My boys

[Nydarietown]

I have lost 3 of my boys in less than 2 yrs, the most recent yesterday, and I need support. Thank you so very much. God Bless?

 

[Articles]

We are deeply grieved with you in the loss of your three precious sons. The pain of such a profound loss is beyond words, and our hearts ache with yours as you walk through this valley of sorrow. The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Even when the weight of grief feels unbearable, God draws near to the brokenhearted. He sees your tears, collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8), and holds you in His loving arms.

We want to gently remind you that while your pain is real and valid, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not already, we encourage you to place your trust in Him, for He alone can bring true comfort, peace, and hope in the midst of such deep sorrow. He is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25), and those who believe in Him, though they die, yet shall they live.

We also want to lift up your sons before the Lord. If they knew Jesus as their Savior, we rejoice that they are now in the presence of the Lord, free from pain and sorrow. If they did not, we pray that in their final moments, they turned to Him and found salvation. We trust in God’s mercy and justice, knowing that He desires all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear mother who has endured the unimaginable loss of three sons. Lord, You are the God of all comfort, and we ask that You would wrap Your arms around her in this time of deep sorrow. Comfort her with Your presence, Lord, and remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted. Surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

Father, we pray for strength for each day, for the grace to face the waves of grief that come, and for the hope that only You can provide. Help her to cast her burdens upon You, for You care for her (1 Peter 5:7). Lord, we ask that You would bring people into her life who can walk alongside her, offering love, support, and encouragement. May she feel Your love through the body of Christ, the church.

We also pray for the souls of her sons. If they did not know You, Lord, we ask that You would have mercy on them and reveal Yourself to them in whatever way was possible. We trust in Your perfect justice and love. If they did know You, we rejoice that they are now in Your presence, free from pain and sorrow, and we look forward to the day when we will all be reunited in Your kingdom.

Lord, we ask that You would help her to hold onto hope, even when it feels impossible. Remind her that You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5) and that one day, there will be no more death, mourning, crying, or pain (Revelation 21:4). Until that day, Lord, be her strength, her refuge, and her peace. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to the promises of God’s Word. Psalm 73:26 says, "My flesh and my heart fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Even when your heart feels like it cannot go on, God is your strength. Allow yourself to grieve, but also allow yourself to receive the comfort that only He can give. Surround yourself with believers who can pray for you, support you, and remind you of God’s love. You are not alone in this journey.

If you have not already, we also encourage you to seek out a biblical, Christ-centered church community where you can find fellowship, prayer, and support. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we want to encourage you to let others walk with you in this time.

Lastly, we want to leave you with the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:4, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." May you feel that comfort in the days ahead, and may the Lord bless you with His peace.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so, so sorry. To lose one child is a weight that words can hardly carry; to lose three in such a short span is a sorrow we can only sit with quietly. Thank you for reaching out, even that small step takes courage when the pain is this raw, especially with the most recent loss only yesterday. Please know you are not alone in this, even when it feels that way.

Grief this fresh is not something to figure out or get through quickly. Right now, your only task is to breathe, to accept a glass of water, to let someone sit with you if you can. The intense psychological pain, the fog, the feeling that you are losing your mind, these are not signs of weakness but the normal, if agonizing, responses of a heart that loved deeply. Be patient with yourself in the days ahead. The shock may linger, and the emotions will come in unpredictable waves. There is no timetable for this, and no right way to mourn your sons.

One thing that can quietly anchor you later, when you are ready, is simply being with others who understand this specific road. A grief support group for parents who have lost children, like those offered through local hospices or programs like GriefShare, can be a place where you do not have to explain yourself. In the meantime, let your church family or trusted friends handle practical meals and daily details, even if you can only ask by text.

We are praying with you now.

Lord Jesus, hold this parent in the crushing darkness of this triple loss. When the pain is beyond screaming and the hours feel empty, be their breath and their shelter. Surround them with a few safe people who will not fill the silence with easy answers. Grant sleep when exhaustion comes, and in the long days ahead, slowly mend what is shattered. We ask for the mercy of Your presence, day by day, in Your name. Amen.

 

[Irourparr]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[pradmin]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

That one with a tearful eye, that poor bemoaning one, comfort ye, comfort ye. The old gospel of Jesus Christ has something to comfort the child of God. What, child of God, art thou at a loss for a topic to comfort the aching heart? It is better to be the most afflicted child of God than to be the happy worldling. If you can say, "Whatever grief I endure, yet I am a living child of God," then you have a wellspring of comfort. This is my comfort in my affliction, Your Word has quickened me.

Time is a wonderful healer, but there is a greater promise: you shall forget your misery, and remember it as waters that pass away. The rougher the road on earth, the better the rest above. So, poor tried child of God, believe this Divine message of comfort to your heart. You are just as much a child of God as the greatest saint. The tiniest child of God could not have been purchased with less than Jesus’ precious blood.

It was little prayer that brought you down; it is great prayer that will lift you up. God does not give the comfort we ask for by a distinct act, but He quickens us and so we obtain comfort. Comfort and constancy are put together, comfort alone is not sufficient, and constancy without comfort will not suffice. A lack of comfort is an evil thing, but He will not suffer you to be tempted above what you are able, that you may be able to bear it. Pray, "Lord, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me," but if it must not, then comfort me to bear it. He will not quench the smoking flax, nor break the bruised reed. Comfort, comfort, comfort, despair not.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Grief is the proper and human response to such a succession of wounds, and I do not counsel a heart of stone. Yet we must distinguish between the sorrow that works death and the sorrow that leads to life. It is not simply for the loss of relatives that Christ blessed those that mourn, but those who are pricked at heart, who take count of their own sins. Let us then grieve with a grief which is the mother of joy, and let us not rejoice with a joy which brings forth grief. Let us shed tears which are the seeds of great joy. For he who grieveth for his own faults, and confesseth them, rejoiceth. This is the great mystery: in your bitter cup, you may still rejoice in the Lord, for he who is in God rejoiceth alway. If scourging and bonds bring forth joy for His sake, what else can produce grief in us?

If grief befall thee, dive into the Scriptures as into a chest of medicines. Take thence comfort for your trouble, be it loss, death, or bereavement of relations. No man teacheth thee as they do. Do not ask what the departed gain by your state of mind; though we no way profit them, we shall profit ourselves. For he who grieveth thus on account of others will not pass by his own transgressions unwept. Let us then not be distressed as those without hope, but let us labor a little time upon the earth, that we may have continual enjoyment in heaven.

And in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known unto God. Do not neglect this, for it is a command. Touch no meal, undertake no small thing, until you have given thanks to Him who gives you all. The Lord is at hand.