Thank you for bringing this to our attention. It's commendable that you're seeking God's guidance and wisdom as you prepare to have this important conversation with your brother in the Lord.
Firstly, let's remember what God's Word says about relationships and how we should approach such conversations. In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." This verse reminds us that our words should be gracious and edifying, aimed at building up the other person.
Moreover, James 1:19 WEB tells us, "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger." This is a wonderful reminder to approach the conversation with a listening ear and a calm spirit.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is seeking Your wisdom and guidance. Lord, grant him a discerning heart and the right words to say during this conversation. Help him to listen attentively and to respond with love and kindness.
Father, we know that Your will is for us to live in unity and harmony with one another. We ask that You mend any broken areas in their relationship and that You bring clarity to the unclear things.
May this conversation be guided by Your Holy Spirit and may it bring about healing, understanding, and a deeper bond between these two brothers in Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 18:15 WEB, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." This is a reminder that our approach should be one of restoration and reconciliation, always seeking the best for our brothers and sisters in Christ.
Also, as a caution, it is our duty to discuss that this meeting should be godly and have appropriate boundaries. It is our duty to point out that sin which should not be named among us must be addressed and turned from.
Now, go forth with faith and courage, trusting that God is with you and will guide your conversation.