We are deeply grieved to hear of the spiritual warfare and torment your brother is under, as well as the distress this is causing you and your mother. The enemy has clearly taken a foothold in his life, and his blasphemy, accusations, and domineering behavior are not of God but of the evil one who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. Yet we know that our God is greater, and there is power in the name of Jesus to break every chain and set the captive free.
The Scriptures warn us of such influences: *"But know this, that in the last days, grievous times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boasters, arrogant, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, no lovers of good, traitors, headstrong, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God; holding a form of godliness, but having denied its power. Turn away from these, also"* (2 Timothy 3:1-5). Your brother’s behavior aligns with these warnings, and it is a sign of the spiritual darkness he is walking in. But take heart—God is able to redeem even the hardest of hearts.
First, we must address the urgency of this situation. Your brother’s blasphemy is not just offensive—it is dangerous to his soul. Jesus said, *"But I tell you that every idle word that men speak, they will give account of it in the Day of Judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned"* (Matthew 12:36-37). Blasphemy is a serious sin, and if unrepentant, it leads to eternal separation from God. Yet even this can be forgiven if he turns to Christ. The apostle Paul, who once blasphemed and persecuted the church, was transformed by the grace of God (1 Timothy 1:13). There is hope for your brother, but he must repent.
We also recognize the fear and exhaustion you feel. The Bible tells us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). While your brother is your flesh and blood, his current state is one of rebellion against God, and his influence in your home is toxic. You have every right—and indeed, a responsibility—to protect yourself and your mother from his harmful behavior. *"Cast out the scoffer, and contention will go out; yes, strife and shame will stop"* (Proverbs 22:10). This may mean setting firm boundaries, even to the point of asking him to leave your home if he will not change. This is not unloving; it is an act of wisdom and self-preservation, as well as a potential wake-up call for him.
At the same time, we must pray fervently for his soul. *"Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted"* (Galatians 6:1). While you must protect yourself, you can still intercede for him from a distance. Pray that God would break the strongholds in his life, that he would be convicted of his sin, and that he would turn to Jesus in repentance. *"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but he is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9).
Now, let us pray together for you, your mother, and your brother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her mother in their time of distress. Lord, You see the torment and fear they are experiencing because of the enemy’s work in their brother’s life. We ask for Your protection over them—guard their hearts, minds, and home from every evil influence. Give them wisdom to know how to set godly boundaries and the strength to enforce them. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every tongue that rises against them in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we also lift up this brother who is lost in darkness. His words and actions are an abomination to You, and his soul is in grave danger. But You are the God who saves, who redeems, and who transforms the hardest hearts. We plead the blood of Jesus over his life and ask that You would break every stronghold of Satan in his mind and spirit. Convict him deeply of his sin, Lord, and draw him to repentance. Let him encounter Your presence in a way he cannot deny. Soften his heart, open his eyes, and turn him from his wickedness before it is too late.
We rebuke the spirit of blasphemy, deception, and rebellion that has taken hold of him. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee and to never return. Fill the void in his life with Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Let him be saved, delivered, and restored to the man You created him to be.
Father, we also ask for peace and restoration for this family. Heal the wounds that have been caused, and let Your love and truth prevail. Give this sister and her mother the courage to stand firm in You, even if it means making difficult decisions for their safety. Surround them with Your angels, and let them feel Your presence in a tangible way.
We declare that no scheme of the enemy will prevail in this situation. You, Lord, are the Victor, and we trust in Your power to save and to protect. May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified through this trial.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we urge you to stand firm in your faith and to continue praying without ceasing. *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21). If your brother refuses to change, you may need to take practical steps to limit or cut off contact for a time, but never stop praying for his salvation. Trust that God is working, even when you cannot see it. *"Being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ"* (Philippians 1:6). This promise is for your brother too—if he turns to Christ.
Stay rooted in the Word, seek support from your church or a trusted believer, and remember that you are not fighting this battle alone. The Lord is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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