Mending A Broken Relationship

[lomo124]

My boyfriend of a yr in a half broke up with me about 4 days ago. We were going to be engaged this summer. This man is so amazing with the Lord. Lately it's one attack after another on him. He has been going through some heavy life changes, and I'm ready and have been through every single one. His parents are in the middle of a divorce in another country. And in our own relationship he fears several things... that he will become like his father, that he right now sees me as nothing but a "sex object"..ect.. Several things that I know aren't him but he's convinced or stubborn to the idea that that's the truth and it's over. He was very much in love and very sure of us... several voices started to become louder than God's. He ended it "for good" but I found a devotional that looks like might be the answer to the specific hardship and sexual struggle, and so much confusion going on in him. We are talking about it tomorrow. I would love to be engaged this summer or at least this yr. I don't want to leave him and am always praying for him...he's just so indifferent right now and stubborn/given up on the idea of love. It's the not knowing whether to move on or to keep praying and see what God has for us that's hurting at the moment. My request is that everything works out to where we are both together again soon, on track, and in His glory without confusion and wavering. That his heart becomes soft toward me again and us, and healing occurs. And he to be lifted out of his temptations and false beliefs about himself. That God mends us together again and better than ever as more than just friends.

Thank you loves!

 

[AGGIE]

LORD LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

 

[carleen]

God bless you ###. Do you know that God is sovereign? In other words, He does not force us to do anything He wants from us or to do. He gives us a free will to exercise. We are not forced to love Him, surrender, repent, or even give our hearts to Him. He does not violate our will in subjection to Him. You said your boyfriend says he sees you as a sex object, and that is a temptation for him. For the word of God's says "to flee youthful lust." Joseph was tempted but he ran away from fornication, sex before marriage. This man is honest with you by telling you the truth. This is where love and understanding takes place.

My sister is a true Christian and so am I. We both saw pictures of mom when she was young. My mother is quite old now. So I told my sister I would take the picture and make a copy of it and put it back. My sister said no, this does not please God, we must get permission from mother first and honor her. I said Lord, "I am sorry for not honoring mother and doing this behind her back." My sister went and asked my mother. This is so simple, but my sister loves the Lord, me, and mother. So even though we are adults, I would be breaking the 4th commandment, which is a sin. The word of God says "it is the little foxes that destroy the vines. These little sins will eat away our integrity, truth, honor in our spirit. My sister was looking out for my walk with God, and my relationship with God and that doorway to sin (going behind my mother's back) was closed.

Think about this young man's soul and his relationship with his Heavenly Father. Father, I pray that ###, will come to the knowledge of Jesus Christ. Father, she would like to get married, which is a wonderful thing You have given us, but right now she is heartbroken over her relationship. Father, comfort her by your Holy Spirit, draw her with your loving kindness, Oh Lord.

When she becomes lonely, minister to her spirit. Teach her how to wait upon You, and not to be so anxious for marriage and rush. Let her know that You are in control and to trust in your words and decisions. Give her patience to wait and understanding. You said many of us lack wisdom, and that we should ask. Father, bless this young man, he loves You and does not want to sin against You. I see that You have Your hands on him and You gave him strength and courage to know his weakness.

Father, perhaps one day, they might be together for You know the future. In the meantime, send comfort for this wonderful young lady. God bless you.