Rhietoriurford
Disciple of Prayer
My ### and her family try to break my relationship and speak bad about me to her family to break my relationship with a girl. Please God let my prayer defeat their demons words spoke out from their mouth.
My family feel so alone
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We hear your heartache and the deep pain of feeling isolated and targeted by those who should be sources of love and support. It is truly distressing when family members seek to undermine a relationship rather than nurture unity and godly love. We stand with you in this trial, lifting your situation before the Lord, who sees all and judges justly.
First, we must address the foundation of your request. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is by His authority that we pray. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit your life to following Him. This is the first and most critical step in any prayer or struggle, for without Christ, we have no standing before God.
Now, let us turn to the matter of your relationship. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). If this relationship is one that honors God—meaning it is between a man and a woman, pursued with purity, and with the intent of marriage—then we will stand with you in prayer for its protection and flourishing. However, if there are elements of this relationship that do not align with Scripture—such as premarital intimacy (fornication), ungodly influences, or a lack of commitment to Christ—we must lovingly but firmly address those issues. The Bible warns in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If your girlfriend is not a believer in Christ, this relationship cannot honor God and will only lead to further heartache.
We also must rebuke the spirit of division and slander that is at work in your family and hers. The Bible is clear that words have power, but they are not more powerful than God. Proverbs 18:21 says, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* Yet, we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of man or demon. In James 4:7, we are told, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* The enemy seeks to destroy relationships, families, and lives, but we do not fight against flesh and blood. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* We must put on the full armor of God and stand firm in prayer.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this brother and his relationship before You. We ask that You would reveal Your will clearly to him. If this relationship is one that honors You, we pray for Your divine protection over it. Shield it from the schemes of the enemy, from the words of those who seek to tear it down, and from any spirit of division or strife. Lord, soften the hearts of both families. Let them see the value of unity in Christ and the beauty of a godly relationship. If there are areas in this relationship that do not align with Your Word, we ask that You convict and correct with Your loving kindness. Lead them both to repentance and to a deeper walk with You.
Father, we rebuke every lying tongue and every demonic influence that seeks to sow discord. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship—or against this brother—shall prosper, for You are his defender (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for healing in both families. Mend broken relationships, Lord, and let Your love and truth prevail. Give this brother the strength to stand firm in faith, to speak life and not death, and to walk in wisdom and discernment.
Lord, we ask that You would surround him with godly counsel and community. Let him not feel alone, for You are with him always. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let him trust in Your timing and Your plans, which are for his good and Your glory (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also pray for his girlfriend. Draw her heart to You, Lord. If she does not know You as her Savior, we pray that she would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Let her be rooted in Your Word and surrounded by believers who will encourage her in her faith. If this relationship is not one that honors You, we ask that You would bring it to an end in a way that glorifies You and leads both of them to greater dependence on You.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness. We trust in Your promises and declare that Your Word will not return void (Isaiah 55:11). Strengthen this brother to walk in obedience to You, no matter the cost. Let him be a light in his family and a testimony of Your grace and power.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your church or community. Surround yourself with people who will pray for you, speak truth into your life, and hold you accountable. Remember, the enemy wants to isolate you, but God calls us into community. Do not face this battle alone.
Additionally, examine your own heart and actions in this relationship. Are you both pursuing holiness and purity? Are you both committed to Christ above all else? If not, it may be time to step back and seek the Lord’s guidance individually before moving forward. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."*
Lastly, do not repay evil for evil. Romans 12:17-21 instructs us, *"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’ Therefore ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.’ Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."* Trust God to be your defender and to bring justice in His time.
You are not alone. We stand with you in prayer, and we believe that God will work all things together for your good as you seek Him first.
First, we must address the foundation of your request. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is by His authority that we pray. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit your life to following Him. This is the first and most critical step in any prayer or struggle, for without Christ, we have no standing before God.
Now, let us turn to the matter of your relationship. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). If this relationship is one that honors God—meaning it is between a man and a woman, pursued with purity, and with the intent of marriage—then we will stand with you in prayer for its protection and flourishing. However, if there are elements of this relationship that do not align with Scripture—such as premarital intimacy (fornication), ungodly influences, or a lack of commitment to Christ—we must lovingly but firmly address those issues. The Bible warns in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If your girlfriend is not a believer in Christ, this relationship cannot honor God and will only lead to further heartache.
We also must rebuke the spirit of division and slander that is at work in your family and hers. The Bible is clear that words have power, but they are not more powerful than God. Proverbs 18:21 says, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* Yet, we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of man or demon. In James 4:7, we are told, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* The enemy seeks to destroy relationships, families, and lives, but we do not fight against flesh and blood. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* We must put on the full armor of God and stand firm in prayer.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this brother and his relationship before You. We ask that You would reveal Your will clearly to him. If this relationship is one that honors You, we pray for Your divine protection over it. Shield it from the schemes of the enemy, from the words of those who seek to tear it down, and from any spirit of division or strife. Lord, soften the hearts of both families. Let them see the value of unity in Christ and the beauty of a godly relationship. If there are areas in this relationship that do not align with Your Word, we ask that You convict and correct with Your loving kindness. Lead them both to repentance and to a deeper walk with You.
Father, we rebuke every lying tongue and every demonic influence that seeks to sow discord. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship—or against this brother—shall prosper, for You are his defender (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for healing in both families. Mend broken relationships, Lord, and let Your love and truth prevail. Give this brother the strength to stand firm in faith, to speak life and not death, and to walk in wisdom and discernment.
Lord, we ask that You would surround him with godly counsel and community. Let him not feel alone, for You are with him always. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let him trust in Your timing and Your plans, which are for his good and Your glory (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also pray for his girlfriend. Draw her heart to You, Lord. If she does not know You as her Savior, we pray that she would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Let her be rooted in Your Word and surrounded by believers who will encourage her in her faith. If this relationship is not one that honors You, we ask that You would bring it to an end in a way that glorifies You and leads both of them to greater dependence on You.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness. We trust in Your promises and declare that Your Word will not return void (Isaiah 55:11). Strengthen this brother to walk in obedience to You, no matter the cost. Let him be a light in his family and a testimony of Your grace and power.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your church or community. Surround yourself with people who will pray for you, speak truth into your life, and hold you accountable. Remember, the enemy wants to isolate you, but God calls us into community. Do not face this battle alone.
Additionally, examine your own heart and actions in this relationship. Are you both pursuing holiness and purity? Are you both committed to Christ above all else? If not, it may be time to step back and seek the Lord’s guidance individually before moving forward. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."*
Lastly, do not repay evil for evil. Romans 12:17-21 instructs us, *"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’ Therefore ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.’ Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."* Trust God to be your defender and to bring justice in His time.
You are not alone. We stand with you in prayer, and we believe that God will work all things together for your good as you seek Him first.
We're here with you, feeling the weight of the isolation and the pain caused by those who should be your support. It's heartbreaking when family members try to undermine your relationship, but remember, God sees all and He's right there with you. Here's what we want to say:
First, we're praying for you in Jesus' name. That's our foundation, our connection to the Father. If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He's the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him.
Now, about your relationship. If it honors God - meaning it's between a man and a woman, pursued with purity, and with the intent of marriage - then we're standing with you in prayer for its protection and growth. But if there are aspects that don't align with Scripture, like premarital intimacy or a lack of commitment to Christ, we need to lovingly address those. A relationship with an unbeliever can't honor God and will only lead to further heartache.
We also need to rebuke the spirit of division and slander at work in your family and hers. Words have power, but God is greater than any scheme of man or demon. We serve a God who can turn evil into good. So, let's resist the enemy and trust that God will work this out for your good.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up our brother and his relationship to You. Reveal Your will clearly to him. If this relationship honors You, shield it from the schemes of the enemy, from harmful words, and from any spirit of division or strife. Softening hearts, Lord, let both families see the value of unity in Christ and the beauty of a godly relationship. If there are areas that don't align with Your Word, convict and correct with Your loving kindness. Lead them both to repentance and a deeper walk with You.
Father, we rebuke every lying tongue and every demonic influence. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship, or against our brother, shall prosper. We pray for healing in both families. Mend broken relationships, Lord, and let Your love and truth prevail. Give our brother the strength to stand firm in faith, to speak life and not death, and to walk in wisdom and discernment.
Lord, we ask that You would surround him with godly counsel and community. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let him trust in Your timing and Your plans, which are for his good and Your glory.
We also pray for his girlfriend. Draw her heart to You, Lord. If she doesn't know You as her Savior, we pray that she would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. If this relationship doesn't honor You, we ask that You would bring it to an end in a way that glorifies You and leads both of them to greater dependence on You.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness. We trust in Your promises and declare that Your Word will not return void. Strengthen our brother to walk in obedience to You, no matter the cost. Let him be a light in his family and a testimony of Your grace and power.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
You're not alone. We're here praying with you, and we believe that God will work all things together for your good as you seek Him first. Trust in Him, and trust in His timing.
First, we're praying for you in Jesus' name. That's our foundation, our connection to the Father. If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He's the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him.
Now, about your relationship. If it honors God - meaning it's between a man and a woman, pursued with purity, and with the intent of marriage - then we're standing with you in prayer for its protection and growth. But if there are aspects that don't align with Scripture, like premarital intimacy or a lack of commitment to Christ, we need to lovingly address those. A relationship with an unbeliever can't honor God and will only lead to further heartache.
We also need to rebuke the spirit of division and slander at work in your family and hers. Words have power, but God is greater than any scheme of man or demon. We serve a God who can turn evil into good. So, let's resist the enemy and trust that God will work this out for your good.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up our brother and his relationship to You. Reveal Your will clearly to him. If this relationship honors You, shield it from the schemes of the enemy, from harmful words, and from any spirit of division or strife. Softening hearts, Lord, let both families see the value of unity in Christ and the beauty of a godly relationship. If there are areas that don't align with Your Word, convict and correct with Your loving kindness. Lead them both to repentance and a deeper walk with You.
Father, we rebuke every lying tongue and every demonic influence. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship, or against our brother, shall prosper. We pray for healing in both families. Mend broken relationships, Lord, and let Your love and truth prevail. Give our brother the strength to stand firm in faith, to speak life and not death, and to walk in wisdom and discernment.
Lord, we ask that You would surround him with godly counsel and community. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let him trust in Your timing and Your plans, which are for his good and Your glory.
We also pray for his girlfriend. Draw her heart to You, Lord. If she doesn't know You as her Savior, we pray that she would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. If this relationship doesn't honor You, we ask that You would bring it to an end in a way that glorifies You and leads both of them to greater dependence on You.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness. We trust in Your promises and declare that Your Word will not return void. Strengthen our brother to walk in obedience to You, no matter the cost. Let him be a light in his family and a testimony of Your grace and power.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
You're not alone. We're here praying with you, and we believe that God will work all things together for your good as you seek Him first. Trust in Him, and trust in His timing.
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