Hyidarport
Disciple of Prayer
Please pray that this former friend will stop trying to get favors and or money from me or anyone else who is not her family. The disrespect is now too much.
Money exploitation
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We understand the heaviness of your heart in this situation, where a former friendship has turned into a burden of exploitation and disrespect. The Scriptures warn us about such relationships, where people take advantage of kindness for selfish gain. Proverbs 22:24-25 tells us, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While this verse speaks of anger, the principle applies to any harmful influence—including those who exploit others. Additionally, 2 Thessalonians 3:10 reminds us, *"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.'"* This underscores the biblical expectation that people should carry their own responsibilities rather than preying on the generosity of others.
It is clear that boundaries are necessary here, not just for your own well-being but also to avoid enabling sinful behavior. Jesus calls us to love others, but love does not mean allowing ourselves to be used or mistreated. In Luke 6:30, He says, *"Give to everyone who asks you,"* yet this must be balanced with wisdom and discernment. Proverbs 25:17 advises, *"Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you."* If this person is repeatedly overstepping, it is not unloving to set firm boundaries—it is an act of stewardship over the resources and peace God has entrusted to you.
We also encourage you to examine your heart in this matter. Have you, in any way, contributed to this dynamic by not addressing the issue sooner? Sometimes, our reluctance to speak truthfully can prolong unhealthy patterns. Ephesians 4:15 urges us to *"speak the truth in love,"* which may mean having a direct but compassionate conversation with this individual, making it clear that the exploitation must stop. If she is not family, you are under no biblical obligation to provide for her, especially if she is capable of working or supporting herself.
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this brother or sister to You, asking for Your wisdom and strength as they navigate this difficult relationship. Lord, You see the heart of this former friend who has turned to exploitation and disrespect. We ask that You convict her heart, Lord—let her see the error of her ways and repent. Soften her heart, Father, and lead her to a place of honesty, diligence, and self-sufficiency. Break the spirit of entitlement and manipulation that has taken root in her life.
For our brother or sister, we pray for courage and discernment. Give them the words to speak if confrontation is necessary, and grant them the peace to release this burden if it is time to walk away. Help them to set boundaries that honor You, Lord, and protect the resources You have given them. Let them not be weighed down by guilt or fear, but let them rest in the knowledge that they are acting righteously.
We rebuke any spirit of greed, laziness, or deceit that may be at work in this situation. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we declare that this cycle of exploitation is broken. Father, surround our brother or sister with godly counsel and support, and let them find comfort in Your provision.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You restore what has been lost—whether it is peace, trust, or even financial stability. Let this be a season of healing and growth, where our brother or sister learns to trust You more deeply as their Provider. May they also extend forgiveness, not because this person deserves it, but because You have called us to release bitterness and walk in freedom.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone has the power to transform hearts and bring justice. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek accountability and support from your church community or trusted believers. Sometimes, these situations require more than just prayer—they require action. If this person continues to harass you, it may be necessary to distance yourself entirely. Trust that God will honor your obedience as you seek to walk in His will. He is your Provider, and He will never leave you without the support you need. *"Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."* (1 Peter 5:7). Stay firm in your faith, and do not let this situation steal your joy or peace in Christ.
It is clear that boundaries are necessary here, not just for your own well-being but also to avoid enabling sinful behavior. Jesus calls us to love others, but love does not mean allowing ourselves to be used or mistreated. In Luke 6:30, He says, *"Give to everyone who asks you,"* yet this must be balanced with wisdom and discernment. Proverbs 25:17 advises, *"Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you."* If this person is repeatedly overstepping, it is not unloving to set firm boundaries—it is an act of stewardship over the resources and peace God has entrusted to you.
We also encourage you to examine your heart in this matter. Have you, in any way, contributed to this dynamic by not addressing the issue sooner? Sometimes, our reluctance to speak truthfully can prolong unhealthy patterns. Ephesians 4:15 urges us to *"speak the truth in love,"* which may mean having a direct but compassionate conversation with this individual, making it clear that the exploitation must stop. If she is not family, you are under no biblical obligation to provide for her, especially if she is capable of working or supporting herself.
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this brother or sister to You, asking for Your wisdom and strength as they navigate this difficult relationship. Lord, You see the heart of this former friend who has turned to exploitation and disrespect. We ask that You convict her heart, Lord—let her see the error of her ways and repent. Soften her heart, Father, and lead her to a place of honesty, diligence, and self-sufficiency. Break the spirit of entitlement and manipulation that has taken root in her life.
For our brother or sister, we pray for courage and discernment. Give them the words to speak if confrontation is necessary, and grant them the peace to release this burden if it is time to walk away. Help them to set boundaries that honor You, Lord, and protect the resources You have given them. Let them not be weighed down by guilt or fear, but let them rest in the knowledge that they are acting righteously.
We rebuke any spirit of greed, laziness, or deceit that may be at work in this situation. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we declare that this cycle of exploitation is broken. Father, surround our brother or sister with godly counsel and support, and let them find comfort in Your provision.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You restore what has been lost—whether it is peace, trust, or even financial stability. Let this be a season of healing and growth, where our brother or sister learns to trust You more deeply as their Provider. May they also extend forgiveness, not because this person deserves it, but because You have called us to release bitterness and walk in freedom.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone has the power to transform hearts and bring justice. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek accountability and support from your church community or trusted believers. Sometimes, these situations require more than just prayer—they require action. If this person continues to harass you, it may be necessary to distance yourself entirely. Trust that God will honor your obedience as you seek to walk in His will. He is your Provider, and He will never leave you without the support you need. *"Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."* (1 Peter 5:7). Stay firm in your faith, and do not let this situation steal your joy or peace in Christ.
We're here with you, friend, feeling the weight of this situation. It's tough when a former friendship turns into a burden, especially when it involves exploitation and disrespect. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you wisdom and courage to navigate this.
We want to echo what was shared earlier about setting boundaries. It's not unloving to protect what God has entrusted to you. In fact, it's an act of love for both you and the person involved. We're reminded of Matthew 7:6, "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces."
But let's also remember to keep our hearts soft. It's easy to feel resentful, but holding onto bitterness only hurts us. Let's ask God to help us extend grace, not because the person deserves it, but because Jesus has shown us that kind of love. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Let's keep praying together. Father, we ask that You give our friend the strength to stand firm in love and truth. Help them to set boundaries that honor You and protect them. We also pray for the person involved, that they would see the error of their ways and turn back to a path of honesty and integrity. Help us all to trust in Your provision, knowing that You are our ultimate Provider.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We want to echo what was shared earlier about setting boundaries. It's not unloving to protect what God has entrusted to you. In fact, it's an act of love for both you and the person involved. We're reminded of Matthew 7:6, "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces."
But let's also remember to keep our hearts soft. It's easy to feel resentful, but holding onto bitterness only hurts us. Let's ask God to help us extend grace, not because the person deserves it, but because Jesus has shown us that kind of love. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Let's keep praying together. Father, we ask that You give our friend the strength to stand firm in love and truth. Help them to set boundaries that honor You and protect them. We also pray for the person involved, that they would see the error of their ways and turn back to a path of honesty and integrity. Help us all to trust in Your provision, knowing that You are our ultimate Provider.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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