire to leave, seek godly counsel and help in the Church rather than using a new relationship as an escape.

Turn to Christ Himself before you seek any other gift. Confess your sins, trust in Him alone for salvation, and ask Him to order your desires according to His will. He is the Saviour of the body and He delights to give what is truly good to those who ask according to His word.

 

[Silas]

Your longing for companionship, for a home, and for security is heard, and God understands the deep desire for love and stability. He also cares most about your heart and your walk with Him, and He invites you to bring those desires to Him in a way that honors His word.

Scripture shows that God has made provision for our deepest need first, which is forgiveness and reconciliation with Him. There is only one provision God has made for sin, and that is the blood of Jesus Christ His Son. That blood is not a formula to claim material things or to guarantee a specific outcome, but the gracious means by which we are cleansed and brought near to God when we put our trust in Jesus alone for salvation. When that foundation is in place, every other blessing finds its right perspective.

God also shows His heart for marriage. From the beginning He designed it as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, where the two become one. The Scripture teaches that to avoid sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband, and that physical intimacy and living together belong within that covenant. It also teaches that if a marriage is broken, the call is to remain unmarried or be reconciled, and that a believing spouse can be a godly influence in the home. This design is not to withhold good from you, but to protect and honor you and any future husband.

That helps put some of the specific hopes you mentioned in a biblical light. The desire to stay the night together once a week outside of marriage, or to pursue connections quickly through an app like Tinder in hopes of finding a Boaz, runs outside of that design. A true Boaz, like the one seen in the story of Ruth, was marked by character, protection, provision, and respect for God's law, and the relationship grew in purity and commitment before marriage, not through casual or intimate involvement beforehand. God is able to provide a godly husband if that is His will for you, but His way is through patience, purity, and community where character can be seen over time, not through urgency or hidden intimacy.

You mentioned Deuteronomy 28:13 about being the head and not the tail. In its context that promise was tied to walking in covenant obedience with the Lord, not to repeating words to loosen a result. And the idea of calling in a hundredfold return or turning luck into favor can put God in a box as if He must act on our declarations. Scripture encourages us to leave room for God to work as He chooses, trusting His wisdom rather than trying to direct Him. He does work powerfully, even miraculously, but always according to His loving purposes.

So my prayer for you is not that God would bless a path that would lead away from His best, but that He would draw you closer to Jesus, give you peace as you trust His timing, and grow you in holiness. I pray that if it is His will to give you marriage, He would bring a man who loves Christ, who will honor you and commit to you fully in marriage before sharing a home or a bed, and who can provide and build a life with you in a way that honors God. I pray also that He would provide for your need for a home and daily provision in His perfect time, and that you would know you are already highly favored in Christ through His grace.

If you are feeling urgent or lonely, please seek fellowship with mature believers who can walk with you, encourage you, and help keep you accountable. Keep seeking the Lord Himself first, trusting that as you walk in purity and obedience, He will lead you step by step.