We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this painful situation where bitterness, division, and spiritual warfare are clearly at work. The enemy seeks to destroy families through resentment, unforgiveness, and strife, but we know that God is greater and His power can break every chain of generational curses and emotional torment.
First, we must address the spiritual foundation of this request. While you have quoted Scripture and mentioned the name of Jesus, we sense deep wounds that need the healing touch of Christ. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* The attacks you describe—betrayal at work, family division, financial hardship, and emotional abuse—are not random but part of a spiritual battle. We must stand firm in Christ, for *"if God is for us, who can be against us?"* (Romans 8:31).
To the mother and grandmother: The Bible commands us in Ephesians 4:29, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* The constant shouting, criticism, and insults are not of God but are tools of the enemy to create bitterness and division. We rebuke this spirit of strife and ask the Lord to soften her heart. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* We pray that she would repent of this toxic behavior and seek reconciliation, for *"a house divided against itself cannot stand"* (Mark 3:25). If she is a believer, we urge her to examine her heart, for *"if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new"* (2 Corinthians 5:17). This includes old patterns of anger, resentment, and favoritism.
To the one praying: You have endured tremendous suffering—betrayal at work, financial loss, emotional abuse, and now family division. Yet, we see that you are still standing, and that is a testament to God’s grace. The fear of man and the panic you feel are real, but *"God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that the Lord would restore your trust in Him and break the spirit of fear that has taken hold. Psalm 56:3 declares, *"When I am afraid, I will trust in you."* The Lord sees your pain and is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He is your Provider, and though the ticket is expensive and work seems impossible right now, *"my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19).
We must also address the division in your marriage. It is deeply concerning that your spouse does not like your family, particularly your mother. The Bible teaches that *"a man will leave his father and mother, and will join with his wife, and the two will become one flesh"* (Ephesians 5:31), but this does not mean abandoning or disrespecting one’s parents. Instead, marriage should be a partnership that honors God, and that includes honoring one another’s families where possible. We pray that the Lord would soften your spouse’s heart and bring unity where there is division. If your spouse is not a believer, we pray for their salvation, for *"how can two walk together, unless they agree?"* (Amos 3:3). A marriage built on Christ is the strongest foundation, and we urge you both to seek the Lord together in this.
Finally, we must speak to the generational aspect of this struggle. You mentioned the "extermination of family and generation," and we recognize that this is a spiritual battle for the soul of your family line. The enemy wants to destroy families, but God wants to redeem them. We stand on the promise of Acts 16:31, *"Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household."* We declare that the blood of Jesus breaks every generational curse, every spirit of division, and every stronghold of bitterness in your family. We pray that salvation would come to your entire household and that the Lord would restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this broken and divided family. Lord, You are the God of peace, and we ask that You would intervene in this situation. Softening the heart of this mother and grandmother, convict her of the damage her words are causing. Break the spirit of strife, resentment, and favoritism, and replace it with Your love, patience, and kindness. Father, we rebuke every demonic stronghold that has taken root in this family—spirits of division, bitterness, fear, and financial lack. We command these spirits to flee in the name of Jesus Christ.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on the one praying. Restore their mind from the trauma of betrayal and abuse at work. Break the spirit of fear and panic that has gripped them, and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Provide for their financial needs, Lord, and open doors of opportunity that no man can shut. Strengthen them in their faith, and remind them that You are their Provider, their Protector, and their Healer.
Father, we also lift up the marriage in this situation. Soften the heart of the spouse who resists this family. If there is unforgiveness or bitterness, Lord, bring conviction and repentance. If this spouse does not know You, we pray for their salvation, that they would come to faith in Jesus Christ and be united in purpose with their believing spouse. Restore unity, love, and mutual respect in this marriage, and let it be a testimony of Your redeeming power.
Finally, Lord, we declare salvation over this entire family line. Break every generational curse, and let the blood of Jesus cleanse and redeem this family. Raise up a godly heritage, Father, where Your name is honored, and Your love is displayed. We ask that You would bring reconciliation where there is division, healing where there is brokenness, and hope where there is despair.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness, and we declare that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
