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We understand the deep pain you’re carrying—the weight of broken relationships, the sting of rejection, and the heavy burden of mental illness. These struggles are not unseen by God, and we want you to know that He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). It’s clear you’re crying out for help, and that is a good thing—it means your heart is still reaching for hope, even in the darkness.
First, let’s address something important: you mentioned asking God and *him* for forgiveness. We want to gently but firmly remind you that there is only **one** Mediator between God and man—the Lord Jesus Christ (1 Timothy 2:5). It is through **His name alone** that we find forgiveness, healing, and restoration. If you haven’t already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Savior. The Bible tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you’re unsure about this, we’d be honored to help you understand what it means to surrender your life to Christ—because true peace begins there.
Now, let’s speak to the wounds you’ve shared. The rejection from your father and the loss of friendship are painful losses, and grief is a natural response. But we must also ask: Are these relationships honoring to God? You mentioned a friend with whom you used "dotbe thebes"—if this refers to any form of divination, occult practices, or ungodly bonds (such as emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage), we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this. The Bible warns, *"Don’t turn to those who are mediums, nor to the wizards. Don’t seek them out, to be defiled by them. I am Yahweh your God"* (Leviticus 19:31, WEB). Any relationship or practice that contradicts God’s Word will only bring more bondage, not freedom. If this friendship was tied to sin, it’s better to mourn its loss than to cling to what dishonors God. Repentance—turning away from sin and toward Christ—is the path to true healing.
As for your mental illness and phobias, we want you to know that God is not surprised by your struggles. He sees your battles, and He is able to bring you through them. The apostle Paul pleaded with the Lord to remove his "thorn in the flesh," and God’s response was, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB). This doesn’t mean your pain is insignificant, but it does mean God’s strength can sustain you even in weakness. Have you sought godly counsel or medical help for your mental health? Wisdom often involves both prayer **and** practical steps. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."* Don’t walk this path alone—reach out to a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you.
Lastly, we want to speak life over you: **You are not defined by your father’s rejection, your past mistakes, or your struggles.** If you are in Christ, you are a **new creation** (2 Corinthians 5:17). Your identity is found in Him—beloved, chosen, and redeemed. Even if your earthly father has turned away, your Heavenly Father will **never** leave you or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Cling to that truth.
Now, let’s pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You collect every tear they’ve cried and hold their broken heart in Your hands. Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way—let them know beyond doubt that they are **loved by You**, not because of what they’ve done, but because of who You are. If they have not yet surrendered fully to Jesus Christ, we pray You would draw them to Yourself today. Open their eyes to see that salvation, healing, and true peace are found in **no other name** but Yours.
Father, we rebuke the spirits of rejection, fear, and despair that have taken hold. We declare that **perfect love casts out fear** (1 John 4:18), and we ask You to flood their heart with Your love. Break the chains of mental illness, Lord—bring clarity where there is confusion, peace where there is anxiety, and hope where there is despair. Guide them to godly counsel and medical help if needed, and surround them with believers who will speak life into them.
For the relationships that have been lost, we ask for Your redemption. If there is unrepentant sin, bring conviction and true repentance. If these relationships were tied to ungodly practices, sever those ties completely, Lord, and replace them with godly connections that point to You. Soften their father’s heart, if it aligns with Your will, but even if it doesn’t, let them find their worth in **You alone**.
Strengthen them, Lord, to walk in obedience, even when it’s hard. Remind them that You are their Father, their Healer, and their Redeemer. Give them the courage to seek help, to fight for joy, and to trust You one day at a time. We ask all this in the **powerful name of Jesus Christ**, our Savior and King. Amen."*
Friend, we urge you to **cling to Jesus** above all else. Read His Word daily—start with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) to see His love for you. Find a Bible-believing church where you can be discipled and surrounded by support. And if you ever feel like giving up, remember: **Your story isn’t over yet.** God is still writing redemption into your life. Keep fighting, keep praying, and keep your eyes on Him. You are **not** alone.
First, let’s address something important: you mentioned asking God and *him* for forgiveness. We want to gently but firmly remind you that there is only **one** Mediator between God and man—the Lord Jesus Christ (1 Timothy 2:5). It is through **His name alone** that we find forgiveness, healing, and restoration. If you haven’t already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Savior. The Bible tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you’re unsure about this, we’d be honored to help you understand what it means to surrender your life to Christ—because true peace begins there.
Now, let’s speak to the wounds you’ve shared. The rejection from your father and the loss of friendship are painful losses, and grief is a natural response. But we must also ask: Are these relationships honoring to God? You mentioned a friend with whom you used "dotbe thebes"—if this refers to any form of divination, occult practices, or ungodly bonds (such as emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage), we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this. The Bible warns, *"Don’t turn to those who are mediums, nor to the wizards. Don’t seek them out, to be defiled by them. I am Yahweh your God"* (Leviticus 19:31, WEB). Any relationship or practice that contradicts God’s Word will only bring more bondage, not freedom. If this friendship was tied to sin, it’s better to mourn its loss than to cling to what dishonors God. Repentance—turning away from sin and toward Christ—is the path to true healing.
As for your mental illness and phobias, we want you to know that God is not surprised by your struggles. He sees your battles, and He is able to bring you through them. The apostle Paul pleaded with the Lord to remove his "thorn in the flesh," and God’s response was, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB). This doesn’t mean your pain is insignificant, but it does mean God’s strength can sustain you even in weakness. Have you sought godly counsel or medical help for your mental health? Wisdom often involves both prayer **and** practical steps. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."* Don’t walk this path alone—reach out to a pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you.
Lastly, we want to speak life over you: **You are not defined by your father’s rejection, your past mistakes, or your struggles.** If you are in Christ, you are a **new creation** (2 Corinthians 5:17). Your identity is found in Him—beloved, chosen, and redeemed. Even if your earthly father has turned away, your Heavenly Father will **never** leave you or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Cling to that truth.
Now, let’s pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You collect every tear they’ve cried and hold their broken heart in Your hands. Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way—let them know beyond doubt that they are **loved by You**, not because of what they’ve done, but because of who You are. If they have not yet surrendered fully to Jesus Christ, we pray You would draw them to Yourself today. Open their eyes to see that salvation, healing, and true peace are found in **no other name** but Yours.
Father, we rebuke the spirits of rejection, fear, and despair that have taken hold. We declare that **perfect love casts out fear** (1 John 4:18), and we ask You to flood their heart with Your love. Break the chains of mental illness, Lord—bring clarity where there is confusion, peace where there is anxiety, and hope where there is despair. Guide them to godly counsel and medical help if needed, and surround them with believers who will speak life into them.
For the relationships that have been lost, we ask for Your redemption. If there is unrepentant sin, bring conviction and true repentance. If these relationships were tied to ungodly practices, sever those ties completely, Lord, and replace them with godly connections that point to You. Soften their father’s heart, if it aligns with Your will, but even if it doesn’t, let them find their worth in **You alone**.
Strengthen them, Lord, to walk in obedience, even when it’s hard. Remind them that You are their Father, their Healer, and their Redeemer. Give them the courage to seek help, to fight for joy, and to trust You one day at a time. We ask all this in the **powerful name of Jesus Christ**, our Savior and King. Amen."*
Friend, we urge you to **cling to Jesus** above all else. Read His Word daily—start with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) to see His love for you. Find a Bible-believing church where you can be discipled and surrounded by support. And if you ever feel like giving up, remember: **Your story isn’t over yet.** God is still writing redemption into your life. Keep fighting, keep praying, and keep your eyes on Him. You are **not** alone.
We're here with you, friend, feeling the weight of your heartache. Disownment from a parent, the loss of friendship, and the daily battle with mental illness - these are heavy burdens to carry. But remember, you're not alone. Jesus is right there with you, and He cares deeply about what you're going through.
We want to encourage you to keep crying out to God, even in the darkness. He hears you, and He's working in your life. As for forgiveness, we're reminded of the words of the apostle John, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Trust in Jesus, and He will forgive and heal.
Your dad's disownment must be incredibly painful, but it's important to remember that our identity is not found in our earthly relationships, but in Christ. As it says in Galatians 2:20, "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me." You are a child of God, loved and cherished by Him.
As for your mental health struggles, we want to remind you that God is with you in your battles. He sees your pain, and He's able to bring you through it. Don't hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional, and surround yourself with godly support. You're not alone in this fight.
Lastly, friend, we want to remind you of the words of Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has a purpose for your life, and He's working all things together for your good.
Let's pray together, asking God for strength, healing, and hope. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We want to encourage you to keep crying out to God, even in the darkness. He hears you, and He's working in your life. As for forgiveness, we're reminded of the words of the apostle John, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Trust in Jesus, and He will forgive and heal.
Your dad's disownment must be incredibly painful, but it's important to remember that our identity is not found in our earthly relationships, but in Christ. As it says in Galatians 2:20, "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me." You are a child of God, loved and cherished by Him.
As for your mental health struggles, we want to remind you that God is with you in your battles. He sees your pain, and He's able to bring you through it. Don't hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional, and surround yourself with godly support. You're not alone in this fight.
Lastly, friend, we want to remind you of the words of Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has a purpose for your life, and He's working all things together for your good.
Let's pray together, asking God for strength, healing, and hope. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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