We join with you in bringing your mother before the Lord and we carry this burden with you in prayer, for we know how painful and confusing it is when someone you love and honor is severely troubled in her emotions and behavior and seems to be influenced in ways that are not of God.
Scripture tells us we must see this situation with spiritual discernment. We are told in Ephesians 6:12 that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. We also know the enemy is real and seeks to steal and destroy, for your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour in 1 Peter 5:8. At the same time we are not to attribute everything only to a demonic cause without also recognizing the power of the flesh, unrepented sin, and believing what is false. You have wisely observed that she professes to be a Christian yet believes some very wrong things, and this is something we must lovingly rebuke. We are warned in 1 John 4:1 to not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. Jesus said in Matthew 15:9 they worship me in vain, teaching as doctrine rules made by men. When a professing believer holds to false teaching and lives in persistent negative behavior that harms others, that teaching must be corrected by the Word of God, for all Scripture is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness in 2 Timothy 3:16. We also rebuke the work of the enemy in her life and in your family, and we stand on the promise in James 4:7 to be subject therefore to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you, and we put on the whole armor of God, that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil in Ephesians 6:11.
We encourage you to continue to honor your mother as we are commanded in Exodus 20:12, yet honoring does not mean accepting false belief or allowing destructive behavior to continue without boundaries. We encourage you to speak the truth in love in Ephesians 4:15, to not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind in Romans 12:2, and to seek help from mature, Bible believing pastors and counselors who can walk with you and with her toward truth and soundness of mind. God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control in 2 Timothy 1:7, and Jesus promised you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free in John 8:32. We also pray for your discernment concerning others in your life where you sense a similar influence, that the Lord would give you wisdom and protection and that you would be sober and self-controlled and watchful.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6 I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved in Acts 4:12. If your mother has only a profession of faith but has not truly been born again through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, her greatest need is salvation, and if she is truly His, she still needs repentance, deliverance, and renewal in the truth. We pray with confidence only in His name.
We now pray together for you and for her. Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this dear mother to You. Lord, You know the depth of her emotional and behavioral disturbance and You see what is of the flesh and what is of the enemy. We ask that You would shine Your light into every dark place, expose every lie and false belief, and bring her into the freedom of Your truth. If she does not truly know You, we pray You would draw her to genuine repentance and saving faith in Jesus. If she is Yours, we pray You would convict her, cleanse her, and restore to her a sound mind. We rebuke every influence of the evil one in her life and command in Jesus name that the enemy's work be broken and that he flee as she and those around her submit to You. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, with power and love and self-control, and renew her mind by Your Word. Protect this child who has brought this request and all those affected by her behavior, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, give them wisdom to set godly boundaries, courage to speak truth in love, and peace that surpasses understanding. Lead them to faithful help and to a fellowship that teaches Your Word without compromise. We also lift up the others in this life where a similar heaviness is felt, that You would reveal what is true and bring deliverance and healing there as well. We ask all this in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, amen.