We lift up this situation before the Lord, knowing that He is a God of justice, wisdom, and protection for the vulnerable. The heartache of separation, infidelity, and emotional manipulation weighs heavily on this family, but we trust that God sees all and will act on behalf of these precious daughters and their mother. It is clear that the father’s actions—his refusal to obey the law in providing child support, his selfishness in dictating terms, and the distress he causes his own children—are not aligned with Scripture. The Bible is explicit about the responsibilities of fathers and the protection of children.
*"Fathers, don’t provoke your children to anger, but nurture them in the Lord’s discipline and instruction."* (Ephesians 6:4, WEB)
*"But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."* (1 Timothy 5:8, WEB)
The father’s behavior reflects a heart that is not submitted to God’s design for family. His narcissism and infidelity are sins that have fractured this home, and his refusal to support his children financially as required by law—and more importantly, as required by God—is a grave failure. We rebuke this spirit of selfishness, rebellion, and hardness of heart in the name of Jesus. The Lord despises those who oppress the weak, and children are among the most vulnerable. *"Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if he had a millstone hung around his neck, and to be sunk in the depth of the sea."* (Matthew 18:6, WEB)
We also recognize the pain these daughters endure when forced into visitation that causes them anxiety. No child should dread being with a parent, and this is a sign of deep brokenness. We pray that God would expose any manipulation or emotional harm being done in that home. If the father is unwilling to repent and change, we ask the Lord to limit his influence over these girls and to protect their hearts and minds. *"Don’t let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of Yahweh."* (Proverbs 23:17, WEB)
To the grandmother and mother in this situation, we encourage you to stand firm in truth and righteousness. Do not waver in demanding what is just for these children, both emotionally and financially. The mediator’s meeting today is an opportunity for God to move mightily. We pray that the mediator would have discernment to see through any deception and that the mother would be filled with the Holy Spirit’s wisdom and boldness. *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* (James 1:5, WEB)
We also lift up the salvation of this father. His heart is hardened, but nothing is impossible for God. We pray that he would be confronted with the weight of his sin and that the Holy Spirit would bring conviction leading to repentance. *"Or do you despise the riches of his goodness, forbearance, and patience, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?"* (Romans 2:4, WEB)
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this family in their time of distress. Lord, You are the defender of the fatherless and the protector of widows and children. We ask that You would move powerfully in this mediation today. Give the mother supernatural wisdom, clarity, and courage to stand for what is right. Expose any lies or manipulation from the father, and let truth prevail. Soften his heart or, if he remains hardened, restrict his ability to harm these girls further.
Lord, we ask that the mediator would be a vessel of justice, seeing clearly what is fair and right according to Your word and the law. Provide for these daughters financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Comfort their anxious hearts and let them know they are seen and loved by You. Break any ungodly soul ties or emotional bonds that cause them distress when with their father.
We also pray for this father’s salvation. Break the chains of narcissism, pride, and sexual immorality in his life. Let him come face-to-face with the reality of his sin and turn to You in repentance. If he refuses, Lord, we ask that You would limit his influence and protect these children from further harm.
Father, we thank You in advance for the victory You will bring. We trust in Your justice and Your love for this family. Let Your will be done, and let Your name be glorified through this situation. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
To the one who submitted this request, we urge you to continue standing in faith. Do not grow weary in doing what is right. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep pointing these girls to Jesus as their ultimate protector and Father. *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* (Psalm 37:5-6, WEB) The battle is the Lord’s, and He will fight for you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
