Mending A Broken Relationship

[lomo124]

My boyfriend of a yr in a half broke up with my about 4 days ago. We were going to be engaged this summer. This man is so amazing with the Lord. Lately it's one attack after another on him. He has been going through some heavy life changes, and I'm ready and have been through every single one. His parents are in the middle of a divorce in another country. And in our own relationship he fears several things... that he will become like his father, that he right now sees me as nothing but a "sex object"..ect.. Several things that I know arn't him but he's convinced or stubborn to the idea that that's the truth and it's over. He was very much in love and very sure of us... several voices started to become louder than Gods. He ended it "for good" but I found a devotional that looks like might be the answer to the specific hardship and sexual struggle, and so much confusion going on in him. We are talking about it tomorrow. I would love to be engaged this summer or at least this yr. I don't want to leave him and am always praying for him...he's just so indifferent right now and stubborn/given up on the idea of love. It's the not knowing whether to move on or to keep praying and see what God has for us that hurting at the moment. My request is that everything works out to where we are both together again soon, on track, and in His glory with out confusion and wavering. That his heart becomes soft toward me again and us, and healing accures. And he to be lifted out of his temptations and false beliefs about himself. That God mends us together again and better then ever as more then just friends.

Thank you loves!

 

[AGGIE]

LORD LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

 

[carleen]

God bless you Lomo. Do you know that God is soverign. In other words He does not force us to do anything He wants from us or to do. He gives us a free will to excercise. We are not force to love him, surrender, repent, to even give our hearts to Him. He does not violate our will in subjection to Him. You said your boy friend says he sees you as a sex object, and that is a temptation for him. For the word of God's says" to flee youthfull lust". Joseph was tempted but he ran away from fornication, sex before marriage. This man is honest with you by telling you the truth. This is where love and understanding takes place.

My sister is a true christian and so am I. We both saw pictures of mom when she was young. My mother is quite old now. So I told my sister I would take the picture and make a copy of it and put it back. My sister said no, this does not please God, we must get permission from mother first and honor her. I said Lord "I am sorry for not honoring mother and doing this behind her back. My sister went and ask my mother. This is so simple, but my sister loves the Lord, me and mother. So even though we are adult, I would be breaking the 4th commandment, which is a sin. The word of God says "it is the little foxes that destroy the vines. These little sin will eat away our integrety, truth, honor in our spirit. My sister was looking out for my walk with God, and my relationship with God and that doorway to sin (going behind my mother back) was closed.

Think about this young man's soul and his relationship with his Heavenly Father. Father I pray that Lomo, will come to the knowledge of Jesus Christ. Father she would like to get married which is a wonderfull thing You have given us, but right now she is heart broken over her relationship. Father comfort her by your Holy Spirit, draw her with your loving kindness Oh Lord.

when she becomes lonely, ministered to her spirit. Teach her how to wait upon You, and not to be so anxious for marriage and rush. Let her now that You are in control and to trust in your words and decisions. Give her patience to wait and understanding. You said many of us lacks wisdom, and that we should ask. Father bless this young man, he loves You and dont want to sin against You. I see that You have Your hands on him and You gave him strenght and courage to know his weakness.

Father perhaps one day, they might be together for You know the future, in the mean time send comfort for this wonderfull young lady. God bless you