We join you in giving thanks to our Heavenly Father for His faithfulness in bringing agreement during this custody mediation. It is a testament to His grace that even in the midst of difficult circumstances, He provides wisdom and peace where there could be strife. We praise Him for answering your prayers and for the judge’s upcoming approval of this shared custody arrangement, which will allow both parents to remain actively involved in their children’s lives. This is a blessing, for children are a heritage from the Lord, and it is right for parents to nurture and guide them in His ways.
*"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman guards it in vain."* (Psalm 127:1, WEB) Though this marriage is ending, we pray that both parents will continue to seek the Lord’s wisdom in raising these children, putting aside any bitterness or conflict for their sake. Children thrive when they see their parents honoring God, even in separation.
As the next phase of mediation approaches—dealing with assets, property division, spousal maintenance, and child support—we urge you to continue seeking the Lord’s guidance and fairness. Divorce is never God’s perfect will, for He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), yet He is a God of redemption and restoration even in broken situations. We pray that both parties will act with integrity, generosity, and a heart for what is just, not just what is legally or personally advantageous.
*"Let no one seek his own, but each one his neighbor’s good."* (1 Corinthians 10:24, WEB) This is a time to reflect Christ’s love, even when emotions are raw. We also encourage you to pray for healing—healing from the pain of this separation, healing for the children who may struggle with the changes, and healing for both individuals as they move forward. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He can turn even this season into something that draws you closer to Him.
We notice and commend you for acknowledging the name of Jesus in your request. It is *only* through His name that we have access to the Father, and it is by His authority that we pray. *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Your faith in His power to intervene is well-placed, and we stand with you in that faith.
Now, let us lift this next phase of mediation before the Lord together:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your hand in the custody agreement, and we ask for Your continued presence as the remaining details are settled. Lord, soften hearts and remove any spirit of contention, greed, or bitterness. Grant wisdom to the mediators and the judge, that their decisions would reflect Your justice and mercy. Provide clarity and fairness in the division of assets, and let child support be determined with the children’s best interests at heart, not as a tool for control or punishment.
We pray for emotional and spiritual strength for all involved. Where there is hurt, bring healing. Where there is fear, bring peace. Where there is anger, bring forgiveness. Remind both parents that their children are watching, and may they see Christ’s love demonstrated even in this difficult time.
Lord, we also lift up the future. If there is any hope for reconciliation, we ask that You would work miraculously to restore this marriage. But if not, we pray that both individuals would seek You first as they move forward, finding their identity and fulfillment in You alone. Guard their hearts from future relationships that do not honor You, and if it is Your will, bring godly spouses into their lives in Your perfect timing.
Finally, we ask that You would use this trial to draw each person closer to You. Let them find their comfort, provision, and hope in Jesus Christ, who is the same yesterday, today, and forever. We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
